{"id":18103,"date":"2020-05-27T06:39:45","date_gmt":"2020-05-27T06:39:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18103"},"modified":"2021-10-28T13:45:59","modified_gmt":"2021-10-28T13:45:59","slug":"isto-e-o-que-tens-de-fazer-quando-ele-escolhe-outra-mulher","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/isto-e-o-que-tens-de-fazer-quando-ele-escolhe-outra-mulher\/","title":{"rendered":"Isto \u00e9 o que tens de fazer quando ele escolhe outra mulher"},"content":{"rendered":"

L\u00e1 estava voc\u00ea, no auge da sua vida, completamente vivo. Estavam apaixonados e pensavam que nada vos poderia separar, certo?<\/p>\n

Nunca houve necessidade de ci\u00fames, porque os ci\u00fames s\u00e3o um sinal de inseguran\u00e7a e tu estavas t\u00e3o confiante que ningu\u00e9m poderia quebrar o amor que sentias por ti.<\/p>\n

Mas, de alguma forma, o teu amor por ele era mais forte. Era hipnotizante e maravilhoso.<\/p>\n

At\u00e9 que ele escolheu outra mulher.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00c9 nesta altura que se come\u00e7am a colocar quest\u00f5es como: Ser\u00e1 que alguma vez fui suficientemente bom? Sou in\u00fatil?<\/p>\n

Is she better than I am? Why? But you won’t get the answers to these questions because none of these things matter anymore\u2014he’s gone and you need to move on.<\/p>\n

Quando ele escolhe outra mulher, tens toda a liberdade para chorar.<\/strong> Cry it out. You will feel much better afterward, when you know that you haven’t been holding it inside you for too long.<\/p>\n

Just make sure that he doesn’t see your tears. He isn’t worthy of looking at those wonderful, sparkly eyes ever again and he doesn’t deserve to know that he inflicted pain on the only woman who wanted to make him happy.<\/p>\n

Quando ele escolher outra mulher, perdoa-te a ti pr\u00f3pria.<\/strong> It’s not your fault.<\/p>\n

I know that it’s hard to believe that it wasn’t something you did that drove him away but rather that he wasn’t the right man for you.<\/p>\n

He wasn’t worthy of you in the first place, so why do you need to take the blame for it? Don’t. Forgive yourself, if you have anything to forgive.<\/p>\n

Quando ele escolher outra mulher, perdoa-lhe.<\/strong> He probably didn’t know better than this.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

He didn’t realize what he was losing<\/a> naquele momento em que ele a escolheu e, mesmo que o fizesse, guardar rancor seria in\u00fatil.<\/p>\n

Uma vez li que estar zangado com algu\u00e9m \u00e9 como beber veneno mas esperar que a outra pessoa morra.<\/p>\n

Quando ele escolher outra mulher, ama-te a ti pr\u00f3pria.<\/strong> \u00c9 preciso amarmo-nos sempre a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios, mas esta \u00e9 a altura em que mais precisamos.<\/p>\n

Love yourself unconditionally and don’t depend on other people to love you.<\/p>\n

You don’t need a man in your life to feel loved and appreciated, you only need yourself. You really are your own hero in these situations.<\/p>\n

When he chooses another woman, don’t blame her.<\/strong> Love doesn’t choose its victims, love just loves. If those two fell in love then holding grudges against her won’t help you heal.<\/p>\n

In this case, they’re better off together because you finally know who the people you can count on are and who the people who will stab you in the back when they see the opportunity are.<\/p>\n

Quando ele escolher outra mulher, concentre-se em si.<\/strong> Concentre-se nos seus sonhos e em tudo o que os acompanha.<\/p>\n

I know that it might seem like you’re running away from reality but you’re actually creating a new one.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 a criar uma vida que \u00e9 feliz por viver<\/a>. Viaje, conhe\u00e7a novas pessoas, termine aquele projeto. \u00c9s uma mulher forte e independente. Abra\u00e7a-a!<\/p>\n

When he chooses another woman, don’t get even.<\/strong> A melhor vingan\u00e7a \u00e9 seguir em frente.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

He will only see that you still care too much about him and he doesn’t deserve to see you angry because of him.<\/p>\n

D\u00ea-lhe o ombro frio e siga em frente. Depois disso, sentir-se-\u00e1 em paz.<\/p>\n

Quando ele escolher outra mulher, deixa-o ir.<\/strong> Let go of everything that doesn’t serve you anymore.<\/p>\n

Keep the good memories and the lessons you’ve learned because they will make you stronger but you don’t have to hold on to him and the feelings you had.<\/p>\n

Deixe-se ir e liberte-se de tudo o que aconteceu. Estar\u00e1 a fazer um enorme favor a si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

Don’t dwell and don’t fall apart again. He chose her and that was his decision. You have nothing to do with it. <\/strong><\/p>\n

You are lovable and you are worthy of love and appreciation, it’s just that he wasn’t able to give you what you deserved.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Isto<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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