{"id":18082,"date":"2020-05-26T12:37:53","date_gmt":"2020-05-26T12:37:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18082"},"modified":"2022-02-27T01:59:37","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T01:59:37","slug":"nao-te-perdoo-por-me-fazeres-sentir-que-nao-sou-suficientemente-boa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-te-perdoo-por-me-fazeres-sentir-que-nao-sou-suficientemente-boa\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o Te Perdoo Por Me Fazeres Sentir Que N\u00e3o Sou Suficientemente Bom"},"content":{"rendered":"

I just wanted someone who\u2019ll love me the way I deserved to be loved<\/strong>.<\/a> <\/em><\/p>\n

I wanted a man who will see me for who I am and who\u2019ll decide I\u2019m worthy of his love. I wanted a man who will not project his issues on me and who\u2019ll add value to my life.<\/p>\n

I wanted someone who\u2019ll know my worth.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n

I wanted a man who\u2019ll see what I do in my life and who\u2019ll support me. I wanted a man who\u2019ll respect me and who\u2019ll see me as a person that can add value to his life.<\/p>\n

I wanted someone who won\u2019t just see me for my flaws and mistakes<\/strong>.<\/em><\/p>\n

I wanted someone who will see that my good sides always outnumber those bad ones. I wanted someone who won\u2019t make me feel like I\u2019m crazy, who will not play with my heart and my trust.<\/p>\n

I wanted someone who\u2019ll see me as a human and still decide to love me.<\/p>\n

Queria que f\u00f4ssemos uma equipa.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n

Queria que estiv\u00e9ssemos l\u00e1 um para o outro. Queria que me apoiasses tanto quanto eu apoio a ti. Queria saber que podia contar contigo tanto quanto tu podias contar comigo.<\/p>\n

Because I would\u2019ve always come when you needed me. I would\u2019ve been there for you for forever. But you decided to not be there for me.<\/p>\n

Em vez de lutares por mim e me protegeres de todas as coisas m\u00e1s, foste o maior mal que me aconteceu.<\/p>\n

Em vez de lutar por mim, lutou comigo.<\/strong><\/a> Lutaste contra mim e continuaste a bater-me.<\/p>\n

I did not want this. I didn’t sign up for any of it.<\/p>\n

Ao apaixonar-me por ti, deixei de gostar de mim.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Eu queria-te a ti e queria todas essas coisas para n\u00f3s. Os meus desejos sa\u00edram-me horrivelmente pela culatra. Queimei-me com esses desejos porque, de todas as coisas que queria, tu eras aquela que nunca deveria ter desejado.<\/p>\n

But I couldn\u2019t\u2019ve known things would end up like this.<\/p>\n

Under your constant \u2018bringing downs\u2019, I forgot who I was.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n

\"N\u00e3o<\/p>\n

I forgot all my values and I forgot I was once worthy. I started believing I was nothing and I settled down. I thought you knew me best and if you said I was nothing, I must\u2019ve been nothing.<\/p>\n

There isn\u2019t a thing in this world you haven\u2019t used to bring me down. You were never choosy when it came to tools you\u2019d use to make me feel bad about myself. The more it hurt me, the better it was, right?<\/p>\n

You kept doing mean things to me and you kept making me feel like I\u2019m crazy for even thinking you\u2019d do bad things to me.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n

You were just trying to help me, wasn\u2019t that what you always said? Well, as if! You weren\u2019t helping me, you were tearing me apart until I finally fell out of love with myself. Until I finally saw myself with your eyes. Until you convinced me I wasn\u2019t worthy of being loved.<\/p>\n

Nenhuma rapariga deve sentir-se indigna de ser amada. <\/a>She should never feel like she isn\u2019t good enough.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t only see me as someone who isn\u2019t good enough, fez-me sentir que n\u00e3o sou suficientemente bom<\/a>. Este sentimento ficou gravado nos meus ossos durante muito tempo.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

You made me feel like I\u2019m not good enough and I let you. I wanted to love you, but you weren\u2019t capable of loving me.<\/p>\n

Eu queria ser tua amiga, mas tu eras um daqueles tipos que s\u00f3 sabiam apunhalar os amigos pelas costas. E embora eu amasse, esse amor era errado. E tu eras um tipo errado. N\u00e3o fazes ideia de como estavas errado.<\/p>\n

I should\u2019ve been able to lean on you, but in leaning on you, I crashed down and hit the ground so hard. You made me not want to wish anyone of anything anymore for as long as I am alive.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Arrependo-me de te ter tido na minha vida. Sim, foste uma li\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> and I\u2019ll know better next time, if I ever decide to try and love again, but you were that one lesson in life I wished I could have skipped somehow. Unfortunately, now it\u2019s too late to do anything about it.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 queria que soubesses que, independentemente do tempo que passe, independentemente de eu ter algu\u00e9m novo na minha vida, independentemente de te arrependeres ou n\u00e3o de me teres feito tudo isto, I don\u2019t and I will never forgive you for making me feel like I\u2019m not good enough<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nunca te vou perdoar<\/a> por me fazer odiar os meus desejos.<\/p>\n

Nunca te perdoarei por n\u00e3o teres lutado por mim.<\/p>\n

Nunca te perdoarei por n\u00e3o me amares ou por usares o meu amor.<\/p>\n

Nunca te perdoarei por me teres feito duvidar de mim pr\u00f3pria e esquecer os meus valores.<\/p>\n

I don’t forgive you for bringing me down.<\/p>\n

I don’t forgive you, and I will never be able to forgive you, for making me feel like I’m not good enough.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, I don’t want anyone to do to you what you did to me because I don’t think you’d be capable of enduring the pain you\u2019ve put me through. <\/strong><\/p>\n

You would not survive the broken soul and broken heart. You’re not as strong as I am. And you will never be. This is my only consolation. <\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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