{"id":18255,"date":"2018-05-03T10:58:39","date_gmt":"2018-05-03T10:58:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18255"},"modified":"2022-02-21T01:07:13","modified_gmt":"2022-02-21T01:07:13","slug":"5-tipos-de-relacoes-destrutivas-que-deve-evitar-a-todo-o-custo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-tipos-de-relacoes-destrutivas-que-deve-evitar-a-todo-o-custo\/","title":{"rendered":"5 tipos de rela\u00e7\u00f5es destrutivas que deve evitar a todo o custo"},"content":{"rendered":"

As rela\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o dif\u00edceis. H\u00e1 as falsas, as t\u00f3xicas, as unilaterais e as destrutivas. Quase parece que ser solteiro \u00e9 a melhor op\u00e7\u00e3o, mas pelo simples facto de sabermos que o amor vale a pena, tentamos.<\/span><\/p>\n

Destructive relationships are not easily spotted. They are filled with negative energy, so much rage and so much blame on the inside, but on the outside, it\u2019s all sprinkles and smiles. They\u2019re perfect looking until the very end, where either one snaps or one leaves. And it\u2019s never a pretty ending.<\/b><\/p>\n

Ajudar algu\u00e9m numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o destrutiva<\/a> is hard, but if you\u2019re the one who is stuck in such a relationship, run for your life! There\u2019s no point in saving it. There\u2019s no point in staying in it. End it before it ends you!<\/span><\/p>\n

Emocional<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Abuso emocional e mental<\/span><\/a> is the probably one of the worst kinds. This abuse is taking a toll on your mental health, on your confidence and even your sanity. It can vary from undermining your skills, belittling you and your efforts, to manipulations so bad that you no longer know what\u2019s reality and what\u2019s happened in your head.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ele pode critic\u00e1-la ao ponto de se sentir in\u00fatil e sortuda por o ter por perto, o que a torna ligada a ele. Pode manipul\u00e1-la at\u00e9 ao esquecimento e isol\u00e1-la de todos os seus amigos e familiares. Nesse caso, ele ser\u00e1 a \u00fanica pessoa com quem pode contar.<\/span> O objetivo deste abuso \u00e9 que ele tenha poder sobre si, sobre as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es e sobre a sua vida.<\/b><\/p>\n

Se notar alguma destas coisas na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o, tente falar com ele. Se ele a culpar ou se chegar ao ponto de a fazer sentir culpada por falar sobre o assunto com ele (o que acontece frequentemente quando se trata deste tipo de abuso), fuja! A situa\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00f3 vai piorar.<\/span><\/p>\n

Verbal<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Abuse is abuse, even if it\u2019s unintentional. If your partner\u2019s words are hurting you, you need to tell him that. Communication is the key and if it\u2019s something he did accidentally, he will make sure never to do it again. On the other hand, if he blames it on you or he tries to make you feel crazy for feeling hurt, ditch him. <\/span>Est\u00e1 a lidar com um agressor que usa palavras e jogos <\/b>em vez de punhos.<\/b> E como eu disse, abuso \u00e9 abuso, independentemente da t\u00e9cnica.<\/span><\/p>\n

Financeiro<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

The whole idea of abuse is to have control over someone and some abusers find the easiest way to gain that control is financial abuse. Examples of financial abuse are someone taking control over all of the household money or stopping their partner from getting a job so they could have money of their own. The abuser can even take away the access to your bank accounts and credit cards, just so you won\u2019t be able to leave him.<\/span><\/p>\n

When you have no money, you cannot leave. And that\u2019s perfect way for him to keep you around.<\/b> And there is even possibility of him making debts on your cards and in your name, which makes it harder for you to get a job later. It\u2019s the perfect way of him screwing up your life, just so he could have control over it. If you notice that there is something off about his demands about money or your working career, be careful! You could be stuck with a financial abuser.<\/span><\/p>\n

F\u00edsico<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

When someone mentions the word \u2018abuse\u2019, this is the first thought that crosses your mind \u2013 <\/span>abuso f\u00edsico<\/span><\/a>. Even if it\u2019s most obvious one, it\u2019s still deeper than just using strength on someone weaker. It\u2019s about intimidating someone with one\u2019s size and power. When a man corners a much smaller woman, he takes away any chance of her getting away and implants fear in her mind.<\/span><\/p>\n

No momento em que algu\u00e9m levanta a m\u00e3o para si ou para algu\u00e9m de quem gosta, deixe-o e denuncie-o. Ningu\u00e9m merece sair com medo do pr\u00f3ximo golpe. <\/span>E n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada mais doloroso do que ver algu\u00e9m que amamos recuar quando tentamos abra\u00e7\u00e1-lo porque est\u00e1 \u00e0 espera que lhe batamos. <\/b>It destroys the victim of such a relationship and all people around them. You are seeing them hurt and you can\u2019t do anything about it, except give them your love and time.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sexual<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

No means no. No always means no. Regardless if you\u2019re saying it to some dude at the bar, to your date or to your husband. It\u2019s a no. Countries all around the world are making laws to protect women at home because sexual abuse can happen even if you\u2019re married. It\u2019s your right to decide when to have sex and when to not, not anyone else\u2019s. It\u2019s your body, your choice and your mind. Don\u2019t ever let anyone take it away from you!<\/span><\/p>\n

Unfortunately, not every country in the world is able to protect victims like they deserve to be protected. If you notice that your partner has no respect towards your body or your wishes and desires, he won\u2019t have respect towards your choices either. <\/span>Abandone essa rela\u00e7\u00e3o o mais depressa poss\u00edvel porque, nesse caso, o \u00fanico que o pode proteger \u00e9 o pr\u00f3prio.<\/b><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Relationships are tough. There are fake ones, toxic ones, one-sided ones and then there are destructive ones. It seems almost like being single is the best option, but because of the simple fact we know that love is worth it, we give it a try. Destructive relationships are not easily spotted. They are filled with…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":18256,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18255","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/verne-ho-23882-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","parent":29620,"count":228,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29625,"category_count":228,"category_description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","cat_name":"toxic relationship","category_nicename":"toxic-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18255","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18255"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18255\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18256"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18255"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18255"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18255"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}