{"id":18194,"date":"2020-10-30T10:07:24","date_gmt":"2020-10-30T10:07:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18194"},"modified":"2022-02-26T11:47:55","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T11:47:55","slug":"lamento-mas-tenho-de-vos-cortar-a-palavra-para-o-meu-proprio-bem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/lamento-mas-tenho-de-vos-cortar-a-palavra-para-o-meu-proprio-bem\/","title":{"rendered":"Desculpa, mas tenho de te cortar para o meu pr\u00f3prio bem"},"content":{"rendered":"

You know very well that I\u2019ve always been someone who cuidou dos outros<\/a> e que se punha em \u00faltimo lugar. Sempre quis ter a certeza de que todos \u00e0 minha volta se sentiam bem e que as suas necessidades eram satisfeitas antes de pensar sequer em cuidar de mim.<\/p>\n

Sempre fui uma rapariga que se entregava completamente \u00e0s pessoas e algu\u00e9m que pensava que podia salvar o mundo.<\/p>\n

E era especialmente o seu caso. Quando te conheci, vi que estavas emocionalmente danificado e ferido.<\/p>\n

Vi que o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e a tua alma estavam marcados. Vi que estava a lidar com algumas quest\u00f5es e problemas mais profundos.<\/p>\n

Mas em vez de me afastar de ti e em vez de compreender que precisavas de ajuda profissional, encarei isso como um desafio.<\/p>\n

Pensei que podia ser eu a ajudar-te e tinha a certeza de que te podia salvar. Pensei que s\u00f3 precisavas de algu\u00e9m para curar as tuas feridas<\/a> e quem melhor do que eu para o fazer?<\/p>\n

No in\u00edcio, tudo estava a correr bem. Agias como se me amasses e ainda acho que isso era verdade, apesar de todas as coisas que aconteceram entre n\u00f3s mais tarde.<\/p>\n

You were a loving and caring guy who would do anything for the sake of our relationship. And silly me thought that I showed you what real love was and thought I\u2019d awakened the good man in you.<\/p>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

But after a while, you changed. I don\u2019t know whether you just showed your true colors and if you grew tired of pretending you were someone you weren\u2019t or you just cansou-se de mim<\/a>.<\/p>\n

De qualquer forma, ap\u00f3s alguns meses, come\u00e7aste a tratar-me como merda. Nada do que eu fazia era suficientemente bom. Estavas constantemente \u00e0 procura das minhas imperfei\u00e7\u00f5es e defeitos e culpavas-me por tudo o que se passava entre n\u00f3s e por tudo o que estava mal na tua vida.<\/p>\n

All of a sudden, you weren\u2019t putting any effort into our relationship and you started taking me for granted. You were always so negative and pessimistic and you weren\u2019t ready to do anything to change that.<\/p>\n

So consequently, I became just like you but I didn\u2019t want to accept it. Instead of me saving you, you changed me.<\/p>\n

Transformaste-me numa mulher amarga e negativa sem que eu me apercebesse. Arrastaste-me para o teu mundo e, em vez de eu te ajudar a lutar contra os teus dem\u00f3nios, eles conquistaram-nos aos dois.<\/p>\n

Demorei tanto tempo a aperceber-me disto, mas de alguma forma apercebi-me. E \u00e9 por isso que preciso de me afastar de ti, antes que tamb\u00e9m eu fique completamente danificada.<\/p>\n

You probably think I am selfish for doing this but I really need to walk away from you. You obviously don\u2019t want to be saved but I need to at least try and save myself.<\/p>\n

I can\u2019t stay around someone who makes me insecure and who always makes me question my worth. I can\u2019t stay with someone who doesn\u2019t think I\u2019m good enough and who doesn\u2019t value all the sacrifices I made for him.<\/p>\n

\"a<\/p>\n

I can\u2019t be with someone who doesn\u2019t appreciate me and never will. I can\u2019t stay with someone who doesn\u2019t treat me the way I deserve to be treated.<\/p>\n

You know I never asked for much, I just wanted your love and respect. But you couldn\u2019t even give me that.<\/p>\n

Sabes que te aceitei como eras, s\u00f3 queria que te tornasses a melhor vers\u00e3o poss\u00edvel de ti mesma para o teu pr\u00f3prio bem. E sabes que o que quer que eu tenha feito, fi-lo para o teu pr\u00f3prio bem.<\/p>\n

Mas isto sou eu finalmente a fazer algo para o meu pr\u00f3prio bem. Isto \u00e9 eu a escolher-me a mim pr\u00f3pria em vez de ti pela primeira vez e isto \u00e9 eu a amar-me mais do que te amo a ti.<\/p>\n

Isto sou eu a salvar-me e a curar-me. Isto sou eu a apreciar-me e a amar-me, como tu nunca fizeste.<\/p>\n

It breaks my heart to cut you off but it is something that has to be done. And I don\u2019t know if you\u2019ll ever forgive me for doing this but I hope there will come a day when you\u2019ll understand.<\/p>\n

And to be honest, I don\u2019t know if I will ever be able to forgive myself for leaving you.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

\"Desculpa,<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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