{"id":18786,"date":"2020-08-16T06:33:07","date_gmt":"2020-08-16T06:33:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18786"},"modified":"2022-02-27T02:46:12","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T02:46:12","slug":"uma-carta-para-a-rapariga-que-esta-sempre-a-desmoronar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/uma-carta-para-a-rapariga-que-esta-sempre-a-desmoronar\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma carta para a rapariga que est\u00e1 sempre a desmoronar"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ol\u00e1, linda,<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Como tens estado ultimamente?<\/strong><\/em> Mesmo que finjas que est\u00e1s bem, eu sei que o seu mundo est\u00e1 a desmoronar-se<\/a> e tamb\u00e9m sei que isso acontece devido a diferentes problemas que surgem sem convite na nossa vida.<\/p>\n

Eu sei que est\u00e1s a tentar parecer bem \u00e0 frente das pessoas, mas quando olho um pouco mais fundo nos teus olhos, consigo ver toda a tristeza que te tem assombrado durante todo este tempo.<\/p>\n

I am not near enough to give you the warmest hug and kiss but that doesn’t mean I can’t comfort you with my words because even if we are miles apart, we are close in our pain.<\/strong><\/em> S\u00f3 quero que saibas que isso vai passar e que tens de te aguentar.<\/p>\n

You don’t need to do that because others can see how strong you are. You need to do that for yourself only. You need to accept that life is full of shit and that things like this will happen. And it doesn\u2019t get better when time passes. You just learn how to deal with it.<\/p>\n

Haver\u00e1 alturas em que sentir\u00e1 que \u00e9 menos do que \u00e9 na realidade.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n

Haver\u00e1 alturas em que os amigos nos trair\u00e3o e em que a pessoa amada se revelar\u00e1 n\u00e3o ser a correcta<\/a> in the end. And that is more than okay because how else could we learn to be strong if we don\u2019t go through various problems?<\/p>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Things like this need to happen to make you stronger, to show you that you are so strong and that you will fight for yourself when you feel danger coming. So, don\u2019t be desperate.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t cry and ask God why He is doing all that to you. Just remember that the teacher always remains silent during the test.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n

Considera que se trata apenas de mais um teste, de uma experi\u00eancia pela qual tens de passar para te tornares completo.<\/p>\n

Porque ningu\u00e9m est\u00e1 completo s\u00f3 porque passou por algumas coisas boas. Somos completos quando passamos por coisas boas e m\u00e1s e continuamos firmes nos nossos p\u00e9s.<\/p>\n

Ficamos completos quando nos recusamos a seguir a corrente e quando lutamos pelos nossos direitos, dizendo \u00e0s pessoas tudo o que nos vai na alma, independentemente de elas aceitarem isso.<\/p>\n

Ficamos completos quando somos fi\u00e9is a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios, aos nossos sentimentos e \u00e0s nossas emo\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/strong><\/em> E \u00e9 para isso que tem de se esfor\u00e7ar.<\/p>\n

Por isso, da pr\u00f3xima vez que ele a magoar, deixe-o ir porque \u00e9 melhor ver a tempo que ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 a pessoa certa.<\/p>\n

When your friends betray you, don\u2019t fight with them, telling them that you are desperate and broken, but go outside into the world and find a new, real friend.<\/p>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

Quando as pessoas o desiludem, ultrapasse isso, porque guardar rancor n\u00e3o \u00e9 a sua praia.<\/p>\n

\u00c9s muito mais do que isso. Est\u00e1 acima dos seus problemas e s\u00f3 precisa de acreditar nisso.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

You just need to believe in yourself. So, I want you to do one things right now: Just put your hand on your heart\u2014what do you feel? Is it still beating?<\/p>\n

Hell yeah! Because that heart won\u2019t be broken simply like that. Your heart can endure so much more than um namorado de merda<\/a> e desonestos \u00e0 vossa volta.<\/p>\n

So, baby, please don\u2019t fall apart because of someone who doesn\u2019t deserve that. And the one who deserves it will never do any harm to you.<\/p>\n

And when you feel that you can\u2019t take it anymore, do anything to release the stress. Scream. Cry. Get drunk. Destroy things. But let all the pain and anger go out.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n

If you just keep your mouth shut to all the mocking and insulting, you will explode one day. You won\u2019t be able to take all that shit anymore and you will just break.<\/p>\n

So, please don\u2019t let that happen to you. Don\u2019t let be broken into pieces so small that they couldn\u2019t be glued together anymore. You have a choice, so choose smart. This is your life and you can affect most of the things that come to your life.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Por isso, nunca, mas nunca, se renda ou se afunde por causa de algo que pode ser resolvido com um pouco de esfor\u00e7o.<\/strong> <\/em>Don\u2019t give up on all the good things that life gives you just because you have been sad about those bad ones.<\/p>\n

Quanto mais cedo aceitar uma vida assim, mais f\u00e1cil ser\u00e1 para si. Por isso, levanta a cabe\u00e7a, p\u00f5e um sorriso na cara e caminha orgulhosamente por este mundo. Porque, querida, tu mereces. E nada menos do que isso!<\/p>\n

Amor,<\/p>\n

Aquele que j\u00e1 l\u00e1 esteve.<\/p>\n

\"Uma<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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