{"id":18777,"date":"2018-05-16T06:14:53","date_gmt":"2018-05-16T06:14:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18777"},"modified":"2022-05-04T11:08:19","modified_gmt":"2022-05-04T11:08:19","slug":"e-por-isso-que-a-lealdade-e-tao-importante-numa-relacao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-por-isso-que-a-lealdade-e-tao-importante-numa-relacao\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 por isso que a lealdade \u00e9 t\u00e3o importante numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"

A lealdade tornou-se uma esp\u00e9cie de luxo. As pessoas est\u00e3o em rela\u00e7\u00f5es abertas em que concordam em dormir com outras pessoas, obrigando os seus parceiros a aceitar isso. Ningu\u00e9m compreende verdadeiramente o que \u00e9 a lealdade, porque it’s more than not sleeping around<\/a>. A lealdade \u00e9 uma parte sagrada da rela\u00e7\u00e3o. A lealdade d\u00e1-lhe a capacidade total de ser voc\u00ea mesmo, porque pode confiar que o seu parceiro estar\u00e1 l\u00e1 para si porque ele ama o seu verdadeiro eu.<\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9 que a lealdade \u00e9 importante?<\/a> Why can’t people just go around texting whoever they want, sleeping around and never committing to one person fully?<\/strong><\/p>\n

I have a story about a man who didn’t know that he would destroy me with his games and his necessidade constante de tranquiliza\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> e a aten\u00e7\u00e3o de outras mulheres.<\/p>\n

Sempre fui um mon\u00f3gamo s\u00e9rio.<\/strong> If I fall in love with you, it’s all or nothing and it can’t be anyone else in my life but you. But what he did to me was unbelievable. Of course I sat him down to talk with him about how loyalty really is important to me and that I don’t want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t take me seriously.<\/p>\n

Vi a forma como ele olhava para as outras raparigas, dizendo-me sempre que n\u00e3o era nada de grave e que o problema era que eu era demasiado sens\u00edvel. Aos olhos dele, eu n\u00e3o passava de uma mulher com baixa autoestima, sem nunca pensar que eu s\u00f3 queria que ele me mostrasse que me respeitava o suficiente para deixar de namoriscar e micro-trapa\u00e7a<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Os dias passavam e nada mudava.<\/strong> I, as someone who really did love herself and would always respect my own wants and needs, started to doubt the thoughts that were going through my head. I started to believe that I was paranoid and that my mind wasn’t open enough for this modern type of dating.<\/p>\n

Comecei mesmo a pensar que n\u00e3o era nada.<\/strong> Queria que ele ficasse na minha vida porque o amava e queria que o nosso amor fosse livre. Mas a partir desse dia, ele nunca mais dormiria ao meu lado.<\/p>\n

Falar sobre isto magoa-me imenso.<\/strong> Just imagine how I have must felt. I thought of myself as stupid because I wasn’t able to express my needs in a way to keep everyone who doesn’t want to follow them out of my life. I decided not to let my standards down for a man, ever again.<\/p>\n

If you want to be with me, you have to be loyal and show me that you only want me in your life. If for some reason loyalty isn’t that important to you, than move on. Don’t even start flirting with me. Don’t call me on dates. Bye.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I know that this may seem extreme, but the importance of loyalty is seen in the aftermath that remains after the person has left you for another woman. The pain that remains afterwards, the self-doubt and the constant thoughts that keep on telling that you are not enough and that you can’t be loved the way you are, simply make me believe that there is nothing that can break a woman more than a cheating man.<\/p>\n

A import\u00e2ncia da lealdade v\u00ea-se na forma como n\u00e3o sou capaz de voltar a confiar em ningu\u00e9m.<\/strong> Quando um homem me diz que me ama e que me quer, s\u00f3 consigo ouvir as palavras de um traidor. Sempre que um homem \u00e9 simp\u00e1tico comigo, imagino a sua namorada, \u00e0 espera que ele volte para casa.<\/p>\n

You see, that’s why loyalty is so important.<\/p>\n

You have to know what you’re doing to the person you’re cheating on! They will ask themselves for the rest of their lives why weren’t they good enough for you and what could they have done better to make you happy and to make you love them more.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don’t ever cheat on your partner. Loyalty really is the most important quality a person can have. Amar um batoteiro \u00e9 uma quebra<\/a> como nada mais.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Loyalty has become something like a luxury. People are in open relationships where they agree to sleep around with other people, forcing their partners to be OK with it. No one truly understands what loyalty is really about because it’s more than not sleeping around. Loyalty is a sacred part of the relationship. Loyalty gives…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":18778,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18777","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/justin-groep-662275-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18777","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18777"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18777\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18778"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18777"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18777"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18777"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}