{"id":18584,"date":"2018-05-11T13:06:33","date_gmt":"2018-05-11T13:06:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18584"},"modified":"2022-01-24T16:11:05","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T16:11:05","slug":"se-ele-se-importasse-contigo-nao-estarias-confusa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-ele-se-importasse-contigo-nao-estarias-confusa\/","title":{"rendered":"Se ele se importasse contigo, n\u00e3o estarias confusa"},"content":{"rendered":"

Desde o momento em que conheceste este tipo, nunca soubeste qual era a tua posi\u00e7\u00e3o em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a ele<\/span>. Ele nunca queria rotular as coisas e nunca sab\u00edamos ao certo o que represent\u00e1vamos para ele. Havia momentos em que ele te tratava como o amor da vida dele, momentos em que agia como se voc\u00eas os dois n\u00e3o passassem de bons amigos e, por vezes, tratava-te como se n\u00e3o significasses nada para ele.<\/b><\/p>\n

All of this time, you\u2019ve been trying to read him through and through. You\u2019ve been trying to make him take off his mask and you\u2019ve been trying to figure him out but you have never managed to do that. You keep wondering what is the meaning of all of the mixed signals he\u2019s been sending you but you simply feel like you can\u2019t get to him, like you can\u2019t reach him.<\/span><\/p>\n

No in\u00edcio, pensou que ele estava apenas a fingir ser um tipo duro sem quaisquer emo\u00e7\u00f5es. Perguntou-se se ele teria sido magoado no passado e se alguma mulher lhe teria causado dor que o levasse a comportar-se assim. Pensou que ele era <\/span>medo do compromisso<\/span><\/a> e que s\u00f3 precisava de ser suficientemente paciente para que ele lhe mostrasse o seu verdadeiro eu. Pensou que ele tinha medo de se abrir at\u00e9 ter a certeza dos seus sentimentos por ele. Por isso, fez tudo o que estava ao seu alcance para lhe provar o seu amor. Fez tudo o que podia para lhe mostrar que era algu\u00e9m em quem ele podia confiar e que era digna da sua confian\u00e7a, porque queria que o homem escondido dentro dele finalmente aparecesse.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mas nada disto foi suficiente. <\/span>You could never get him to treat you the way you\u2019d been treating him and you could never make him put any effort into his relationship with you.<\/b><\/p>\n

There were times when you tried to walk away from him because you knew that was the only smart thing to do. But something always kept dragging you back to him. You would always hold on to the nice memories, to every moment when he acted like he loved you and to every time he behaved like he couldn\u2019t live without you. Each time you were ready to live with him, you would remember all of this and you would think it was worth giving him another chance. You kept convincing yourself that he really did love you but that he had some issues that prevented him from showing it to you in the right way.<\/span><\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you that these were all lies you kept telling yourself because you wanted them to be true. These were all excuses and now it\u2019s finally time you <\/span>parar de justificar este homem<\/span><\/a>. Sei que esta \u00e9 a \u00faltima coisa que querem ouvir, mas a verdade \u00e9 que este homem nunca gostou de ti<\/a> o suficiente para fazer de ti a sua namorada e para te mostrar que eras a sua prioridade. Lamento ser eu a dizer-lhe isto, mas este homem nunca se importou consigo e nunca se importar\u00e1, apesar de todas as suas esperan\u00e7as e esfor\u00e7os.<\/span><\/p>\n

And this is something you need to accept before it\u2019s too late. <\/span>I know you love him deeply and you want him to feel the same way about you but that isn\u2019t going to happen. And his behavior shows you this.<\/b><\/p>\n

Because he would never treat you this way if he loved you. He would never leave you hanging and he would never allow you to doubt his emotions or to doubt your relationship. If this guy really loved you, he would show it to you. He wouldn\u2019t have trouble expressing his feelings and he wouldn\u2019t have any problem demonstrating his love for you.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o importa o que ele tentou fazer-te acreditar, quando um homem<\/b> ama-te verdadeiramente<\/b><\/a>, he\u2019ll make it clear. He won\u2019t send you mixed signals and you will always know where you stand with him.<\/b><\/p>\n

Tudo o resto s\u00e3o tretas. Tudo o resto \u00e9 o seu ego, o seu desejo de ser amado por algu\u00e9m, a sua manipula\u00e7\u00e3o emocional e o facto de se aproveitar do facto de o amares.<\/b><\/p>\n

It is anything but love and it\u2019s something you need to accept, no matter how hard it is.<\/span> <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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