{"id":18229,"date":"2020-08-03T06:58:48","date_gmt":"2020-08-03T06:58:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18229"},"modified":"2022-05-04T11:42:49","modified_gmt":"2022-05-04T11:42:49","slug":"os-verdadeiros-homens-protegem-as-suas-mulheres-nao-abusam-delas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/os-verdadeiros-homens-protegem-as-suas-mulheres-nao-abusam-delas\/","title":{"rendered":"Os verdadeiros homens protegem as suas mulheres, n\u00e3o as maltratam"},"content":{"rendered":"

I have no idea what they told you while you were growing up but let\u2019s get one thing straight from the beginning\u2014abuso n\u00e3o \u00e9 amor<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Pensem nisto, quantas mulheres seriam poupadas \u00e0 tortura se deix\u00e1ssemos de romantizar o abuso?<\/p>\n

No, love shouldn\u2019t be hard. It does require a lot of effort but it should never require for you to bend over backward to receive it. <\/strong>No, love shouldn\u2019t hurt.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Longing for someone, missing them when they\u2019re away, aching for their embrace and touch are all normal things but this is all considered as sweet suffering.<\/p>\n

True love never questions your worth, never makes you wonder if you\u2019re good enough or makes you feel like your heart is being shattered into a million pieces day after day.<\/p>\n

See, we all need to stick one thing in our head\u2014real men don\u2019t make love feel hard, they make it feel like it\u2019s the easiest thing there is. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Real men don\u2019t hurt their women, they protect them. Everything else is just a lie we tell ourself in fear of letting go of our toxic partner.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

A verdade \u00e9 que um verdadeiro homem nunca faria nada para magoar deliberadamente a mulher que ama.<\/p>\n

He\u2019d never do anything to make his a mulher sente-se insegura<\/a> ou amea\u00e7ar ou fazer qualquer coisa que pudesse partir o cora\u00e7\u00e3o dela.<\/p>\n

Existe uma lista de coisas de homens de verdade<\/a> e abusar das mulheres nunca \u00e9 uma delas.<\/p>\n

Men who abuse women are nothing but cowards hiding behind their manhood. But they\u2019re not real men. <\/strong><\/p>\n

They\u2019re just the mere shape of men but there is nothing but rotten souls on the inside.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you told a kid to draw someone who abuses women either physically or emotionally, do you know what they\u2019d draw? A monster, and that\u2019s exactly what they are.<\/p>\n

O que se passa \u00e9 que um verdadeiro homem respeita-se o suficiente para nunca dizer mentiras, para nunca fazer jogos, para nunca quebrar algu\u00e9m que lhe deu o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o. T\u00e3o simples quanto isso.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Os verdadeiros homens acarinham as suas mulheres.<\/strong> They know that whatever you give to a woman, she returns it double. If you give her your heart, she\u2019s gonna give you all of her love.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

If you give her a house, she\u2019s gonna give you a home. If you give her your love, she\u2019s gonna make you feel like the only man in this world. What more could you possibly ask for?<\/p>\n

Os verdadeiros homens protegem as suas mulheres.<\/strong> But they don\u2019t just pretend to do it in public and then abuse them when they\u2019re home and nobody is watching.<\/p>\n

Protegem as suas mulheres at\u00e9 de si pr\u00f3prios. Fazem-nas sentir seguras e nunca permitem que nada de mau as afecte.<\/p>\n

The catch is that real men are aware of women\u2019s strength, they don\u2019t consider them the weaker sex at all but they\u2019re there for them in the moments when life knocks them down.<\/p>\n

Os verdadeiros homens detestam ver mulheres destro\u00e7adas de joelhos, a implorar por amor ou por miseric\u00f3rdia.<\/strong><\/p>\n

That just makes their stomachs turn. That\u2019s just something a sadist is turned by on.<\/p>\n

O que excita um verdadeiro homem \u00e9 ver a sua mulher de cabe\u00e7a erguida, feliz e confiante na sua pr\u00f3pria pele. N\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada mais excitante para os verdadeiros homens do que isto.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Uma mulher feliz \u00e9 a maior for\u00e7a de um verdadeiro homem. S\u00f3 os cobardes gostam de abusar e derrubar as mulheres que escolheram dar-lhes o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Por vezes, devido \u00e0s circunst\u00e2ncias em que nos encontramos, ou devido \u00e0 press\u00e3o da sociedade, acomodamo-nos. E a acomoda\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 uma das maiores amigas do abuso.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Come\u00e7a-se a ir com a corrente. Come\u00e7a a ignorar os seus desejos e vontades. Esquece-se do seu valor e pensa que merece toda a dor que sente.<\/p>\n

But that\u2019s so wrong. So, please don\u2019t ever settle. Instead, love yourself to the point where solitude will be a better option than allowing someone to treat you with disrespect.<\/p>\n

O amor-pr\u00f3prio \u00e9 a chave para evitar a bala chamada abuso. Quando se pensa nisso, faz sentido.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

Porque se nos amamos a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios, sabemos o que merecemos.  <\/strong>Tem consci\u00eancia do seu valor e sabe como merece ser tratado. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Quando nos amamos a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios, abrimos portas para que os outros tamb\u00e9m nos amem.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So, whoever you are, whatever you stand for in this world, regardless of what you\u2019ve been through in your life or the amount of love you feel for a man, always know that real men protect their women, they don\u2019t abuse them.<\/strong> So, please, don\u2019t ever settle for an abuser.<\/p>\n

Know that the man who\u2019s worthy of you will make o seu amor \u00e9 como um lar<\/a>.<\/p>\n

A real man will be there for you when times get ugly, he\u2019ll be your shoulder to lean on when things get tough and he\u2019ll do everything to protect you and to make you feel safe.<\/p>\n

Por favor, don\u2019t ever allow someone to make you feel threatened and don\u2019t call it love.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Os<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I have no idea what they told you while you were growing up but let\u2019s get one thing straight from the beginning\u2014abuse is not love. Just think about it, how many women would be spared of torture if only we stopped romanticizing abuse? No, love shouldn\u2019t be hard. It does require a lot of effort…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":97034,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18229","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Real-Men-Protect-Their-Women-They-Don\u2019t-Abuse-Them-1.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18229","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18229"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18229\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/97034"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18229"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18229"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18229"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}