{"id":18656,"date":"2020-08-14T09:58:49","date_gmt":"2020-08-14T09:58:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18656"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:34:12","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:34:12","slug":"5-jogos-mentais-que-os-homens-fazem-com-as-mulheres-antes-de-uma-separacao-e-como-lidar-com-eles","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-jogos-mentais-que-os-homens-fazem-com-as-mulheres-antes-de-uma-separacao-e-como-lidar-com-eles\/","title":{"rendered":"5 jogos mentais que os homens fazem com as mulheres antes de uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o (e como lidar com eles)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando um homem nos deixa, todo o nosso mundo se desmorona. Sente-se rejeitada e sozinha.<\/p>\n

We\u2019ve all experienced that dreadful feeling and the healing process that comes after it.<\/p>\n

Mas, o que aconteceria se pudesses estar um passo \u00e0 frente do tipo que est\u00e1 prestes a partir o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/p>\n

O que aconteceria se pudesse prever que ele a vai deixar?<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o haveria desgosto, nem mesmo se o amasse realmente. Porque, algures ao longo do tempo, iria reparar que ele est\u00e1 a fazer jogos mentais consigo para encontrar uma desculpa para a separa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Provavelmente, ele \u00e9 um cobarde fraco que n\u00e3o \u00e9 homem suficiente para se impor e dizer na sua cara que quer acabar com a rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

So, he reaches out for the most disgusting and the most cowardly means of getting out of the \u2018mess\u2019 he found himself in\u2014he plays games with your mind, trying to convince you that you were the problem all along, so he can walk out clean-handed and not guilty.<\/p>\n

What happens is that most women don\u2019t even realize they were being abused in their relationship until it\u2019s all over.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Depois, rebobinam tudo o que aconteceu e percebem que nunca tiveram culpa de nada do que estava a acontecer.<\/p>\n

They were so in love with the man who used and abused them that they failed to see something wasn\u2019t quite right. They failed to see that things shouldn\u2019t have been the way they were.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Even if they noticed something was wrong, they wouldn\u2019t admit it to themselves because the perfect bubble they were living in would burst.<\/p>\n

Sometimes it\u2019s easier just to ignore the truth than to face it and receive all the blows that were to come.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why it\u2019s important to look at your love life objectively. Set aside that you\u2019re in love because love will blind you and you won\u2019t be able to see things for what they are.<\/p>\n

Maybe because you don\u2019t want to, or you just can\u2019t.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 muitas maneiras diferentes de os homens fazerem jogos mentais com as mulheres. Como somos todos diferentes, as nossas ac\u00e7\u00f5es tamb\u00e9m o s\u00e3o. Coisas diferentes afectam-nos, coisas diferentes magoam-nos.<\/p>\n

Psicopatas emocionais<\/a> e os homens que fazem todo o tipo de jogos com todas as pessoas como se fossem objectos e n\u00e3o seres humanos s\u00e3o suficientemente espertos para saberem a forma exacta de nos atingir, de bater onde mais nos d\u00f3i.<\/p>\n

These men do it because they want to break up with you and they want to stage it like it\u2019s all your fault.<\/p>\n

Aqui est\u00e3o alguns dos jogos mentais que utilizam para conseguirem o que querem e deixarem a rela\u00e7\u00e3o com um come\u00e7o limpo.<\/p>\n

Ele est\u00e1 a namoriscar com outras mulheres<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

There could be a lot of reasons why he is doing this. But, the most common ones are that he just wants your attention and wants you to be jealous\u2014which is also not that healthy.<\/p>\n

Yet there is even one bigger reason why he\u2019s doing that.<\/p>\n

Ele est\u00e1 a tentar enviar-lhe uma pista subtil de que em breve vai desistir de si e da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

But the thing is if you ask him why he\u2019s doing that, he won\u2019t tell you straight up of course. He will probably lie and make himself the victim, so you feel sorry for him and leave him alone.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll tell you that you don\u2019t care for him, that he is feeling lonely, when the truth is, he\u2019s had enough and will leave you any time soon.<\/p>\n

And when he leaves you, you will feel like shit because you\u2019ll think it was all your fault, that you should have loved him more.<\/p>\n

Ele culpa-o<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Ele f\u00e1-la-\u00e1 sentir-se completamente in\u00fatil. Por muito que tente fazer com que a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o funcione, ele encontrar\u00e1 uma forma de se opor ao seu comportamento.<\/p>\n

Ele far\u00e1 com que te sintas culpado por tudo o que corre mal.<\/p>\n

Mesmo quando n\u00e3o est\u00e1 de bom humor, mas tenta manter-se calma para o bem dele, ele vai provoc\u00e1-la e provoc\u00e1-la s\u00f3 para a fazer enlouquecer, pelo que, mais uma vez, ele pode ser a v\u00edtima e voc\u00ea o mau da fita.<\/p>\n

He will do this every day because either he wants to break up with you or he wants you to break up with him, so he doesn\u2019t have to be the one who pulls the plug on your relationship.<\/p>\n

A melhor coisa que pode fazer nesta situa\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 ir nenhum contacto<\/a> com ele e deix\u00e1-lo.<\/p>\n

Even if it gives him the satisfaction of not breaking up with you but getting rid of you, it\u2019s not worthy of your emotional breakdown.<\/p>\n

Ele vai estar sempre a mentir-lhe<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

He\u2019s probably even having an affair which is so see-through. You simply know that he\u2019s cheating on you and that it is intentional.<\/p>\n

He wants you to know because he\u2019s preparing you for a breakup.<\/p>\n

But, the screwed up part is that although he wants you to know that he no longer loves you, he will lie to justify his actions because once again, he doesn\u2019t want to be the bad guy.<\/p>\n

He will lie about where he\u2019s been and with whom he\u2019s been\u2014even if you sense another woman\u2019s scent on him. He will deny everything.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t stick around to see what happens. Don\u2019t give him another chance because he doesn\u2019t deserve it and probably doesn\u2019t want it either.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let him abuse you with his lying and making a complete fool out of you.<\/p>\n

Nunca lhe mostre que essas mentiras transparentes a est\u00e3o a afetar e acabe com tudo.<\/p>\n

And if he asks the reason, which a mind playing psychopath like he will, just say, \u201cbecause\u201d. Don\u2019t give him the satisfaction of seeing you hurt.<\/p>\n

Ele vai iluminar-te com g\u00e1s<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

This is the gold mine of manipulations. It\u2019s the meanest and most effective mind playing there is.<\/p>\n

Gaslighting<\/a> is a form of emotional abuse in which the abuser manipulates situations repeatedly to make you think you\u2019re going crazy.<\/p>\n

Ele escolhe uma situa\u00e7\u00e3o e diz uma coisa e faz outra completamente diferente.<\/p>\n

And afterward, he\u2019ll convince you that you\u2019ve got all of it wrong and that he never said what you think he said (or did what you think he did).<\/p>\n

\u00c9 poss\u00edvel sair dessa situa\u00e7\u00e3o escrevendo as coisas.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t be able to write everything that happens in your life, but after some time, some situations are going to repeat themselves and when they do, write down what he said or promised and what he did in the end.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll see that the problem is not you but him.<\/p>\n

Ele est\u00e1 a brincar com a sua mente para que, depois de acabar consigo, tenha a desculpa de que voc\u00ea \u00e9 completamente louca e que ele n\u00e3o teve outra escolha sen\u00e3o deix\u00e1-la.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s provoking you<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Ele vai pressionar os seus bot\u00f5es para o irritar e depois usar essa raiva contra si.<\/p>\n

Por muito paciente que seja, depois de ser constantemente provocado verbal e emocionalmente, acabar\u00e1 por ceder \u00e0 press\u00e3o e explodir.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 isso que ele quer desde o in\u00edcio. Como j\u00e1 est\u00e3o nesta rela\u00e7\u00e3o h\u00e1 algum tempo, ele sabe exatamente o que a irrita e vai us\u00e1-lo contra si.<\/p>\n

Quando enlouqueceres, ele vai fazer-se de v\u00edtima e dar a volta \u00e0 situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Esta manipula\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 o disfarce perfeito para uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o, porque \u00e9 imposs\u00edvel estar perto de si.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re mad all the time and you scream constantly.<\/p>\n

When you look at it just from the surface, that\u2019s true, but when you dig in more deeply, you\u2019ll see that he planted that seed of mess and staged the whole situation to happen.<\/p>\n

And all that just because he didn\u2019t have enough courage to let you go like a man. He did it like an emotionally immature mama\u2019s boy<\/a>um simples cobarde.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t deserve a coward, you deserve a real man.<\/p>\n

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