{"id":18587,"date":"2020-07-10T12:32:00","date_gmt":"2020-07-10T12:32:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18587"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:48:35","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:48:35","slug":"se-o-teu-homem-faz-estas-8-coisas-ele-e-um-psicopata-emocional","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-o-teu-homem-faz-estas-8-coisas-ele-e-um-psicopata-emocional\/","title":{"rendered":"Se o teu homem faz estas 8 coisas, ele \u00e9 um PSICOPATA emocional"},"content":{"rendered":"

My husband was an emotional sneaky bastard\u2014um psicopata completo<\/a>. Ele era f\u00edsica, sexual e, sobretudo, emocionalmente abusivo.<\/p>\r\n

Let me tell you just one thing\u2014as palavras doem!<\/strong><\/em> Ele sabia-o e essa era a sua arma mais forte!<\/p>\r\n

When we split, after 12 years of marriage, it hit me\u2014a sudden realization, a summing up if you will, of those horrible 12 years of hell.<\/p>\r\n

Ele introduziu lentamente o seu eu psic\u00f3tico na minha vida, ele abusou de mim emocionalmente<\/a> and I didn\u2019t even notice it. I knew that something was not right, but I didn\u2019t know what\u2014not until we split (and dear God, thank you for that).<\/p>\r\n

These psychotic people have a special skill\u2014you won\u2019t be aware you\u2019re being abused emotionally.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n

Leia as pistas e aprenda com a minha experi\u00eancia e talvez se salve (como eu acabei por fazer).<\/p>\r\n

Ele faz-nos acreditar que somos respons\u00e1veis por tudo<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

\"homem<\/p>\r\n

Emotional psychopaths aren\u2019t always mean. They can charm you with their words until the cows come home. They have the power of convincing and they never get bored.<\/p>\r\n

 <\/p>\r\n

One minute you\u2019re fighting and the other he\u2019s telling you: \u201cIt is ok babe. It\u2019s not your fault you\u2019re emotional. You can\u2019t help yourself\u201d.<\/p>\r\n

Na verdade, acabamos por acreditar que somos n\u00f3s os culpados pela discuss\u00e3o e que ele \u00e9 quem est\u00e1 l\u00e1 para nos fazer sentir melhor.<\/p>\r\n

He\u2019s gaslighting you<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

\"homem<\/p>\r\n

O gaslighting \u00e9 uma forma de abuso psicol\u00f3gico em que o agressor utiliza informa\u00e7\u00f5es falsas e apresenta-as \u00e0 v\u00edtima, fazendo com que esta v\u00edtima<\/a> doubt his or her own sanity\u2014an emotional abuser\u2019s favorite tactic.<\/p>\r\n

Um dia, vi acidentalmente algumas mensagens de correio eletr\u00f3nico que o meu marido tinha deixado abertas por descuido e percebi que ele me estava a trair. Quando o confrontei com isso, ele come\u00e7ou a gritar comigo.<\/p>\r\n

He was saying he can\u2019t believe I can think of something like that, that I\u2019m insane, that I don\u2019t trust him\u2026this went on for a few days.<\/p>\r\n

Em breve, comecei a duvidar de mim pr\u00f3prio. Comecei a pensar que talvez ele tivesse raz\u00e3o. Se calhar sou eu que estou louco. Talvez eu tenha interpretado tudo mal.<\/p>\r\n

When your psychotic partner doesn\u2019t have an excuse, he\u2019ll create one and he will make you feel like you\u2019re the \u2018crazy one\u2019.<\/p>\r\n

Ele culpa-te por tudo<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

\"homem<\/p>\r\n

This may look similar to the first one, but it\u2019s not. Every time he has a problem, he\u2019ll find a way to blame you for that.<\/p>\r\n

If he has problems at work, he will make you think you\u2019re the one to blame because you are stressing him out at home.<\/p>\r\n

If he gets a speeding ticket, it\u2019s your fault because you got him so angry he blew off steam by driving too fast.<\/p>\r\n

O resultado final \u00e9 que, seja qual for o ponto de vista, a culpa \u00e9 sempre sua porque os psicopatas emocionais t\u00eam sempre raz\u00e3o.<\/p>\r\n

Ele destr\u00f3i-te<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

\"mulher<\/p>\r\n

Emotional psychopaths are wusses who don\u2019t have anything better to do in their lives than to control you.<\/p>\r\n

They feed you with toxic thoughts to prevent you from thinking you\u2019re a smart, beautiful and strong person.<\/p>\r\n

O seu objetivo \u00e9 fazer-vos crer que s\u00e3o est\u00fapidos e in\u00fateis, e v\u00e3o conseguir faz\u00ea-lo.<\/p>\r\n

Once you start believing in that crap, you cling on to him even closer because you\u2019re afraid he\u2019s the best you will ever have.<\/p>\r\n

Psicopatas emocionais<\/a> podem fazer-nos acreditar no que quiserem.<\/p>\r\n

He \u2018wipes you out\u2019<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

\"homem<\/p>\r\n

He simply isolates you from the rest of the world. He convinces you not to hang out with your friends because you don\u2019t really need them\u2014you have him.<\/p>\r\n

And what is really hiding behind this is\u2014he\u2019s afraid your friends might talk some sense into you and encourage you to leave him.<\/p>\r\n

He has spent so much time making you \u2018perfect\u2019 to let some friends of yours ruin you.<\/p>\r\n

Ele mente perfeitamente<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

\"homem<\/p>\r\n

Ele nasceu assim. Praticamente tudo o que ele diz \u00e9 mentira.<\/p>\r\n

Ele mente t\u00e3o perfeitamente que nunca se duvidaria dele e \u00e9 coerente. Nunca se perde na confus\u00e3o de mentiras que cria.<\/p>\r\n

Mesmo que o apanhem a mentir, ele manter\u00e1 a calma e a calma. E tamb\u00e9m mentir\u00e1 para sair dessa situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\r\n

You\u2019re fighting with anxiety and you don\u2019t know why<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

\"mulher<\/p>\r\n

You\u2019re anxious and you can\u2019t figure out why. Well, it\u2019s because toda a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1 errada<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n

He is wrong. It\u2019s because you don\u2019t feel good in your relationship and you feel he is being disrespectful and mean for no good reason.<\/p>\r\n

Pensas que tudo \u00e9 culpa tua e culpas-te porque ele te engana para fazeres isso.<\/p>\r\n

Pensa que \u00e9 menos digno e come\u00e7a a acreditar que tem sorte em ter qualquer tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\r\n

You\u2019re anxious because you overanalyze things which are so simple, only you can\u2019t see them yet.<\/p>\r\n

\u00c9 extremamente mal-educado para com as pessoas que n\u00e3o lhe interessam<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

\"homem<\/p>\r\n

Ele s\u00f3 foi gentil consigo e s\u00f3 se preocupou em impression\u00e1-la.<\/p>\r\n

He doesn\u2019t care about other people and is never kind to anyone.<\/p>\r\n

Pelo contr\u00e1rio, \u00e9 extremamente rude e desagrad\u00e1vel.<\/p>\r\n

That\u2019s because he doesn\u2019t need anything from those people, so he doesn\u2019t hide his real face and treats them like crap.<\/p>\r\n

When he actually needs someone\u2019s help, he turns on his full charm and of course gets what he wants.<\/p>\r\n

Afterwards, you\u2019re just another face in the crowd for him\u2014completely irrelevant and non-existent.<\/p>\r\n

Ele VAI convencer-te de que te ama muito e que \u00e9 a \u00fanica pessoa em quem deves confiar.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n

Que sacana t\u00e3o sorrateiro!<\/strong><\/p>\r\n

\"Se<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

My husband was an emotional sneaky bastard\u2014a complete psycho. He was physically, sexually and most importantly, emotionally abusive. Let me tell you just one thing\u2014words f**king HURT! He knew that and that was his strongest weapon! When we split, after 12 years of marriage, it hit me\u2014a sudden realization, a summing up if you will,…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":101580,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18587","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/If-Your-Guy-Does-These-8-Things-Hes-An-Emotional-PSYCHOPATH.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":1,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18587","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18587"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18587\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/101580"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18587"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18587"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18587"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}