{"id":18472,"date":"2019-05-09T08:41:56","date_gmt":"2019-05-09T08:41:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18472"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:54:46","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:54:46","slug":"7-caracteristicas-comuns-das-pessoas-manipuladoras","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-caracteristicas-comuns-das-pessoas-manipuladoras\/","title":{"rendered":"7 Tra\u00e7os comuns de pessoas manipuladoras"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Manipulative people are all around us. By mastering the art of deception, we aren&#8217;t even able to spot them in a crowd, nor are we able to actually shield ourself from their mind games and the facade they put on their face for us to never know their true colors.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/10-sinais-de-que-e-apenas-mais-um-idiota-egoista\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">A sua natureza manipuladora e ego\u00edsta<\/a> acaba sempre por passar despercebida. Apercebemo-nos demasiado tarde de que n\u00e3o pass\u00e1mos de uma marioneta para o manipulador da nossa vida nos controlar e fazer o que quer.<\/p>\n<p>To help you out and to make sure that everyone understands how important it is to run away from these kinds of people, I&#8217;m giving you a few extremely common traits of manipulative people:<\/p>\n<h2>1. Apresentam um comportamento passivo-agressivo<\/h2>\n<p>Mais frequentemente do que n\u00e3o, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/6-metodos-de-manipulacao-que-os-abusadores-usam-para-criar-lacos\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">pessoas manipuladoras<\/a> are passive-aggressive. You won&#8217;t even know what went wrong and what happened and why they aren&#8217;t talking to you, they are just trying to get things their way.<\/p>\n<p>Ser passivo-agressivo s\u00f3 tem dois resultados poss\u00edveis: o primeiro \u00e9 ficar zangado com a pessoa pelo seu comportamento ou, em segundo lugar, o seu comportamento transform\u00e1-la-\u00e1 numa v\u00edtima, e voc\u00ea ir\u00e1 correr e fazer tudo o que for necess\u00e1rio para corrigir a situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Em ambos os cen\u00e1rios, o manipulador est\u00e1 a conseguir o que queria de si.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Pressionam-no<\/h2>\n<p>A manipulative person will pressure you into thinking or doing things that you are not ready for. The things they are pressuring you into doing probably don\u2019t have any benefits for them rather than a good time.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 cada vez mais frequente os homens pressionarem as mulheres para terem rela\u00e7\u00f5es sexuais ou para terem uma determinada mentalidade que lhes agrade.<\/p>\n<p>This also applies to your group of friends; if your &#8216;friend&#8217; tries to pressure you into doing something you&#8217;re not a huge fan of, then<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-subtle-signs-of-manipulation-in-a-relationship\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> tens um manipulador mesmo \u00e0 tua frente<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Insultam-no a si e aos outros<\/h2>\n<p>It&#8217;s not the same as when you&#8217;re in a group of friends and you&#8217;re all joking around and making fun of each other in a joking way but a manipulative person takes it all to another level where you won&#8217;t even know what&#8217;s happening.<\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;re rude and aggressive by nature and it doesn&#8217;t matter how emotional and fragile you might be, they won&#8217;t stop because of it.<\/p>\n<p>A manipulator apparently thinks that it&#8217;s very cool to bring others down and make them feel miserable.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Nunca assumem a culpa<\/h2>\n<p>Algo muito especial na terra dos manipuladores \u00e9 a forma como projectam os seus pr\u00f3prios defeitos nos outros sem se sentirem minimamente culpados por isso.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s just like all those times you did a project together with someone and if something failed they put the blame on you, even though you didn&#8217;t have anything to do with it.<\/p>\n<p>They simply don&#8217;t know how to take the blame and deal with the consequences, they would rather fight all day and put the blame on someone else, even if the problem is really small.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Nunca ouviram falar de limites<\/h2>\n<p>As pessoas manipuladoras t\u00eam a necessidade de ultrapassar constantemente os limites das outras pessoas para se sentirem superiores. Para elas, o sucesso e a satisfa\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e3o muito mais importantes do que o bem-estar dos outros.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why they simply don&#8217;t care if they are going to hurt someone while getting to their goal, as all they can see is the goal itself.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Induzem \u00e0 culpa<\/h2>\n<p>Uma coisa que acontece muito frequentemente nas rela\u00e7\u00f5es com manipuladores \u00e9 que eles fazem com que a outra pessoa se sinta culpada por passar algum tempo sozinha ou simplesmente por se afastar durante algum tempo, porque \u00e9 cansativo.<\/p>\n<p>If your boyfriend is a manipulator, he will make you feel guilty for going out with your girlfriends and he&#8217;ll tell you that you love them more than him or that you don&#8217;t care about him at all or maybe even that you are never even there for him.<\/p>\n<h2>7. Moldam a verdade em seu benef\u00edcio<\/h2>\n<p>Well, a manipulator will tell you the truth, but&#8230; is it all the complete truth? No. Manipulators tend to tell you a half-truth that benefits them better for whatever reason.<\/p>\n<p>The weirdest thing about it is that they don&#8217;t even think of their behavior as bad so they continue.<\/p>\n<p>In their world, it&#8217;s better to mold the truth than to tell a straight-up lie\u2014but let&#8217;s be honest, it&#8217;s kind of the same thing in the end.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Manipulative people are all around us. By mastering the art of deception, we aren&#8217;t even able to spot them in a crowd, nor are we able to actually shield ourself from their mind games and the facade they put on their face for us to never know their true colors. Their manipulative, selfish nature always&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":18473,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18472","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse &amp; trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/roberto-nickson-g-526941-unsplash.jpg",800,552,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse &amp; trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse &amp; trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18472","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18472"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18472\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18473"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18472"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18472"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18472"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}