{"id":18488,"date":"2019-11-09T10:40:31","date_gmt":"2019-11-09T10:40:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18488"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:55:12","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:55:12","slug":"enquanto-tu-estavas-demasiado-ocupado-a-nao-te-importares-ela-desistiu-de-ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/enquanto-tu-estavas-demasiado-ocupado-a-nao-te-importares-ela-desistiu-de-ti\/","title":{"rendered":"Enquanto tu estavas demasiado ocupado a n\u00e3o te ralares, ela desistiu de ti"},"content":{"rendered":"

O corpo e a mente dela estavam a gritar que ela n\u00e3o aguentava mais, mas tu n\u00e3o ouviste porque simplesmente n\u00e3o te importaste. <\/span><\/p>\n

You were just too busy being selfish and only looking out for your best interests. You didn\u2019t care one bit about her and her feelings\u2014what she really needed because ignoring isn\u2019t one of those things.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Negligenciou-a em todos os sentidos poss\u00edveis.<\/span> Tomou-a por garantida<\/span><\/a> e perdeste-a no processo. <\/span><\/p>\n

She suffered silently in agony, hoping that you\u2019ll change and really see her, but you didn\u2019t. That\u2019s why she gave up on you.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Se tivesses reparado nela e no quanto ela te amava, no quanto se sacrificava por ti e no quanto se esfor\u00e7ava para te agradar, ela teria ficado. <\/span><\/p>\n

But instead, you chose to ignore her and do whatever you wanted. You chose to choose yourself before her. That\u2019s why she gave up on you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ela desistiu de si<\/i><\/b> porque nunca tiveste tempo para ela. Mesmo quando ela precisava da tua ajuda e te pedia para estares l\u00e1 para ela, dizias que sim e esquecias. <\/span><\/p>\n

Como estava demasiado ocupado a resolver os seus problemas, ignorou-a completamente. Passado algum tempo, ela desistiu. <\/span><\/p>\n

She stopped asking for your help and frankly, she didn\u2019t expect you would either.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ela desistiu de si<\/b> because she couldn\u2019t trust you anymore. She didn\u2019t feel safe in your arms because she knew that if the time comes, you wouldn\u2019t protect her. <\/span><\/p>\n

Proteger-se-ia.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ela desistiu de si<\/i><\/b> because you were not the same person she met and fell in love with. You\u2019ve changed, but for the worse. Or maybe you just showed your true face. <\/span><\/p>\n

Anyhow, you grew apart from her and she felt like she didn\u2019t know you anymore, like you were a complete stranger. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ela desistiu de si<\/i><\/b> because she couldn\u2019t handle being alone anymore. She couldn\u2019t handle dealing with all of her shit all by herself. <\/span><\/p>\n

She couldn\u2019t handle seeing you smiling while she cried her eyes out. She couldn\u2019t handle any more quiet sobbing while you were lying next to her sound asleep. <\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o fazias ideia de como ela estava triste. N\u00e3o fazias ideia que ela estava a chorar mesmo ao teu lado. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ela desistiu de si<\/i><\/b> porque ela era infeliz. Ela esqueceu-se do que \u00e9 a felicidade e tu \u00e9s o culpado por isso.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ela desistiu de si<\/i><\/b> because you never tried to make her a better person. She was falling apart by your side and you didn\u2019t even notice. <\/span><\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t challenge her to become the best version of herself but you expected her to do that for you. Well, darling, <\/span>o amor n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma rua de sentido \u00fanico<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ela desistiu de si<\/i><\/b> because you didn\u2019t love her anymore. Before, she was the only thing you saw. Before, she was the most beautiful girl to you wherever she walked in. <\/span><\/p>\n

She gave up on you because you didn\u2019t hold her hand anymore, you didn\u2019t kiss her as passionately as before. You discarded her, but there will be the time when you\u2019ll regret every wrong decision you made regarding her. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ela desistiu de si <\/i><\/b>porque a fizeste desistir. Fechou-a completamente. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quando ela quis salvar-vos aos dois, quando ponderou se devia dar toda a sua for\u00e7a para tentar chamar a tua aten\u00e7\u00e3o ou n\u00e3o, tu tornaste a decis\u00e3o dela muito mais f\u00e1cil. <\/span><\/p>\n

De facto, <\/span>a tua indecis\u00e3o foi uma decis\u00e3o.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

Tudo o que ela sempre quis de ti foi ser honesta. Ela queria que a amasses como ela te amava. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Ela queria que estivesses l\u00e1 para ela como ela estava l\u00e1 para ti. Queria que a abra\u00e7assem e a amassem. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Era demasiado pedir isso? Mas o que lhe deste n\u00e3o foi amor. Ent\u00e3o ela desistiu de ti porque tu desististe de voc\u00eas os dois primeiro.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Ela desistiu de si <\/i><\/b>because you didn\u2019t respect her. You treated her like shit and she got used to those negative feelings around her. <\/span><\/p>\n

Habituou-se a gritar, a berrar e a ser negligenciada. Habituou-se a ser menos importante. Infelizmente, ela come\u00e7ou mesmo a acreditar nisso. <\/span><\/p>\n

She really believed she wasn\u2019t worthy of anyone\u2019s love. She thought she was a terrible person and God gave her exactly what she deserved\u2014you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ela desistiu de si<\/i><\/b> because after hitting rock bottom, after facing her fears and feeling like total shit, she found the light\u2014she found hope. <\/span><\/p>\n

Olhou para dentro de si e viu a mulher assustada que costumava ser, encurralada, a implorar para sair. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, ela deixou-a ir. Voltou a amar-se a si pr\u00f3pria. Tornou-se livre. Ela sabia que o merecia. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ela sabia que merecia um homem melhor do que tu.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"Enquanto<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Her body and her mind were screaming that she can\u2019t take it anymore, but you didn\u2019t hear it because you simply didn\u2019t give a fuck. You were just too busy being selfish and only looking out for your best interests. You didn\u2019t care one bit about her and her feelings\u2014what she really needed because ignoring…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":39,"featured_media":18489,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29642],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18488","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-guy-talk"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29642,"label":"guy talk"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/brooke-winters-579062-unsplash-2.jpg",800,536,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Owen Scott","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/hase\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29642,"name":"guy talk","slug":"guy-talk","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29642,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Welcome to the land of juicy topics and lots of helpful tips on love and relationships. You can fully relax because fun and transparency are guaranteed. ","parent":29638,"count":69,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29642,"category_count":69,"category_description":"Welcome to the land of juicy topics and lots of helpful tips on love and relationships. You can fully relax because fun and transparency are guaranteed. ","cat_name":"guy talk","category_nicename":"guy-talk","category_parent":29638}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18488","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/39"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18488"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18488\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18489"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18488"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18488"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18488"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}