{"id":1874,"date":"2020-06-08T11:31:02","date_gmt":"2020-06-08T11:31:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=1874"},"modified":"2021-08-31T07:34:28","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T07:34:28","slug":"8-coisas-que-acontecem-conhecer-bom-rapaz-relacao-toxica","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/8-coisas-que-acontecem-conhecer-bom-rapaz-relacao-toxica\/","title":{"rendered":"8 coisas que acontecem quando se conhece um bom rapaz depois de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica"},"content":{"rendered":"

The biggest problem in a toxic relationship is that you aren\u2019t necessarily aware you are in one. You get used to mistreatment because it gradually becomes a part of your life.<\/p>\n

There can be happy moments (when your abuser is in the \u2018mood\u2019) which make you forget those bad ones that happened and are about to happen.<\/p>\n

As rela\u00e7\u00f5es t\u00f3xicas s\u00e3o viciantes<\/i><\/b> . You can\u2019t burn that bridge because you have some kind of security. You have someone who supposedly cares for you\u2014someone who should care for you.<\/p>\n

But, you don\u2019t know any better, so you stick to him.<\/p>\n

As rela\u00e7\u00f5es t\u00f3xicas s\u00e3o um desafio<\/i><\/b> . You think it\u2019s up to you to make your own happiness in this kind of a relationship.<\/p>\n

You think things don\u2019t fall from the sky and you think it\u2019s your obligation to make your relationship work.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s no harm in trying to make things work out, but bear in mind\u2014you have to fight for someone who is worth fighting for.<\/p>\n

Abusers don\u2019t deserve to be fought for.<\/p>\n

As rela\u00e7\u00f5es t\u00f3xicas t\u00eam tudo a ver com o medo<\/i><\/b> . Most women keep thinking that being in a dysfunctional relationship is better than being single. They don\u2019t have the courage to break free from their abusers.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m:<\/strong> 10 sinais de que est\u00e1 numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica<\/a><\/p>\n

Mas, alguns deles fazer <\/i> encontram a coragem para quebrar as correntes da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o abusiva, mas deparam-se com outro obst\u00e1culo.<\/p>\n

Conhecem algu\u00e9m novo e tudo o que \u00e9 suposto ser normal numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1 muito fora da sua zona de conforto. Est\u00e3o habituados a ser maltratados.<\/p>\n

Eis algumas coisas que nos podem acontecer quando conhecemos um bom rapaz depois daquele que nos fez sentir mal:<\/p>\n

Ter\u00e1 espa\u00e7o e apoio para aprender a gostar de si pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

A primeira coisa a fazer \u00e9 aprender a gostar de si pr\u00f3prio<\/a>. Temos de confiar em n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios porque ningu\u00e9m pode saber o que \u00e9 bom para n\u00f3s.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 a \u00fanica pessoa que conhece e controla essa parte da sua vida.<\/p>\n

Estar com um bom rapaz dar-lhe-\u00e1 as condi\u00e7\u00f5es certas para crescer e tornar-se na mulher que ama a si pr\u00f3pria e que sabe que precisa de ser.<\/p>\n

Depois de o ter feito, est\u00e1 pronto para passar \u00e0 etapa seguinte.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll experience unknown \u2018strange\u2019 feelings<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve suffered enough and now when you\u2019ve met a good guy, grab the bull by the horns and don\u2019t let go.<\/p>\n

Em vez de ter medo de novos sentimentos, abrace a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o positiva e saud\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n

All of them are supposed to be like that and that is something you aren\u2019t ready to understand, yet.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be afraid to let yourself go because this guy will understand that you walked through hell and back.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll expect the same story all over again<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve lost faith in people. After being treated like s**t, you are afraid you\u2019ll be treated like that again.<\/p>\n

When you start a new relationship you can\u2019t shake off the feeling he is the same as the one before.<\/p>\n

For you, it\u2019s impossible to imagine there is someone there for you who won\u2019t treat you badly.<\/p>\n

You settled for a guy who doesn\u2019t deserve you and now that you\u2019ve experienced the opposite treatment (love that you deserve), you can\u2019t imagine what kept you going in your toxic relationship.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll overanalyze everything<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ele trata-a como merece ser tratada, mas h\u00e1 algo que a incomoda.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t accept the fact he is behaving like that because he cares about you. You are overanalyzing stuff, looking for hidden motives.<\/p>\n

However, there aren\u2019t any.<\/p>\n

Most probably, you will keep your distance and look at things from a different perspective just to reassure yourself he doesn\u2019t want to do you any harm.<\/p>\n

Hopefully, then, you will realize there aren\u2019t any hidden motives and his love for you is pure and long-term.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll think he\u2019s too good to be true<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t get rid of the feeling something will go wrong in your relationship any moment.<\/p>\n

You expect he will lose it. Maybe he will get rid of that \u2018goodie-goodie\u2019 mask and show his real face.<\/p>\n

But, he stays the same\u2014full of understanding, patience and ready to love you. There is absolutely no reason not to trust him, but your wounds haven\u2019t healed yet. It will take time and he is aware of that.<\/p>\n

You are waiting for the \u2018perfect storm\u2019<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

In toxic relationships, fights come out of nowhere. Even now, you can\u2019t relax because you have the constant feeling that fighting is about to begin.<\/p>\n

As lutas e os maus-tratos fazem parte do seu quotidiano e est\u00e1 t\u00e3o habituado a isso que espera que aconte\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t understand he is not like that. He is different and you are confused because you are used to a completely different scenario.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll apologize a lot<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Devido aos conflitos constantes da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o anterior, estava habituado a pedir desculpa \u00e0s pessoas a toda a hora.<\/p>\n

You used to apologize to your partner just to calm him down and avoid conflict. You apologized for the things you did and didn\u2019t do wrong.<\/p>\n

Aprender\u00e1 a confiar nele<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Over time, you will get used to good treatment\u2014the treatment you deserve\u2014and you will start to trust your guy completely.<\/p>\n

You will realize he doesn\u2019t want to hurt you and he never will.<\/p>\n

Slowly, you will start showing him your vulnerable side because you\u2019ve finally made sure he will never hurt you.<\/p>\n

Aprender\u00e1 o que \u00e9 o verdadeiro amor<\/a>. A sua experi\u00eancia t\u00f3xica torn\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 mais forte, mas depois de voltar a confiar nas pessoas.<\/p>\n

Ver\u00e1s finalmente o que significa amar algu\u00e9m que te ama de volta, que te merece e respeita.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t give up!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

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The biggest problem in a toxic relationship is that you aren\u2019t necessarily aware you are in one. You get used to mistreatment because it gradually becomes a part of your life. There can be happy moments (when your abuser is in the \u2018mood\u2019) which make you forget those bad ones that happened and are about…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":106086,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1874","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/8-Things-That-Happen-When-You-Meet-a-Good-Guy-After-a-Toxic-Relationship.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1874","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1874"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1874\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/106086"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1874"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1874"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1874"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}