{"id":18226,"date":"2020-07-03T06:34:49","date_gmt":"2020-07-03T06:34:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18226"},"modified":"2021-08-31T08:00:27","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T08:00:27","slug":"e-assim-que-se-ama-uma-pessoa-que-pensa-demais","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-assim-que-se-ama-uma-pessoa-que-pensa-demais\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 assim que se ama uma pessoa que pensa demais"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando se ama uma pessoa que pensa demais, ama-se algu\u00e9m que est\u00e1 sempre confuso.<\/p>\n

You love someone who can\u2019t turn off their mind, someone who is fighting millions of questions every day. You love someone whose mind is a complete mess.<\/p>\n

An overthinker can\u2019t control their thoughts. They can\u2019t store them in drawers inside their mind. They can only try to catch them as they float around in complete and utter disorder.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

A mente engana-os. Num segundo, est\u00e3o calmas e concentradas, mas assim que acontece alguma coisa, uma situa\u00e7\u00e3o nova ou imprevis\u00edvel, come\u00e7am a pensar demasiado.<\/p>\n

What if this, what if that, how will I do this or that. They can\u2019t stop asking questions and worrying about the outcome.<\/p>\n

S\u00e3o pessoas que tomam uma decis\u00e3o de cada vez. Processam as decis\u00f5es at\u00e9 terem cem por cento de certeza de que chegaram \u00e0 decis\u00e3o correcta.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

And after they are done with it, they start overthinking about something else. It\u2019s exhausting to live this way with a question mark hanging above your head all the time.<\/p>\n

Quando amamos algu\u00e9m que pensa demais, temos de ser pacientes com essa pessoa. Temos de saber como acalm\u00e1-la e evitar que entre em p\u00e2nico ainda mais. \u00c9 preciso saber compreend\u00ea-la.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso mostrar-lhes que estamos ao seu lado sempre que precisam de n\u00f3s.<\/strong> <\/em>As palavras n\u00e3o significam nada para eles. S\u00e3o apenas frases vazias que saem da tua boca.<\/p>\n

They can only make them overthink even more. Do you really mean what you said? What if you\u2019re just saying that? What about when things get really serious, are you going to do what you said you would?<\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso saber como salv\u00e1-los de se afogarem num mar de perguntas quando enfrentam uma situa\u00e7\u00e3o dif\u00edcil. \u00c9 preciso saber como sacudi-los e traz\u00ea-los de volta \u00e0 realidade.<\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso saber como mostrar-lhes que h\u00e1 sempre uma solu\u00e7\u00e3o para todos os problemas e que v\u00e3o resolv\u00ea-los em conjunto.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso ser compreensivo.<\/strong> <\/em>Temos de perceber que, apesar de pensarmos que est\u00e1 tudo bem, eles pensam que est\u00e1 tudo p\u00e9ssimo.<\/p>\n

You need to understand why you\u2019ve been flooded with questions out of nowhere. You need to know that their mood swings are not intentional. You need to know that their fear is true and honest.<\/p>\n

They can\u2019t ignore their thoughts. They can\u2019t shut down and autopilot themself through life. They can\u2019t control their mind and just decide to get rid of all the thoughts that are poking around their brain and keeping them awake at night.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso mostrar-lhes o quanto os amamos, mesmo nos momentos em que eles se odeiam e se perdem na sua mente.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

\u00c9 necess\u00e1rio mostrar-lhes empatia<\/a> and make them aware of the fact that you aren\u2019t going anywhere.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso mostrar-lhes que se \u00e9 vulner\u00e1vel<\/strong><\/em> too, that there are some things that scare you, too. You need to show them that they are not alone. You need to let them know that it\u2019s okay to tell you what they are scared of and worried about.<\/p>\n

You need to keep repeating to them that you love them, even if it\u2019s a hundred times a day. Your every \u2018I love you\u2019 makes them calmer and more relaxed. Maybe it doesn\u2019t mean that much to you but it means the world to them.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso ser honesto.<\/strong> <\/em>You have to tell them how you feel. You have to know how to tell them what is going on inside your heart and mind, because if you don\u2019t they will think about it all the time, bringing their mind to the point of a desmoronar-se<\/a>.<\/p>\n

You need to always show your feelings and lay them out in the open, never hide them, because they will sense that and obsess themself with why you\u2019re hiding something from them.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Um zili\u00e3o de cen\u00e1rios vai passar-lhes pela cabe\u00e7a, desde os piores aos mais suport\u00e1veis. Mas todos eles os deixar\u00e3o ansiosos e assustados.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso saber como acalm\u00e1-los e afastar a sua ansiedade. \u00c9 preciso saber mostrar-lhe que \u00e9 uma pessoa bonita. \u00c9 preciso saber como real\u00e7ar as suas qualidades e lados bons. \u00c9 preciso saber mostrar-lhes a verdade e tir\u00e1-los da sua mente confusa e ansiosa.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso saber que eles questionam tudo, incluindo a si. \u00c9 preciso estar preparado para todas as situa\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

You could be having a nice, calm evening relaxing and all of a sudden they will bomb you with questions that have been going around their mind for some time and just can\u2019t stay in there anymore.<\/p>\n

I know, loving an overthinker is so hard. But aren\u2019t all relationships hard? Isn\u2019t love hard? The greater it is, the harder it gets. The more your feelings grow, the more is at stake. An overthinker can drive you crazy.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Sometimes you can\u2019t take it anymore but an pensador excessivo<\/a> will never leave you. They will be loyal and their love is something you\u2019ll have never experienced before.<\/p>\n

They know how much you\u2019re doing for them. They know it\u2019s hard to keep someone on the ground.<\/p>\n

They know it\u2019s almost impossible to get them out of their head and calm them down when all the questions start wandering around inside their mind.<\/p>\n

They will love until the end, no matter how strange you are or how many flaws you have. They will love you no matter what you\u2019ve left behind in the past. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

They will love you because they know they are a handful and your love is so strong that every time you\u2019ve had enough, it gives you a push not to give up on them. Not to give up on you two.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\"\u00c9<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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