{"id":18409,"date":"2020-10-07T12:38:10","date_gmt":"2020-10-07T12:38:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18409"},"modified":"2021-08-24T12:29:42","modified_gmt":"2021-08-24T12:29:42","slug":"nunca-se-esta-demasiado-partido-para-ser-reparado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nunca-se-esta-demasiado-partido-para-ser-reparado\/","title":{"rendered":"Nunca estamos demasiado partidos para sermos consertados"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ultimamente, tem pensado muito sobre si pr\u00f3prio e sobre a situa\u00e7\u00e3o em que a sua vida se encontra neste momento. E todas as coisas que concluiu at\u00e9 agora n\u00e3o s\u00e3o ben\u00e9ficas para si.<\/p>\n

Muitas pessoas na sua vida, especialmente homens, magoaram-na. Algumas delas abusaram emocionalmente de si, outras tentaram manipul\u00e1-la, outras mentiram e outras fizeram batota. Mas o mais importante \u00e9 que todas elas se aproveitaram de si e a utilizaram de uma forma ou de outra.<\/p>\n

Por outro lado, a \u00fanica coisa que lhes estava a dar era o seu amor e aten\u00e7\u00e3o. Qualquer que fosse a rela\u00e7\u00e3o em que entrasse, entrava de cora\u00e7\u00e3o aberto. Era sempre voc\u00ea que se esfor\u00e7ava e era sempre voc\u00ea que entregou-se completamente sem receber nada em troca <\/a> .<\/p>\n

And with time, you got tired. You got tired of letting the wrong people be a part of your life and allowing them to impact you this much. You decided it was time to give up on trying to save everyone around you, because you couldn\u2019t even save yourself in the first place. It\u2019s simple \u2014 you\u2019ve had your heart broken too many times and you\u2019ve simply had enough.<\/p>\n

But that is something you can forgive them for. What you can\u2019t forgive or forget are the ways all of them broke you completely. Simply put, you are nowhere near the woman you used to be. They changed you and left scars and wounds on your heart and soul.<\/p>\n

E essas cicatrizes nunca poder\u00e3o ser removidas. Essas feridas nunca poder\u00e3o ser reparadas. Elas quebraram-te at\u00e9 ao ponto em que te sentes emocionalmente afetado <\/a> e ao ponto de ter a certeza de que ningu\u00e9m e nada o poder\u00e1 curar.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve lost faith in people and most importantly, you\u2019ve lost faith in yourself. You\u2019ve stopped believing in the good in everyone and you\u2019ve stopped believing in yourself.<\/p>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve stopped believing in love and you\u2019ve decided you won\u2019t open your heart to anyone else in your life. And you are sure there is nothing anyone can do to change any of this.<\/p>\n

Consequently, you\u2019ve become everything you always swore you wouldn\u2019t become.<\/b> And you don’t like the woman you have become.<\/p>\n

Apesar de a antiga senhora ser muito mais vulner\u00e1vel e sens\u00edvel, tinha um cora\u00e7\u00e3o mole e era isso que mais gostava nela.<\/p>\n

But you are convinced that this girl doesn\u2019t have a chance of coming back. You are sure that all the bad people around you have killed this girl. That all the pain you\u2019ve been through has left a mark on your heart which can never be removed.<\/p>\n

So with time, you\u2019ve accepted this new self you\u2019ve become. And you\u2019ve lost hope of ever healing and of ever feeling better.<\/b><\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you one thing. It is true that you are broken. And you also might be emotionally damaged. But it doesn\u2019t mean you can\u2019t be saved.<\/b> Because trust me \u2014 you certainly can. I know you don\u2019t believe this now but you will be better. You just need to wish for that to happen.<\/p>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

E tu \u00e9s o \u00fanico que pode fazer com que isso aconte\u00e7a. \u00c9s o \u00fanico que te pode salvar. \u00c9s o \u00fanico que se pode curar e consertar, o \u00fanico que se pode ajudar a si pr\u00f3prio. E conseguir\u00e1s faz\u00ea-lo se sa\u00edres do estado em que te encontras agora e se quiseres mesmo faz\u00ea-lo.<\/b><\/p>\n

Of course, love can help you through this process. A real man will hold your hand on this journey and he will help you overcome everything you\u2019ve been through in life.<\/p>\n

Ele mostrar-lhe-\u00e1 que nem todas as pessoas s\u00e3o iguais e que h\u00e1 alguns homens que merecem a sua energia, o seu tempo e os seus esfor\u00e7os. Ele vai proteger-te e vai estar l\u00e1 para te apanhar se ca\u00edres.<\/p>\n

Mas \u00e9s tu que tens de fazer quase todo o trabalho. Porque, como j\u00e1 disse, o amor vai ajud\u00e1-lo neste processo, mas o tipo de amor mais importante \u00e9 o amor por si pr\u00f3prio. At\u00e9 que aprender a gostar de si pr\u00f3prio <\/a> por quem \u00e9s, nunca te curar\u00e1s completamente.<\/p>\n

\"Nunca <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Lately, you\u2019ve been thinking a lot about yourself and the place your life is in right now. And all the things you\u2019ve concluded so far are not beneficial to you. Many people in your life, and especially men, have hurt you. Some of them emotionally abused you, some tried to manipulate you, some lied and…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":118310,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29637],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18409","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-hacks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29637,"label":"life hacks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/You-Are-Never-Too-Broken-To-Be-Fixed-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29637,"name":"life hacks","slug":"life-hacks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29637,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","parent":22911,"count":281,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29637,"category_count":281,"category_description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","cat_name":"life hacks","category_nicename":"life-hacks","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18409","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18409"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18409\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/118310"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18409"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18409"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18409"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}