Ao contr\u00e1rio de um verdadeiro cavalheiro, ele deixa-te fazer todo o trabalho pesado. Tens de fazer um esfor\u00e7o, enquanto ele nem sequer levanta o dedo mindinho.<\/p>\n
Tu inicias a conversa nove em cada dez vezes. Tu combinas encontros. Planeiam os vossos fins-de-semana. J\u00e1 reparaste que est\u00e1s a fazer muita coisa e voc\u00eas ainda agora come\u00e7aram?<\/p>\n
Of course, it\u2019s OK to initiate a conversation and plan things but if you are the only one doing it and he just goes with the flow, he is just playing the field and not so into you.<\/p>\n
Se fosse, esfor\u00e7ar-se-ia, faria a sua parte.<\/p>\n
The famous, \u201cI am so freaking busy,\u201d excuses. They probably make you want to roll your eyes every time you hear them but you play along, you let it slide, even though deep down you know nobody is that busy.<\/p>\n
Look at it from your own perspective\u2014you are never too busy for the people you care about. You make time, no matter how little it may seem, you do your best. That\u2019s why it shouldn\u2019t be a problem for him to make time for you if he cares.<\/p>\n
If he is, \u201cSuper busy,\u201d all the time in the beginning, just imagine how \u201cBusy,\u201d he will be in the future.<\/p>\n
If your encounters have limitations like only at night, in the middle of the night, only his place or yours, only some remote places (where there\u2019s only a small risk of bumping into somebody either of you knows), he is up to no good.<\/p>\n
H\u00e1 alguns cen\u00e1rios prov\u00e1veis. O primeiro \u00e9 que ele s\u00f3 est\u00e1 nisto pelo sexo, o segundo \u00e9 que \u00e9s o seu plano de reserva<\/a> e a \u00faltima \u00e9 que \u00e9s uma mi\u00fada de programa sem o saberes.<\/p>\n He doesn\u2019t respect your religious views or any of your other beliefs. He doesn\u2019t respect your heritage or what you stand for.<\/p>\n He doesn\u2019t have to be the same as you but he has to respect who you are and where you come from, that\u2019s not something that should be ignored.<\/p>\n He sees no place for compromise and adjustment, he only cares about his well-being. So, he would never go out to lunch with your relatives, stay home when you are feeling down, watch a movie he doesn\u2019t like and so on.<\/p>\n Those \u2018little big\u2019 things that show that he is willing to do something that is unlike him are the ones that show real affection and emotions and he is lacking them.<\/p>\n Ou apresent\u00e1-la aos dele, j\u00e1 agora. Conhecer amigos \u00e9 importante, as suas opini\u00f5es contam, especialmente no in\u00edcio da rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Eles s\u00e3o uma parte integrante da sua vida.<\/p>\n Mas, de alguma forma, ele n\u00e3o aproveita a oportunidade de conhecer os seus amigos e nem sequer lhe passa pela cabe\u00e7a apresentar-lhe os dele.<\/p>\n He is not in it for the long haul so he isn\u2019t concerned with you guys making spots in each other\u2019s life.<\/p>\n He hasn\u2019t even made an effort to get to know you properly but he already sees some faults in your behavior.<\/p>\n He stresses the things you should be doing differently and nothing you do ever seems right. He shouldn\u2019t be making you this self-conscious.<\/p>\n Este \u00e9 um sinal de alerta importante de um psicopata emocional<\/a> que nunca deves ignorar. Ele n\u00e3o tem o direito de fazer isso e o facto de querer mudar-te tem mais a ver com ele do que contigo.<\/p>\n When you are in love you don\u2019t see flaws that early on, you only concentrate on the good stuff. On the other hand, he is not perfect either and you are probably looking at him as though he is. If he is making you feel like you have to change right at the beginning, imagine how much worse things will get as the relationship progresses.<\/p>\n Ele est\u00e1 a jogar quente e frio. D\u00e1-nos toda a aten\u00e7\u00e3o e depois afasta-se. Num minuto est\u00e1 l\u00e1 e no outro n\u00e3o est\u00e1 em lado nenhum.<\/p>\n Espera muito tempo antes de responder \u00e0s mensagens. Ele tem um olhar perdido quando outras raparigas est\u00e3o por perto e gosta de a ver com ci\u00fames.<\/p>\n He is not ready for a relationship or any sort of commitment and he isn\u2019t going to change any time soon.<\/p>\n He always makes a mountain out of a molehill. He has this urge to always be right and prove you wrong, like it\u2019s some kind of competition he needs to win.<\/p>\n He forgets it\u2019s not the problems, arguments and small fights that matter.<\/p>\n It\u2019s never about winning or losing, it\u2019s about the two of you working together to solve some problem or agreeing to disagree. If he puts these petty wins above you, he is not the one for you.<\/p>\n Estes deveriam ser os teus dias mais felizes. \u00c9 a altura em que devia estar nas nuvens e a sonhar acordada e, em vez disso, passa os dias \u00e0 espera que ele lhe envie uma mensagem, que arranje tempo, e fica preocupada, perturbada e triste.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t know where you stand with him and it\u2019s driving you crazy. Is this really the honeymoon phase or warning signs telling you to get out?<\/p>\n Diz coisas que s\u00e3o completamente fora do seu car\u00e1cter. Sente-se nervoso a toda a hora. De repente, finge gostar de coisas que odeia do fundo do cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n As rela\u00e7\u00f5es provocam inevitavelmente mudan\u00e7as, queremos ser melhores, fazer melhor e estamos inspirados e motivados, mas devem nunca mudes a tua ess\u00eancia<\/a>.<\/p>\n When you are with the right man, you are relaxed, comfortable and the best version of yourself and not somebody you yourself don\u2019t recognize.<\/p>\n His ex is very much a part of your relationship. He might not be over her yet so he keeps comparing you with her, bringing her up in random conversations or he\u2019s still in touch with her.<\/p>\n Her presence influences your relationship in a negative way and you don\u2019t know if he really is ready to move on.<\/p>\n Be careful about this one, and remember you deserve so much more than being somebody\u2019s rebound.<\/p>\n \u201cHe doesn\u2019t care much about labels but he cares about me,\u201d or, \u201cHe is not into texting so we rarely talk,\u201d or, \u201cHe is too busy with work to spend time with me,\u201d or, \u201cHe needs more time, that\u2019s all.\u201d<\/p>\n E continua a repetir frases semelhantes a estas, sabendo muito bem que est\u00e1 apenas a inventar desculpas.<\/p>\nEle ignora todas as coisas importantes sobre si<\/h2>\n
Ele n\u00e3o est\u00e1 disposto a ceder um pouco para a fazer feliz<\/h2>\n
Ele evita encontrar-se com os seus amigos<\/h2>\n
Ele est\u00e1 a tentar mudar-te<\/h2>\n
O seu comportamento \u00e9 imaturo<\/h2>\n
Ele normalmente exagera<\/h2>\n
It\u2019s still the honeymoon phase of a relationship and you are more sad than happy<\/h2>\n
Tu n\u00e3o \u00e9s tu quando est\u00e1s com ele<\/h2>\n
Ele tem problemas com a ex<\/h2>\n
Arranja desculpas para o seu mau comportamento t\u00e3o cedo<\/h2>\n