{"id":18052,"date":"2020-04-26T06:29:10","date_gmt":"2020-04-26T06:29:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18052"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:40:38","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:40:38","slug":"aqui-estao-6-coisas-que-deves-saber-antes-de-te-tornares-namorado-dela","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/aqui-estao-6-coisas-que-deves-saber-antes-de-te-tornares-namorado-dela\/","title":{"rendered":"Aqui est\u00e3o 6 coisas que deves saber antes de te tornares namorado dela"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Conheceu uma rapariga. E assume que ela \u00e9 igual a todas as outras raparigas que conheceu na sua vida. Mas acredita em mim - est\u00e1s mais do que enganado.<\/p>\n<p>Esta rapariga \u00e9 \u00fanica e isto \u00e9 algo de que precisa de estar ciente antes de pensar em tornar-se seu namorado.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">1. She\u2019s been through a lot<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>A primeira coisa que precisa de saber antes de pensar em sair com esta rapariga \u00e9 que <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theodysseyonline.com\/letter-from-the-girl-whos-been-through-lot\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">she\u2019s been through a lot<\/a> no passado dela. N\u00e3o estou a dizer-lhe isto para o assustar, mas \u00e9 algo que precisa de saber antes de iniciar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o com ela.<\/p>\n<p>Men in her past betrayed her, hurt her feelings and did everything in their power to cause her pain. She\u2019s been used and taken advantage of more times than she can count.<\/p>\n<p>Esta rapariga foi sempre tomada como garantida e nunca foi suficientemente apreciada. O seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o foi partido mais do que uma vez e isso \u00e9 algo com que ter\u00e1s de lidar se quiseres ser o seu namorado.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o estou a dizer que vai ter de pagar por tudo o que estes tipos lhe fizeram, estou apenas a dizer-lhe para n\u00e3o ser igual a toda a gente.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">2. Ela \u00e9 insegura<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>All of the things that she\u2019s been through changed the essence of who she is and made her a different person. All of these men made her wonder why she wasn\u2019t enough and tried to convince her that everything that was wrong in their relationship was exclusively her fault.<\/p>\n<p>They made her question all of her values and beliefs and shook her confidence. Instead of boosting her self-esteem, all of these guys manipulated her into thinking she wasn\u2019t worthy enough and fed her insecurities because that made her a better victim for their abuse.<\/p>\n<p>Isto f\u00ea-la questionar n\u00e3o s\u00f3 o seu valor, mas tamb\u00e9m as inten\u00e7\u00f5es de todos os que se aproximam dela. Tudo isto causou-lhe grandes problemas de confian\u00e7a e f\u00ea-la pensar mal de si pr\u00f3pria.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">3. But it doesn\u2019t mean she is weak<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>But all of this didn\u2019t make her weak. These men <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/o-que-e-que-eu-quero\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">broke her heart but they didn\u2019t manage to break her<\/a> and that is her biggest success. Although she doesn\u2019t know it, everything that she\u2019s been through actually made her stronger than she ever was.<\/p>\n<p>She survived some things she thought she could never overcome. And although all of the men in her life changed her, they didn\u2019t kill her spirit. Instead, she saw how powerful and strong she really is and she realized that there doesn\u2019t exist anyone who could destroy her completely.<\/p>\n<p>Now, she is ready to face all of life\u2019s difficulties stronger than ever. That means that you shouldn\u2019t even try to put her down or to abuse her in any way because trust me, that is something she won\u2019t put up with.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">4. She doesn\u2019t ask for much<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Another thing you need to know about this woman before you become her boyfriend is that she doesn\u2019t ask for much. She doesn\u2019t need anything material and she won\u2019t expect expensive gifts and fancy dinners.<\/p>\n<p>She won\u2019t be possessive and will never try to control you nor will she try to invade your personal space or integrity. Instead, the only things she will ask for are your love and attention and she is not ready to settle for less than that.<\/p>\n<p>And if you think that this is something you can\u2019t give to her, maybe it\u2019s time to walk away this instant.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">5. Ela precisa de paci\u00eancia<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>But just because she doesn\u2019t ask for much, it doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019ll have it easy with her. As you already know, she\u2019s been through a lot and she lost trust in the people around her.<\/p>\n<p>It means that you\u2019ll have to be extremely patient to tear down the thick and high walls she\u2019s been building for years. I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014it will take you a lot of energy, time and effort to get to this girl.<\/p>\n<p>E estou aqui para vos dizer que ser\u00e1 dif\u00edcil lidar com ela e que ser\u00e1 um desafio lidar com ela. Mas \u00e9 isso que a distingue de todas as outras raparigas e \u00e9 isso que a torna especial e \u00fanica.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">6. Ela dar-te-\u00e1 toda a sua<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>After everything you\u2019ve found out, you probably think that this girl is too much for you to handle and that she is <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/peco-desculpa-se-a-minha-ansiedade-me-torna-dificil-de-amar\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">dif\u00edcil de amar<\/a>. E n\u00e3o estou aqui para tentar provar que est\u00e1s errado.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, you will need to invest a lot of your time, energy and patience if you want to be with this girl. But trust me on one thing\u2014she will definitely be worthy of everything.<\/p>\n<p>If you treat her right, this girl will give you all of her. If you love and respect her enough, you will get even more in return. This woman will love you unconditionally, and you\u2019ll see that she is more than worthy.&nbsp;<!--\/codes_iframe--> <!--codes_iframe--> <!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You\u2019ve met a girl. And you assume that she is the same as every other girl you\u2019ve met in your life. But trust me\u2014you are more than wrong. This girl is one of a kind and this is something you need to be aware of before you think of becoming her boyfriend. 1. 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