{"id":18383,"date":"2019-05-07T07:37:38","date_gmt":"2019-05-07T07:37:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18383"},"modified":"2022-02-06T16:35:09","modified_gmt":"2022-02-06T16:35:09","slug":"nao-eras-a-minha-alma-gemea-eras-apenas-a-minha-licao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-eras-a-minha-alma-gemea-eras-apenas-a-minha-licao\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o foste a minha alma g\u00e9mea, foste apenas a minha li\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"

Desde que me lembro, Acreditei que algures por a\u00ed existia a minha outra metade.<\/strong> A pessoa que est\u00e1 destinada a passar a sua vida comigo e algu\u00e9m que est\u00e1 destinado a ser meu.<\/p>\r\n

A man who will save me and who will let me save him back. A man who will complete me and who will give me all the things I didn\u2019t even know I was missing.<\/p>\r\n

Um homem que me ame, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer, e que aprecie o meu amor incondicional.<\/p>\r\n

I knew that somewhere out there existed my Mr. Perfect, my Prince Charming. And I didn\u2019t expect him to be flawless\u2014I wanted our love to be perfect and I wished the two of us would be perfectly imperfect for each other.<\/p>\r\n

Este homem nunca sairia do meu lado e amar-me-ia, acontecesse o que acontecesse. Ao mesmo tempo, ele nunca questionaria o meu amor por ele.<\/p>\r\n

And he wouldn\u2019t have any reason to. He\u2019d know I would love him at his worst and at his best, without exception.<\/p>\r\n

He\u2019d know that I\u2019d waited for him for my entire life and he\u2019d know how grateful I would be to have him in my life. We would both put the same amount of effort into our relationship and we would both try hard to make it work.<\/p>\r\n

Pensava que esta pessoa seria a minha alma g\u00e9mea e o meu par feito no c\u00e9u e tinha a certeza de que este homem entraria na minha vida.<\/p>\r\n

And when I met you, I was sure you were this guy. When we first started seeing each other, you had all these qualities. It wasn\u2019t your looks or your money\u2014it was simply the way you treated me.<\/p>\r\n

I didn\u2019t expect you to treat me like a princess but that was how exactly how you made me feel. I felt appreciated, respected, loved and wanted and they were the things I wanted the most.<\/p>\r\n

So I was positive that you were my soulmate, that you were the guy I\u2019d waited so long for.<\/strong> And I was so happy that you finally came into my life that I didn\u2019t see that you were changing with time.<\/p>\r\n

I didn\u2019t see that you were only pretending to be this perfect guy until you were sure you got under my skin.<\/p>\r\n

E mesmo quando comecei a aperceber-me disso, recusei-me a ver o teu verdadeiro eu. Mesmo quando vi que me estavas a tomar como garantida, que o teu amor por mim estava obviamente a desaparecer, tentei justificar-te e arranjar desculpas para ti.<\/p>\r\n

I wanted to believe in our fairy tale so much that I wasn\u2019t ready to allow anything or anyone to destroy this image of you that I had. Even if that someone was you.<\/p>\r\n

E depois, um dia, deixaste-me por outra mulher. Sem mais nem menos, foste embora da minha vida.<\/strong> Afastaste-te das nossas vidas, de tudo o que t\u00ednhamos planeado e sonhado juntos.<\/p>\r\n

Afastaste-te como se eu n\u00e3o significasse nada para ti e como se nunca me tivesses amado.<\/p>\r\n

And I guess you never did. I guess you only pretended to be the man you weren\u2019t until you saw that you had me completely, until you were sure I loved you like I had never loved anyone else.<\/p>\r\n

Isso era tudo o que sempre quiseste de mim e, assim que o conseguiste, estavas pronto para ir.<\/p>\r\n

Quando te foste embora, fiquei devastada. Tu partiu-me o cora\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> e destru\u00edste todas as minhas esperan\u00e7as e sonhos. Mataste a rapariga inocente que acreditava no amor e nos contos de fadas e fizeste-me encarar a vida real.<\/p>\r\n

You made me face pain and disappointment. I saw you as the man I wanted to spend the rest of my life with and it took me a long time before I realized that this wasn\u2019t going to happen.<\/p>\r\n

Demorei muito tempo a apanhar os peda\u00e7os do meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido<\/a> que deixaste sem nunca te perguntares como eu estava e sem nunca te perguntares o que me fizeste.<\/p>\r\n

But I am not going to talk to you about everything I\u2019ve been through since you left. Because I am better now. Yes, you killed the person I was before you entered my life and for a while, I didn\u2019t like the woman you made me become.<\/p>\r\n

Mas, lentamente, estou a aprender a amar este novo eu. Porque agora, sou mais forte do que alguma vez imaginei ser.<\/p>\r\n

I don\u2019t believe in fairy tales anymore and I know that sometimes love is not enough but you didn\u2019t manage to kill my desire for life and that is the most important thing.<\/p>\r\n

S\u00f3 te vou dizer que te perdoei. N\u00e3o s\u00f3 isso, mas Estou grato por tudo o que me fizeste.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n

Because if it wasn\u2019t for you, I would never have become the strong, powerful and independent woman I am now. I would never have realized that not everyone deserves my love and trust.<\/p>\r\n

I would never have understood that I don\u2019t need a man to complete me and that I am more than enough by myself. And I would never have realized that I need to respect and love myself before I respect and love someone else.<\/p>\r\n

Sim, foste a minha li\u00e7\u00e3o mais dura<\/a> mas Acho que tive de confundir uma alma g\u00e9mea com uma li\u00e7\u00e3o para perceber algumas coisas.<\/strong> <\/p>\r\n\r\n

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Ever since I can remember, I have believed that somewhere out there existed my other half. The person who is meant to spend his life with me and someone who is destined to be mine. A man who will save me and who will let me save him back. A man who will complete me…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":18384,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18383","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/roberto-nickson-g-460874-unsplash.jpg",800,552,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","parent":38,"count":146,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29617,"category_count":146,"category_description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","cat_name":"heartbreak","category_nicename":"heartbreak","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18383","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18383"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18383\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18384"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18383"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18383"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18383"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}