{"id":18406,"date":"2020-06-07T12:29:55","date_gmt":"2020-06-07T12:29:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18406"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:54:50","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:54:50","slug":"e-altura-de-aceitar-que-ele-se-foi-e-que-nao-vai-voltar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-altura-de-aceitar-que-ele-se-foi-e-que-nao-vai-voltar\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 altura de aceitares que ele se foi e n\u00e3o vai voltar"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sei que h\u00e1 um homem que amas mas que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o faz parte da tua vida. Tu e ele tiveram momentos especiais e criaram belas recorda\u00e7\u00f5es. <\/p>\n

Estava convencida de que ele era o amor da sua vida, a sua alma g\u00e9mea e a sua pessoa para sempre. Pensava que a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o era especial e que valia a pena lutar por ela. <\/p>\n

E, mais importante, amava-o mais do que qualquer outra pessoa neste mundo. E tinhas a certeza de que ele sentia o mesmo.<\/p>\n

Actually, you still love him more than anything. But it appears that he doesn\u2019t feel the same way about you. Otherwise, he wouldn\u2019t have left you.<\/p>\n

Ever since he walked away from you, you\u2019ve been spending your days \u00e0 espera dele<\/a> para voltar para si, como se nada tivesse acontecido. <\/p>\n

You\u2019ve spent all this time stuck in one spot, holding on to your past relationship like it is the only good thing in your life.<\/p>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

You simply can\u2019t face the reality and you refuse to accept that he has left you because you think that this realization would kill you spiritually.<\/p>\n

Assim, o seu subconsciente desenvolveu este mecanismo de defesa e, no fundo, nem sequer tem consci\u00eancia de que ele se foi embora. <\/p>\n

No fundo, encara a partida dele como uma rutura na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e como algo tempor\u00e1rio. <\/p>\n

You\u2019ve put your life on hold and you pressed pause, because you expect him to come back to you every second of the day.<\/p>\n

For your entire life, you\u2019ve been listening to people telling you that you have to think positively if you want good things to happen to you. <\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o aqui est\u00e1, mais otimista do que nunca. Aqui est\u00e1, com a certeza de que o amor da sua vida voltar\u00e1 para si.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

And with time, you lost touch with reality. You started living this parallel life in your dreams and in your head. You\u2019ve been pretending all along that this man is still yours and you feel like you are going crazy because that isn\u2019t happening. <\/p>\n

E sempre que pensa que ele pode n\u00e3o voltar para si, lembra-se de todas as belas recorda\u00e7\u00f5es que partilharam e convence-se de que ele ainda te ama <\/a>e que ele s\u00f3 precisa de tempo para perceber isso. <\/p>\n

Lembra-se de todas as vezes que ele lhe jurou o seu amor eterno e volta a isso, na esperan\u00e7a de que a sua situa\u00e7\u00e3o mude.<\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you the last thing you want to hear. Let me tell you something that everyone around you kept telling you for months but you just wouldn\u2019t listen. <\/b><\/p>\n

Let me tell you something that will cause you more emotional pain than this guy\u2019s departure did.  <\/b>Let me tell you the truth, no matter how harsh it is and no matter how much you don\u2019t want to hear it.<\/b><\/p>\n

Let me break your heart, for your own good. This man is gone and he doesn\u2019t have any intention of coming back. And it\u2019s about time you accept this.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

It\u2019s time you finally face the harsh reality and admit to yourself that your hopes have been in vain.<\/b><\/p>\n

Sei que \u00e9 algo de que tem fugido desde sempre e estou bem ciente de que esta constata\u00e7\u00e3o o vai partir em peda\u00e7os. <\/p>\n

Mas \u00e9 algo que tens de aceitar e compreender. Porque \u00e9 a \u00fanica verdade.<\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9 a \u00fanica maneira de continuares a viver a tua vida e de te afastares desse homem que te fez tanto mal.<\/p>\n

You need to realize that you\u2019ve spent months waiting for something that will never happen. <\/b>You need to understand that you haven\u2019t been living your life all this time<\/b>\u2014<\/b>a vida tem passado por si.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You need to understand that this guy will win if you continue doing this to yourself because he has continued being a part of you, even though he isn\u2019t physically by your side.<\/b><\/p>\n

I know that this is not an easy thing to admit and to accept. And I don\u2019t expect you to do it overnight. But you need to force yourself to at least begin with your progress.<\/p>\n

Sempre que pensamos em como teria sido se ele tinha voltado a rastejar<\/a> ou o que teria acontecido se ele tivesse ficado ou sempre que come\u00e7ar a ter esperan\u00e7a de que ele ainda a ama, force-se a pensar noutra coisa. <\/p>\n

For\u00e7a-te a pensar em todas as coisas m\u00e1s que ele te fez, se isso te ajudar. S\u00f3 precisas de reprogramar o teu c\u00e9rebro para pensar de forma diferente. <\/p>\n

E com o tempo, confia em mim<\/b>\u2014<\/b>you\u2019ll succeed and you will leave this guy in the past, where he belongs.<\/b> <\/p>\n

\"\u00c9<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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