No, I\u2019m not weak if I let my friend cry on my shoulder at 2 AM. No, I\u2019m not weak if I give my seat to an elderly person. No, I\u2019m not weak if I treat and respect waiters the way I respect my boss.<\/p>\n
I always try to go through bad times with a smile on my face. I try to express my opinions without hurting anyone\u2019s feelings. It\u2019s just who I am.<\/p>\n
I\u2019m not saying I\u2019m perfect, because nobody is. I have made so many mistakes in life, just like everyone else has. I have a bunch of flaws.<\/p>\n
If you\u2019d meet me more often, you\u2019d know me better. I can be so insecure and exhausted sometimes, but that definitely doesn\u2019t mean I\u2019m weak.<\/p>\n
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As raparigas simp\u00e1ticas s\u00e3o muito mais fortes do que a sociedade pensa. \u00c9 preciso muita coragem para encontrar for\u00e7as para ser boa ao p\u00e9 de pessoas t\u00f3xicas. N\u00e3o importa o quanto as pessoas tentem me derrubar, eu vou brilhar mais forte. Encontrarei sempre for\u00e7a em mim.<\/p>\n
I try to live my life to the fullest. I have goals and plans, and I\u2019m keen about pursuing them.<\/p>\n
Being nice doesn\u2019t mean I will let you take advantage of me. Growing up, I learnt my lesson. I decided that I won\u2019t let anyone be mean to me just because I\u2019m nice. I will definitely fight back.<\/p>\n
Just because I\u2019m sweet, it doesn\u2019t mean I will be quietly putting up with your bullsh*t.<\/p>\n
Listen, I\u2019m not foolish. It took me all of my life to stand up for myself. I realized that I must love and accept myself in order to be respected by others. I\u2019m still learning to say \u201cNO\u201d and to stop feeling bad after I say it out loud. I have my flaws and weaknesses, just like everyone else.<\/p>\n
Maybe this is wrong, but I tend to judge people based on their behavior towards others. I don\u2019t like being in a company of people who seek a better position simply by walking over others.<\/p>\n
I don\u2019t want to be surrounded by people who are bothered with my kindness. I have no plans to change for anyone\u2019s sake!<\/p>\n
We need to stop treating niceness as some kind of disorder. I\u2019m so tired of everyone\u2019s misunderstanding.<\/p>\n
I believe being nice doesn\u2019t mean you let yourself be degraded. I assure you\u2014I\u2019m not the one who will guard your back if you repeatedly disrespect me. I have my limits. I\u2019m nice, but not stupid.<\/p>\n
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