{"id":18635,"date":"2018-05-14T07:09:34","date_gmt":"2018-05-14T07:09:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18635"},"modified":"2022-10-17T15:55:11","modified_gmt":"2022-10-17T15:55:11","slug":"como-deixar-um-narcisista-inteiro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-deixar-um-narcisista-inteiro\/","title":{"rendered":"Como deixar um narcisista... de uma s\u00f3 vez"},"content":{"rendered":"

Terminar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o com um companheiro narcisista pode ser muito mais dif\u00edcil do que simplesmente acabar com ela e recusar-se a atender o telefone. Os narcisistas n\u00e3o gostam de perder. E n\u00e3o gostam de perder parceiros.<\/p>\n

To understand the difficulty, one must first understand how a narcissist\u2019s mind operates, and the best way to sum it up is \u2013 egocentrismo alargado.<\/strong> Whereas it\u2019s human nature to consider our own needs first (whether we like to admit it or not), a narcissist takes this self-centeredness to the extreme. So much so, in fact, that other people are considered merely extens\u00f5es do eu<\/strong> que s\u00e3o utilizados para ajudar o indiv\u00edduo a sentir-se completo e facilitar os seus planos.<\/p>\n

In other words, everyone in the narcissist\u2019s world lives only to serve the needs of the narcissist. If, at any time, these as pessoas tornam-se complacentes<\/a>, unwilling, or unable to do so, they will be quickly discarded. This means, an individual with this behavioral disorder may cheat, lie, steal, commit fraud, use substances \u2013 and will likely do all of the above \u2013 and it must be tolerated.<\/p>\n

So, what happens if it\u2019s not?<\/em><\/p>\n

Se n\u00e3o tem a certeza se o seu parceiro que o est\u00e1 a prejudicar \u00e9 um narcisista<\/a>, tente deix\u00e1-los. Veja o que acontece. Rapidamente se aperceber\u00e1 de que s\u00e3o, se de facto o s\u00e3o. Isto deve-se ao facto de os narcisistas n\u00e3o conseguirem simplesmente deixar a pessoa e seguir em frente. Perder-te significa perder uma parte utiliz\u00e1vel de si pr\u00f3prio.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So, you can expect this partner to do a variety of underhanded things all meant for one ultimate purpose \u2013 to destroy you. If you try to leave, the narcissist will say and do anything and everything possible to convince you they are sorry for their faults and willing to change \u2013 just long enough for you to return. Then, they\u2019re able to descartar<\/strong> (e n\u00e3o o contr\u00e1rio) num \u00faltimo ato de grand finale destinado a garantir que ficas sem ningu\u00e9m nem nada de importante na tua vida.<\/p>\n

To accomplish this, the master-manipulator won\u2019t beg, cry, pout, and deliver flowers \u2013 at least, not for long. Instead, they will aspirador<\/strong><\/em> \u2013 ever so subtly interjecting themselves time and again into your life, poking and prodding, so as not to be forgotten.<\/p>\n

Narcissists can\u2019t be alone. Therefore, they may \u201cgo away\u201d for a period of time to focus on new prey \u2013 or, rather, old prey, since this individual was likely there all along. Then, just when you think you\u2019re rid of them, they will return and try to get you to give in, so they can complete their jogo s\u00e1dico.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Tamb\u00e9m, enquanto vos desmaiam e cortejam outro, empregam um campanha de difama\u00e7\u00e3o<\/strong> nas tuas costas para te deixar sem nada. Isto significa que eles estar\u00e3o ocupados a contactar secretamente todas as pessoas do seu c\u00edrculo e a convenc\u00ea-las a ficar do lado deles. Dir\u00e3o e far\u00e3o qualquer coisa para que as pessoas mais pr\u00f3ximas de si acreditem neles.<\/p>\n

Not only will the narcissist try to make all of your friends and family turn against you, but this person will try to get you to lose your job, your home, your finances, and any thread of stability you have left. This won\u2019t be too difficult, actually, since chances are, your partner began stripping these things away from you long ago. Narcissists work tirelessly toward having their mates be entirely dependent on their support right from the beginning.<\/p>\n

Mind you, this is all happening while your former partner is also trying to convince you, straight-faced, you are the best thing that\u2019s ever happened to them and they absolutely can\u2019t live without you. If you give in to the lies and return, eles descartam-no.<\/strong> E, uma vez que eram realmente a \u00fanica coisa que te restava, ficar\u00e1s sem absolutamente nada. Fim do jogo.<\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, como \u00e9 que deixar um narcisista<\/a>? Quietly, quickly, and without even saying goodbye. There may be a million things you want to call this person out on, but it\u2019s simply not worth it. The best thing you can do for your own sanity and well-being is to leave and go entirely no contact to the best of your ability. Refuse any further advances, cut ties with all the mutual acquaintances you can, Mantenham-se fortes e nunca olhem para tr\u00e1s.<\/strong><\/p>\n

The sobering reality is, once you have entered into a partnership with a narcissist, you will forever be in this partnership whether you want to be or not. But, you can minimize this pain by taking the steps to distance yourself as much as possible \u2013 n\u00e3o importa o que aconte\u00e7a.<\/strong><\/p>\n

O inferno n\u00e3o tem f\u00faria como uma mulher desprezada? O inferno n\u00e3o viu a ira de um narcisista ferido.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ending a relationship with a narcissistic mate can be much more challenging than just calling it quits and refusing to answer your phone. Narcissists don\u2019t like to lose. And, they don\u2019t like to lose partners. To understand the difficulty, one must first understand how a narcissist\u2019s mind operates, and the best way to sum it…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":18636,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18635","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/warren-wong-261814-unsplash.jpg",800,557,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":233,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":233,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18635","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18635"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18635\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18636"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18635"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18635"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18635"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}