{"id":18812,"date":"2021-02-10T09:33:29","date_gmt":"2021-02-10T09:33:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18812"},"modified":"2022-04-07T14:43:16","modified_gmt":"2022-04-07T14:43:16","slug":"regras-para-uma-relacao-dominante-submissa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/regras-para-uma-relacao-dominante-submissa\/","title":{"rendered":"Rela\u00e7\u00f5es entre dominantes e submissos - As 10 principais regras a seguir"},"content":{"rendered":"What are the benefits, roles, and rules of a dominant and submissive relationship? What does dominant and submissive mean in a relationship?&nbsp;\r\n\r\nA dominant-submissive relationship is a relationship where one partner is dominant and the other one submits to his\/her partner. Both partners have their own roles.&nbsp;\r\n\r\nWhen it comes to defining and understanding BDSM, people (especially those in vanilla relationships) generally link it with <i>Cinquenta Tons de Cinza<\/i> and Christian Grey\u2019s kinky equipment like handcuffs, chains, ropes \u2013 you name it.&nbsp;\r\n\r\n<a href=\"https:\/\/fd959y9pgtgv8m7fqzgdnkpy7e.hop.clickbank.net\/?tid=HASE_ALIC\" rel=\"noopener\">CLIQUE AQUI<\/a> to learn all there is to know about different kinds of relationship dynamics and how to satisfy both your partner and yourself.\r\n\r\nTheir fictitious BDSM relationship revolves around power dynamic, power play, and bondage and discipline. Christian Grey is evidently a male dominatrix (the dominant partner), whereas Anastasia Steele plays a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/tipos-de-submissas\/\">papel submisso<\/a>.&nbsp;\r\n\r\nNow, when we shift to reality, the first question that probably comes to mind is: <b>Ser\u00e1 que esse tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o existe de facto? Como \u00e9 que funciona?&nbsp;<\/b>\r\n\r\n<a href=\"https:\/\/fd959y9pgtgv8m7fqzgdnkpy7e.hop.clickbank.net\/?tid=HASE_ALIC\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103559\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Language-of-Desire-7.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"250\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Language-of-Desire-7.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Language-of-Desire-7-150x125.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>\r\n\r\nAnd those questions aren\u2019t that hard to answer.\r\n\r\n<b>First of all, it does exist and, just like in the movie, it\u2019s about one partner who dominates the other because of the power they have in the relationship.<\/b>\r\n\r\nWhen you look around, you can notice that in every relationship, there\u2019s one partner who is more submissive and the other who is more dominant.\r\n\r\nEven though women are mostly represented as those who fall for dominant, strong, and powerful men who are just waiting for a fragile and gentle woman to come their way, the roles can be reversed as well.&nbsp;\r\n\r\nMen can have all kinds of different desires and if you want to learn how to please them without losing yourself or losing control there\u2019s only one thing you can do \u2013 learn the secret <a href=\"https:\/\/fd959y9pgtgv8m7fqzgdnkpy7e.hop.clickbank.net\/?tid=HASE_ALIC\" rel=\"noopener\">Linguagem do desejo<\/a>.\r\n\r\n<b>De facto, hoje em dia, h\u00e1 muitos homens que est\u00e3o a morrer pelo toque de uma <\/b><b>dominatrix<\/b><b> e esta tornou-se a sua maior <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/as-10-principais-fantasias-sexuais-de-todos-os-homens\/\"><b>fantasia sexual<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b>\r\n\r\nAgora que j\u00e1 abord\u00e1mos os aspectos b\u00e1sicos, podemos passar a explic\u00e1-los em pormenor.&nbsp;\r\n\r\n<b>Al\u00e9m disso, se continuar a ler, encontrar\u00e1 tipos de <\/b><b>Rela\u00e7\u00f5es Dom Sub<\/b><b>Tra\u00e7os e pap\u00e9is dos parceiros numa sociedade dominante e <\/b><b>rela\u00e7\u00e3o submissa<\/b><b>e, claro, as principais regras a seguir (com alguns exemplos). <\/b>So, stay tuned!\r\n\r\nSee also: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/steps-to-becoming-a-submissive-wife\/\">10 passos para se tornar uma esposa submissa<\/a>\r\n<h2>O que \u00e9 uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o dominante e submissa?<\/h2>\r\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-71623 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/topless-woman-giving-whip-to-a-man.jpg\" alt=\"mulher em topless a dar chicote a um homem\" width=\"800\" height=\"548\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/topless-woman-giving-whip-to-a-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/topless-woman-giving-whip-to-a-man-300x206.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/topless-woman-giving-whip-to-a-man-768x526.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>\r\n\r\nBDSM stands for and includes Bondage and Discipline (BD), Dominance and Submission (DS), and Sadism and Masochism \/ Sadomasochism (SM).\r\n\r\nIn the simplest words, a dominant-submissive relationship, aka dom\/sub relationship or simply a d\/s relationship, is basically a relationship where one partner is dominant (a sadist) and the other one submits to his\/her partner (a masochist).&nbsp;\r\n\r\nBoth dominant and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/tornar-se-uma-esposa-submissa\/\">parceiros submissos<\/a> t\u00eam os seus pr\u00f3prios pap\u00e9is. <b>A dominante<\/b> <b>e <\/b><b>rela\u00e7\u00e3o submissa<\/b><b> isn\u2019t <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/8-coisas-que-quer-saber-sobre-sexo\/\"><b>apenas sobre sexo,<\/b><\/a><b> embora a maioria das pessoas possa pensar que sim.&nbsp;<\/b>\r\n\r\n<b>De facto, a dominante<\/b><b>rela\u00e7\u00e3o submissa<\/b><b> pode ser visto em todos os aspectos da vida.<\/b>\r\n\r\n<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/marido-dominante-10-maneiras-de-ser-o-alfa-no-seu-casamento\/\">O parceiro dominante<\/a> protects, leads, and guides the submissive, while the submissive is a fragile servant who\u2019s there to please their master.\r\n\r\nIt does sound bizarre to most of us, but in actuality, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/relationship-didnt-work-didnt-love-real\/\">as rela\u00e7\u00f5es funcionam mesmo<\/a> this way; maybe even better than standard ones.\r\n\r\nIn this type of relationship, there are strict rules that partners must follow. They are not usually extreme, but they have to be respected in order for the relationship to work.&nbsp;\r\n\r\nIt doesn\u2019t have to be a contract, like in the movie we were talking about before, but rather an open conversation about what each partner wants in the relationship and what the submissive is willing to do for their dominant partner.\r\n\r\nIn most scenarios, the limits of the submissive side of the relationship aren\u2019t crossed. But for that to be true, the dominant one has to know exactly where those limits lie.\r\n<h3><b>Gathering information in average relationships is very important, but here it\u2019s crucial.&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\r\n<a href=\"https:\/\/fd959y9pgtgv8m7fqzgdnkpy7e.hop.clickbank.net\/?tid=HASE_ALIC\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103557\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Language-of-Desire-5.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"250\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Language-of-Desire-5.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Language-of-Desire-5-150x125.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>\r\n\r\n<b><i>A melhor maneira de recolher informa\u00e7\u00f5es sobre o seu <\/i><\/b><b><i>parceiro submisso<\/i><\/b><b><i> \u00e9 uma comunica\u00e7\u00e3o honesta, fazendo perguntas e nunca desrespeitando os seus limites.<\/i><\/b>\r\n\r\nOne important thing to say is that the roles in a dominant-submissive relationship aren\u2019t absolute.\r\n\r\nThey can be changed. For example, if a woman is the sub, she can give her partner a massage and please him in ways he commands, but the next day, they exchange roles and he has to do whatever she asks him to do that\u2019s within his limits.&nbsp;\r\n\r\n<b>Este estilo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9, de facto, um estilo de vida que as pessoas levam muito a s\u00e9rio.<\/b>\r\n\r\nThese couples live a completely normal life that merely involves two people living for the pleasure of each other which means that their relationships aren\u2019t really much different from the rest of us.\r\n\r\n<b>Se est\u00e1 a pensar: sim, estas rela\u00e7\u00f5es funcionam mesmo!<\/b>\r\n\r\nNot every dominant-submissive relationship is the same as the next, but at the end of the day, they are all very dynamic and open-minded.\r\n\r\nThese people can work very well together if they want the same things and share the same interest in BDSM.\r\n<h2><b>Tipos de <\/b><b>Rela\u00e7\u00f5es entre Dom e Sub<\/b><\/h2>\r\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-71613 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-holding-man-from-back-with-whip-in-hand.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a segurar um homem pelas costas com um chicote na m\u00e3o\" width=\"800\" height=\"542\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-holding-man-from-back-with-whip-in-hand.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-holding-man-from-back-with-whip-in-hand-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-holding-man-from-back-with-whip-in-hand-768x520.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>\r\n\r\nThe biggest misconception about BDSM relationships is physical contact.\r\n\r\nWhile a d\/s relationship can be physical, this is not a prerequisite. Domination and submission, role play, and the like can be conducted digitally or over the phone as well.&nbsp;\r\n\r\nAlso, people in a d\/s relationship can be romantically involved with one another (or not). <b>Podem estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o monog\u00e2mica, poliamorosa ou aberta, e de qualquer g\u00e9nero e sexualidade.&nbsp;<\/b>\r\n\r\nAnother type of BDSM relationship is TPE (Total Power Exchange), aka a master\/slave relationship. This means that partners in this kind of relationship take on their roles full-time.\r\n\r\nTheir entire relationship is built on the principle of dominant-submissive and they are constantly fulfilling their roles in everyday life.&nbsp;\r\n\r\nAnd there are also those who only practice their roles during play scenes. Again, sex is not a prerequisite in BDSM relationships in order to be called so.\r\n\r\n<b>A <\/b><b>d\/s din\u00e2mica<\/b><b> doesn\u2019t have to be limited to sexual activities only. It is more a matter of choice and personal preferences.&nbsp;<\/b>\r\n\r\nAlso, a d\/s relationship \u2013 on the contrary to SM \u2013 is more about power than physical sensation.\r\n\r\nBeing in such a relationship brings <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/dinamica-de-relacoes-romanticas-push-pull\/\">din\u00e2mica de pot\u00eancia<\/a> to another level and that is why many partners prefer it.&nbsp;\r\n\r\nSex life is also based on power, and the fact that one partner is more dominant than the other brings equilibrium to sex life and relationship overalll.\r\n\r\nSo, we could say that choosing this kind of relationship is more like choosing a lifestyle.&nbsp;\r\n<h2><b>As vantagens de D\/<\/b><b>Rela\u00e7\u00f5es S<\/b><\/h2>\r\nBelieve it or not, practicing kinky sex and being in a dom\/sub relationship in general has many advantages when it comes to overall health and well-being.&nbsp;\r\n\r\nDr. Sandra LaMorgese (sexpert; professional dominatrix; fetishist; and holistic practitioner in mind, body, and spiritual holism) claims that BDSM can help couples create a stronger bond and feel at ease.&nbsp;\r\n\r\nShe explains in the following words: \u201c<i>Durante <\/i><i>BDSM<\/i><i> sessions, clients often experience a release of dopamine and serotonin, the brain\u2019s feel-good neurotransmitters. These two chemicals are associated with feelings of happiness, tranquility, joy, self-confidence, emotional <\/i><i>bem-estar<\/i><i>e motiva\u00e7\u00e3o. Al\u00e9m disso, a liberta\u00e7\u00e3o da subst\u00e2ncia qu\u00edmica vasopressina leva as pessoas a sentirem-se ligadas umas \u00e0s outras.<\/i>\"\r\n\r\n<b>So, if you\u2019re still having doubts whether you should try the charms of d\/<\/b><b>s rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/b><b>A seguir, apresentamos algumas das suas vantagens que o podem ajudar a decidir:<\/b>\r\n<ul>\r\n \t<li>Melhora a comunica\u00e7\u00e3o&nbsp;<\/li>\r\n \t<li>Aumenta a intimidade<\/li>\r\n \t<li>Incentiva a fidelidade<\/li>\r\n \t<li>Melhora <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/10-sinais-de-alerta-de-que-o-seu-parceiro-esta-a-arruinar-a-sua-saude-mental\/\">sa\u00fade mental<\/a><\/li>\r\n \t<li>Reduz o stress psicol\u00f3gico<\/li>\r\n \t<li>Reduz a ansiedade<\/li>\r\n<\/ul>\r\nPhysical contact between BDSM couples helps them express their sexuality and be present in the interaction instead of just following the same pattern (as is the case in vanilla relationships).&nbsp;\r\n\r\nAnd this is what helps improve their mental health. People who practice BDSM are basically more open and more secure in relationships because this type of relationship requires trust and willingness to comply.&nbsp;\r\n\r\n<b>Para al\u00e9m da cura mental, h\u00e1 tamb\u00e9m a cura f\u00edsica ligada ao poder do toque.<\/b>\r\n\r\nA Dra. Sandra LaMorgese explica a cura f\u00edsica: <i>\u201cThe skin is the largest organ of the body, with millions of receptors right under the surface; receptors that, when stimulated by human touch, can lower our cortisol levels. When someone touches our skin, through massaging, playing, hugging, hand-holding, or having physical sex, we begin to experience physiological and physical healing.\u201d&nbsp;<\/i>\r\n\r\nSo, besides pleasure, BDSM can benefit both our mental and physical health, which is quite amazing.\r\n\r\nNow that we know the definition of a dominant-submissive relationship and its types and benefits, it\u2019s finally time to proceed with traits and roles of the dominant and submissive relationship and, of course, the rules of such a relationship with some examples (and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/conselhos-sobre-relacoes-2\/\">conselhos sobre rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/a>).&nbsp;\r\n<h2><b>Tra\u00e7os e pap\u00e9is do <\/b><b>Parceiro dominante<\/b><\/h2>\r\nIn order for you to better understand how all of this works, let me tell you some traits and roles of the dominant one in a dominant and submissive relationship.&nbsp;\r\n\r\nMale doms are not easily spotted, because as I said before, many men love to be adored and worshipped in this way \u2013 some just love it a tiny bit more. <b>Eis algumas caracter\u00edsticas e fun\u00e7\u00f5es do <\/b><b>parceiro dominante<\/b><b>:&nbsp;<\/b>\r\n<ul>\r\n \t<li>Assume o controlo de tudo<\/li>\r\n \t<li>Espera ser agradado<\/li>\r\n \t<li>\u00c9 respons\u00e1vel<\/li>\r\n \t<li>D\u00e1 prioridade aos seus pr\u00f3prios desejos<\/li>\r\n \t<li>Exige obedi\u00eancia&nbsp;<\/li>\r\n<\/ul>\r\n<h2><b>O que \u00e9 que torna uma pessoa dominante?&nbsp;<\/b><\/h2>\r\nPeople with dominant personalities are decisive, goal-oriented, and competitive. They express their feelings and gratefulness in an indirect, different way.&nbsp;\r\n\r\nAccording to Sigmund Freud&#8217;s theory of personality, there are two factors that impact the way a person behaves:\r\n<ol>\r\n \t<li>Gen\u00e9tica<\/li>\r\n \t<li>Ambiente<\/li>\r\n<\/ol>\r\nDominant people strongly believe in the Darwinian concept of \u201csurvival of the fittest\u201d. They believe that anything can be achieved only if you have a strong will.&nbsp;\r\n\r\nDominant people are also relatively controlling and impatient. Also, they are perfectly aware of their insecurities and weaknesses but they often refuse to show it to other people.&nbsp;\r\n\r\nOther personality traits associated with dominance are criticism and fault finding. A dominant person can be your partner, your sibling, your spouse, your boss, your friend, etc.&nbsp;\r\n\r\nDominant people are usually dominant in all aspects of their life (including sex life). If you don&#8217;t know how to deal with such a partner, your relationship might become toxic.&nbsp;\r\n<h2><b>Tra\u00e7os e pap\u00e9is do <\/b><b>Parceiro submisso<\/b><\/h2>\r\nWhile the dom is all about being in control, the sub enjoys being controlled and loves to please their partner in every way possible.\r\n\r\nThis doesn\u2019t just include in the bedroom, but in fact every aspect of life in which they can fulfill the needs of their dominant.\r\n\r\nThe important thing to realize is that the submissive isn\u2019t forced to do anything they don\u2019t want to do. Their behavior can take many forms including \u2018baby girl\u2019, \u2018pet\u2019, and similar but they are not a &#8220;slave&#8221;. Their desire is simply to please their partner.&nbsp;\r\n\r\nThe traits and roles of the submissive include:\r\n<ul>\r\n \t<li>Prepared to please their partner\u2019s wants and needs<\/li>\r\n \t<li>Aceita ser controlado<\/li>\r\n \t<li>Coloca as necessidades do seu parceiro acima de tudo<\/li>\r\n \t<li>Mostra vontade de agradar ao dominador&nbsp;<\/li>\r\n<\/ul>\r\n<h2><b>O que significa ser dominado numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o?&nbsp;<\/b><\/h2>\r\nGenerally, to be dominated in a relationship means to be in a relationship that is not based on reciprocity or compromise. However, this doesn&#8217;t necessarily mean that a dom\/sub relationship is toxic. It can be seen both as healthy or toxic.\r\n\r\nDominant partners are often seen as being selfish and self-absorbed regarding the psychological, emotional, and physical needs of the other person.&nbsp;\r\n\r\nPeople with dominant personality types often possess a sense of superiority and they have problems establishing a reciprocal relationship with others.&nbsp;\r\n\r\nIf both partners agree with their roles in a dominant-submissive relationship and they openly communicate about what they want, then we&#8217;re talking about a healthy dom-sub relationship.&nbsp;\r\n\r\nIf one partner feels neglected in one way or another, then we&#8217;re talking about a toxic type of dom-sub relationship.&nbsp;\r\n<h2><b>Como saber se algu\u00e9m est\u00e1 a tentar domin\u00e1-lo?&nbsp;<\/b><\/h2>\r\nPor vezes, as pessoas dominantes n\u00e3o est\u00e3o dispostas a fazer compromissos e querem controlar tudo numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. O maior sinal de alerta de que a pessoa est\u00e1 a tentar domin\u00e1-lo em todos os aspectos da sua vida \u00e9 o seu <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/controlo-do-comportamento\/\">comportamento de controlo e manipula\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>.&nbsp;\r\n\r\n<b>Here are other red flags that scream you&#8217;re in an unhealthy <\/b><b>rela\u00e7\u00e3o dominante\/subordinada<\/b><b>:&nbsp;<\/b>\r\n<ul>\r\n \t<li>Fazem-nos sentir que tudo \u00e9 culpa nossa<\/li>\r\n \t<li>Criticam-no a toda a hora<\/li>\r\n \t<li>Exigem mais e d\u00e3o menos<\/li>\r\n \t<li>They can&#8217;t openly communicate or connect with you<\/li>\r\n \t<li>They don&#8217;t value your opinions<\/li>\r\n \t<li>S\u00e3o controladores e intimidantes<\/li>\r\n \t<li><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/enganar-os-pais\/\">Eles iluminam-te com g\u00e1s<\/a><\/li>\r\n \t<li>They don&#8217;t take &#8220;no&#8221; for an answer<\/li>\r\n \t<li>Tentam mudar a sua apar\u00eancia ou personalidade<\/li>\r\n \t<li>T\u00eam ci\u00fames sem raz\u00e3o aparente<\/li>\r\n \t<li>Apresentam mudan\u00e7as dr\u00e1sticas de humor<\/li>\r\n \t<li>Podem apresentar um comportamento abusivo<\/li>\r\n<\/ul>\r\nSe se sente preso e com medo a toda a hora, estas s\u00e3o as maiores <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/sinais-de-uma-relacao-profundamente-doentia\/\">indicadores de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o pouco saud\u00e1vel<\/a>. In that case, don&#8217;t shy away from letting your partner know how you feel and\/or seeking professional help.&nbsp;\r\n\r\nTo avoid ending up in a toxic dominant and submissive relationship, here are essential rules to follow.&nbsp;\r\n<h2>Tipos de rela\u00e7\u00f5es entre dominadores e submissos<\/h2>\r\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-71615 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-covers-man-eyes-with-tie.jpg\" alt=\"mulher tapa olhos de homem com gravata\" width=\"800\" height=\"535\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-covers-man-eyes-with-tie.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-covers-man-eyes-with-tie-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-covers-man-eyes-with-tie-768x514.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>The biggest misconception about BDSM relationships is physical contact. While a d\/s relationship can be physical, this is not a prerequisite. Domination and submission, role play, and the like can be conducted digitally or over the phone as well.&nbsp;\r\n\r\nAlso, people in a d\/s relationship can be romantically involved with one another (or not). They can be in a monogamous, polyamorous, or open relationship, and of any gender and sexuality.&nbsp;\r\n\r\nAnother type of BDSM relationship is TPE (Total Power Exchange), aka a master\/slave relationship. This means that partners in this kind of relationship take on their roles full-time. Their entire relationship is built on the principle of dominant-submissive and they are constantly fulfilling their roles in everyday life.&nbsp;\r\n\r\nAnd there are also those who only practice their roles during play scenes. Again, sex is not a prerequisite in BDSM relationships in order to be called so. A d\/s dynamic doesn&#8217;t have to be limited to sexual activities only. It is more a matter of choice and personal preferences.&nbsp;\r\n\r\nAlso, a d\/s relationship \u2013 on the contrary to SM \u2013 is more about power than physical sensation. Being in such a relationship brings power dynamic to another level and that is why many partners prefer it.&nbsp;\r\n\r\nSex life is also based on power, and the fact that one partner is more dominant than the other brings equilibrium to sex life and relationship overalll. So, we could say that choosing this kind of relationship is more like choosing a lifestyle.&nbsp;\r\n<h2>Os benef\u00edcios das rela\u00e7\u00f5es D\/S<\/h2>\r\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-71618 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-in-underwear-with-leather-handcuffs.jpg\" alt=\"mulher em roupa interior com algemas de couro\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-in-underwear-with-leather-handcuffs.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-in-underwear-with-leather-handcuffs-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-in-underwear-with-leather-handcuffs-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Believe it or not, practicing kinky sex and being in a dom\/sub relationship in general has many advantages when it comes to overall health and well-being. Dr. Sandra LaMorgese (sexpert; professional dominatrix; fetishist; and holistic practitioner in mind, body, and spiritual holism) claims that BDSM can help couples create a stronger bond and feel at ease.&nbsp;\r\n\r\nShe explains in the following words: &#8221; <i> Durante <\/i><i> BDSM <\/i><i> sessions, clients often experience a release of dopamine and serotonin, the brain\u2019s feel-good neurotransmitters. These two chemicals are associated with feelings of happiness, tranquility, joy, self-confidence, emotional <\/i><i> bem-estar<\/i><i>e motiva\u00e7\u00e3o. Al\u00e9m disso, a liberta\u00e7\u00e3o da subst\u00e2ncia qu\u00edmica vasopressina leva as pessoas a sentirem-se ligadas umas \u00e0s outras. <\/i> &#8221;\r\n\r\nSo, if you&#8217;re still having doubts whether you should try the charms of d\/s relationship, here are some of its benefits that may help you decide:\r\n<ul>\r\n \t<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">Melhora a comunica\u00e7\u00e3o&nbsp;<\/li>\r\n \t<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">Aumenta a intimidade<\/li>\r\n \t<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">Incentiva a fidelidade<\/li>\r\n \t<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">Melhora <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/10-sinais-de-alerta-de-que-o-seu-parceiro-esta-a-arruinar-a-sua-saude-mental\/\"> sa\u00fade mental <\/a><\/li>\r\n \t<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">Reduz o stress psicol\u00f3gico<\/li>\r\n \t<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">Reduz a ansiedade<\/li>\r\n<\/ul>\r\nPhysical contact between BDSM couples helps them express their sexuality and be present in the interaction instead of just following the same pattern (as is the case in vanilla relationships).&nbsp;\r\n\r\nAnd this is what helps improve their mental health. People who practice BDSM are basically more open and more secure in relationships because this type of relationship requires trust and willingness to comply.&nbsp;\r\n\r\nApart from mental healing, there is also physical healing linked to the power of touch. Dr. Sandra LaMorgese explains physical healing: <i> \u201cThe skin is the largest organ of the body, with millions of receptors right under the surface; receptors that, when stimulated by human touch, can lower our cortisol levels. When someone touches our skin, through massaging, playing, hugging, hand-holding, or having physical sex, we begin to experience physiological and physical healing.&#8221;&nbsp; <\/i>\r\n\r\nSo, besides pleasure, BDSM can benefit both our mental and physical health, which is quite amazing. Now that we know the definition of a dominant-submissive relationship and its types and benefits, it&#8217;s finally time to proceed with traits and roles of the dominant and submissive and, of course, the rules of such a relationship with some examples.&nbsp;\r\n<h2>Tra\u00e7os e pap\u00e9is do dominante<\/h2>\r\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-71622 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/male-thumb-on-female-lips.jpg\" alt=\"polegar masculino nos l\u00e1bios femininos\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/male-thumb-on-female-lips.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/male-thumb-on-female-lips-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/male-thumb-on-female-lips-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>In order for you to better understand how all of this works, let me tell you some traits and roles of the dominant one in this type of relationship. Male doms are not easily spotted, because as I said before, many men love to be adored and worshipped in this way \u2013 some just love it a tiny bit more.\r\n\r\n1. Takes control over everything\r\n\r\n2. Expects to be pleased\r\n\r\n3. Is responsible\r\n\r\n4. Prioritizes their own desires\r\n\r\n5. Demands obedience\r\n<h2>Caracter\u00edsticas e pap\u00e9is do submisso<\/h2>\r\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-71624 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-holding-whip-in-her-mouth.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a segurar o chicote na boca\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-holding-whip-in-her-mouth.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-holding-whip-in-her-mouth-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-holding-whip-in-her-mouth-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>While the dom is all about being in control, the sub enjoys being controlled and loves to please their partner in every way possible. This doesn\u2019t just include in the bedroom, but in fact every aspect of life in which they can fulfill the needs of their dominant.\r\n\r\nThe important thing to realize is that the submissive isn\u2019t forced to do anything they don\u2019t want to do. They are not a slave; their desire is simply to please their partner. The traits and roles of the submissive include:\r\n\r\n1. Prepared to please their partner\u2019s wants and needs\r\n\r\n2. Accepts being controlled\r\n\r\n3. Puts the needs of their partner above everything else\r\n\r\n4. Shows a desire to please the dominant\r\n<h2>10 regras numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o dominante-submissa<\/h2>\r\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-71609 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Man-shows-silence-gesture-to-woman-while-covering-her-eyes.jpg\" alt=\"Homem faz um gesto de sil\u00eancio a uma mulher enquanto lhe tapa os olhos\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Man-shows-silence-gesture-to-woman-while-covering-her-eyes.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Man-shows-silence-gesture-to-woman-while-covering-her-eyes-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Man-shows-silence-gesture-to-woman-while-covering-her-eyes-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Como j\u00e1 foi referido, trata-se de um tipo espec\u00edfico de rela\u00e7\u00e3o em que \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio estabelecer regras para que tudo funcione corretamente e para que cada parte da rela\u00e7\u00e3o receba o que precisa <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/5-boundaries-you-have-to-create-in-order-to-be-happy\/\"> para ser feliz. <\/a> &nbsp;\r\n\r\nJust to be clear, there are no set rules across the board, because these rules are created by the principles of both sides of the relationship, so that both know what to comply with, what to avoid, and how to enforce the rules.\r\n\r\nIf you want to engage in this type of relationship without having had any previous experience, then be careful and open-minded to all the rules that are about to come about in order to get the most out of it.\r\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Abertura de esp\u00edrito<\/h3>\r\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-71663 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Lady-boss-and-laborer-in-uniform.jpg\" alt=\"Senhora patroa e oper\u00e1rio de uniforme\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Lady-boss-and-laborer-in-uniform.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Lady-boss-and-laborer-in-uniform-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Lady-boss-and-laborer-in-uniform-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Como j\u00e1 foi referido, manter uma mente aberta \u00e9 realmente crucial neste tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Em todas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es, \u00e9 preciso ter uma mente aberta para <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/8-maneiras-de-se-tornar-uma-mulher-de-alto-valor-que-ele-nunca-vai-querer-largar\/\"> os valores e as perspectivas <\/a> of your partner, but more so in this particular one. Why?&nbsp;\r\n\r\nWell, because, in dominant-submissive relationships, even though the doms are the ones who executes the commands, it doesn\u2019t mean that they can\u2019t learn something from the subs. It all depends on the experience you both have, as well as the willingness to learn from each other and work together. This is a dual effort and you have to work together to make it pleasant.\r\n\r\nAlso, you need to be open-minded to try out new things that you might not have liked or considered before. Maybe this time and the way he does it is actually different? Who knows? Give it a try and see what happens, as long as it\u2019s not going to hurt you too much (unless you want it to).\r\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Empatia<\/h3>\r\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-71666 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/male-touches-to-woman-face.jpg\" alt=\"toques de homem no rosto de mulher\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/male-touches-to-woman-face.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/male-touches-to-woman-face-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/male-touches-to-woman-face-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>I know that it sounds weird, but even though your submissive partner loves to be dominated, it doesn\u2019t mean that they don\u2019t see your human side. Your partner wants to fall in love with your human side, too; the one who knows how to have mercy and the one who is willing to bend the rules and give lighter punishments.\r\n\r\nEmpathy is the keyword when it comes to creating a successful BDSM relationship. For example, if your partner doesn&#8217;t agree with something, you as the dominant one shouldn&#8217;t force them to do something they&#8217;re not comfortable with. Remember that this is not a part of your role. You should always be ready to show empathy when your partner expects it \u2013 this shouldn&#8217;t be negotiable.&nbsp;\r\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Confian\u00e7a<\/h3>\r\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-71667 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/female-with-tied-hands-sitting-on-man.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com as m\u00e3os atadas sentada num homem\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/female-with-tied-hands-sitting-on-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/female-with-tied-hands-sitting-on-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/female-with-tied-hands-sitting-on-man-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>The only way to be trusted is to show trustworthiness first. You have to show your partner that you can be trusted to respect the rules and not cross the line. Even though it\u2019s expected from the sub to play the part of a servant, it\u2019s also expected from the dom to act as a worthy leader.&nbsp;\r\n\r\nNo woman in this day and age will go on her knees for someone who doesn\u2019t deserve it! That\u2019s why it\u2019s very important to build trust between the two of you. You have to trust your partner that he won\u2019t strike you too hard when he\u2019s punishing you and that he won\u2019t go all out when it comes to flogging you.&nbsp;\r\n\r\nImagine if a grown man would hit you as hard as he could, just because you trusted him and you let him do it? Well, it\u2019s not a dominant-submissive relationship anymore, but <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-coisas-que-precisa-de-aceitar-para-sobreviver-a-uma-relacao-abusiva\/\"> um abusivo. <\/a>\r\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Expectativas mais baixas<\/h3>\r\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-71628 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-kneeing-on-bed-while-man-holding-whip.jpg\" alt=\"mulher ajoelhada na cama enquanto o homem segura o chicote\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-kneeing-on-bed-while-man-holding-whip.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-kneeing-on-bed-while-man-holding-whip-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-kneeing-on-bed-while-man-holding-whip-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>You can\u2019t expect your partner to fulfill all your crazy fantasies. You have to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/expectativas-nao-satisfeitas-sao-a-causa-comum-de-relacionamentos-desfeitos\/\"> reduzir as suas expectativas <\/a> to match the willingness of your partner. In any other way, the relationship simply won\u2019t work.\r\n\r\nFor example, if you are a dominant, don\u2019t expect your partner to get undressed every time you come home from work or to always call you Master. Just imagine if you came home from work with a friend and your wife was sitting on the floor in front of the door completely naked. It shouldn\u2019t be about embarrassing your partner! And also, if she doesn\u2019t want to call you Master at a certain moment, then you probably haven\u2019t deserved the title at all.\r\n\r\nAlso, if you\u2019re a submissive, don\u2019t expect your partner to praise you every time you do a good job; know that he can do things on his own, which means that he won\u2019t always need you to do things for him. I know that you are there to please him, but remember that you\u2019re not there to do everything for him. You are his partner, not a slave.\r\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Comunica\u00e7\u00e3o honesta<\/h3>\r\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-71669 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/man-gently-touching-blindfolded-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem a tocar suavemente numa mulher com os olhos vendados\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/man-gently-touching-blindfolded-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/man-gently-touching-blindfolded-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/man-gently-touching-blindfolded-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/10-communication-skills-that-are-crucial-in-a-relationship\/\">A comunica\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 fundamental <\/a> in this type of relationship, as in every other. You have to gather information about each other in order to actually see if you\u2019re compatible for a d\/s relationship. You have to talk about health, boundaries, sex needs, and your previous experience in this type of relationship.\r\n\r\nWomen especially want to have their minds read, but it\u2019s not that easy. Unless you verbalize what you want and don\u2019t want, it remains in your head.\r\n\r\nFor example, if you\u2019re the dominant one and you want to push the limits a bit, then you have to sit down with your partner and talk everything through in detail so you know if it\u2019s appropriate or not. If you refuse to talk about your wants and needs, then the relationship is doomed to fail without a doubt.\r\n\r\nYou want this relationship experience to be a positive one, don\u2019t you? If yes, invest in your communication and show your partner that they can be heard at any given time, because you will dedicate the time and energy needed to meet their needs.\r\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Utilizar uma palavra segura<\/h3>\r\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-71634 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/man-holding-womans-hands-while-she-is-in-underwear.jpg\" alt=\"homem a segurar as m\u00e3os de uma mulher enquanto ela est\u00e1 em roupa interior\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/man-holding-womans-hands-while-she-is-in-underwear.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/man-holding-womans-hands-while-she-is-in-underwear-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/man-holding-womans-hands-while-she-is-in-underwear-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>When you\u2019ve decided that you want to start this type of relationship, make sure to establish a safe word. Because of the fact that BDSM can get a bit dangerous in-between the sheets, make sure to have a safe word that your sub will say so you know that they need to stop.\r\n\r\nDon\u2019t use any word that you would usually use in a sexual scenario. Use a word that\u2019s unusual and that lets the dominant know that everything is not OK.\r\n\r\nYou can also establish words that show you\u2019re either OK or that they need to stop right away or you\u2019ll get seriously hurt. Many people use the green\/yellow\/red system here. Green means \u201cgo ahead,\u201d yellow is \u201cproceed but with caution,\u201d and red is a simple and clear \u201cSTOP!\u201d The dominant partner has to obey the safe word in order for the relationship to proceed in a healthy manner.\r\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Sa\u00fade<\/h3>\r\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-71637 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/smiling-woman-holding-man-by-the-thie.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sorridente segurando um homem pela m\u00e3o\" width=\"800\" height=\"537\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/smiling-woman-holding-man-by-the-thie.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/smiling-woman-holding-man-by-the-thie-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/smiling-woman-holding-man-by-the-thie-768x516.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/smiling-woman-holding-man-by-the-thie-760x510.jpg 760w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>The dominant-submissive relationship requires both partners to be mentally and physically healthy. This involves good sleeping habits, a minimal intake of alcohol, a nutritious diet, and a stress-free lifestyle.\r\n\r\nIf your sub isn\u2019t able to meet your needs because of health problems, then don\u2019t force yourself on them. Rather, invest in their well-being and let them take as much time as needed in order to regain their strength, then you can continue your relationship as before.\r\n\r\nYou have to respect each other\u2019s comfort zones and if you do experiment, don\u2019t do it without the consent of the other. There are more important things in life than sex, so if you see that your partner simply can\u2019t continue to please you, then stop. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/i-chased-you-but-now-i-see-you-were-not-worth-it\/\"> It\u2019s not worth it. <\/a>\r\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Desfrutar<\/h3>\r\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-71650 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-with-tied-hand-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com a m\u00e3o atada\" width=\"800\" height=\"547\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-with-tied-hand-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-with-tied-hand-1-300x205.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-with-tied-hand-1-768x525.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Why are you doing all of this? To enjoy yourself, right? You both do it in order to have some fun and to enjoy your relationship on a whole new level. That\u2019s why you have to respect each other, because otherwise you won\u2019t get what you are searching for.&nbsp;\r\n\r\nRemember that it\u2019s not about punishing someone or doing everything that\u2019s needed in order to please someone just because it\u2019s easier that way. Look for the joyful part in it and don\u2019t forget why you started all of this in the first place: to get the most out of your relationship.\r\n\r\nDon\u2019t push each other\u2019s limits just so you can punish them for doing something you aren\u2019t a fan of. Look at their face and see if they\u2019re enjoying it. If not, stop.\r\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Paci\u00eancia<\/h3>\r\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-71651 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/man-kissing-his-sexy-submissive.jpg\" alt=\"homem a beijar a sua submissa sexy\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/man-kissing-his-sexy-submissive.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/man-kissing-his-sexy-submissive-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/man-kissing-his-sexy-submissive-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>You don\u2019t have to run around commanding your partner every step of the way. Start it as with every other standard relationship. Understand each other, communicate, and be gentle. Don\u2019t rush anything. Have patience and your partner will thank you afterwards.\r\n\r\nIn order to create a comfortable atmosphere for the submissive to relax more, the dominant has to be gentle and caring. I know that it\u2019s not in your nature if you\u2019re the dominant one, but your<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-sinais-de-que-a-relacao-vai-durar\/\"> a rela\u00e7\u00e3o ser\u00e1 duradoura<\/a> longer if you put in that extra effort and really do have patience with your partner.\r\n\r\nAll of your fantasies can\u2019t come true at the same time. Have patience as the dominant or the submissive. Don\u2019t just rush your partner into doing things right away, but have faith that they will loosen up with time. It\u2019s very important to not forget that you are both human beings who have to take their time in order to get the most out of their position.\r\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Cumprir as regras<\/h3>\r\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-71649 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/bearded-man-sitting-on-chair-while-woman-standing-on-table-in-mini-skirt.jpg\" alt=\"homem barbudo sentado numa cadeira enquanto uma mulher de minissaia est\u00e1 de p\u00e9 sobre uma mesa\" width=\"800\" height=\"535\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/bearded-man-sitting-on-chair-while-woman-standing-on-table-in-mini-skirt.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/bearded-man-sitting-on-chair-while-woman-standing-on-table-in-mini-skirt-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/bearded-man-sitting-on-chair-while-woman-standing-on-table-in-mini-skirt-768x514.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>If you have established rules at the beginning of the relationship, then be sure to fulfill them. Don\u2019t pipe up to your dom out of nowhere, telling him that you didn\u2019t want to do something. If you have established certain rules, be sure to stick to them.\r\n\r\nThis is how you <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/a-transparencia-gera-confianca-nao-se-esquivar-a-conversas-dificeis\/\"> criar confian\u00e7a na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o <\/a> and it\u2019s how you know that you are both getting something out of it. You\u2019re not being taken advantage of and your partner respects all the rules. That why you should, too.\r\n\r\nFollow all the rules that you have agreed on and if you really want to change something you\u2019ve already talked about, then make sure to let your partner know beforehand instead of telling him right before or in the middle of sex.\r\n<h2>Exemplos de regras de submiss\u00e3o a seguir<\/h2>\r\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-71656 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/domineering-kissing-his-submissive-while-wearing-mask.jpg\" alt=\"dominador a beijar a sua submissa enquanto usa m\u00e1scara\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/domineering-kissing-his-submissive-while-wearing-mask.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/domineering-kissing-his-submissive-while-wearing-mask-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/domineering-kissing-his-submissive-while-wearing-mask-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Because you might be a beginner in the world of a dominant-submissive relationship, I am going to give you some examples and ideas for submissive rules to follow. It\u2019s nothing too much, simply some inspiration and insight into this type of relationship.\r\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Espancamento<\/h3>\r\nSpanking doesn\u2019t always have to be a punishment. Sometimes it\u2019s used to let the submissive know that their work is being acknowledged. But spanking should be as hard as you two agree on. Here, it\u2019s really important to use your safe word if needed.\r\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">N\u00e3o usar\u00e1s cuecas em casa<\/h3>\r\nA simple and effective rule. The dominant knows that he\u2019s in power, while the submissive isn\u2019t harmed by it.\r\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Far\u00e1s sexo quando te mandarem<\/h3>\r\nPara que o dominador sinta realmente o seu poder, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/10-regras-de-quarto-para-apimentar-a-sua-vida-sexual\/\"> s\u00e3o necess\u00e1rias regras como estas<\/a>. O parceiro submisso tem de agradar ao seu dominante em qualquer altura do dia.\r\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Pedir autoriza\u00e7\u00e3o antes de gozar<\/h3>\r\nN\u00e3o \u00e9 necess\u00e1ria qualquer explica\u00e7\u00e3o.\r\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Lembra-te a quem pertences<\/h3>\r\nThe submissive shouldn\u2019t have any other sexual partner while they\u2019re in this type of relationship. By being monogamous, it lets the dominant know that they are in full control and that there\u2019s nothing they need to fight for. The sub has to know to whom they belong so that the dom never takes their loyalty into question.\r\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Deixar o Mestre orgulhoso<\/h3>\r\nAgain, the submissive doesn\u2019t have to call the dominant Master unless they deserve it. But making their master proud actually has a deeper meaning. It\u2019s not just about the pleasing of their physical needs, but also about making them proud of you in every aspect of your life. This will improve both your physical and mental health because you will feel sensations of accomplishment, trust, and the ultimate bond.&nbsp;\r\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Eu falo, tu obedeces<\/h3>\r\nWhatever the dominant says he wants, he gets. But, you shouldn&#8217;t really be strict when it comes to this one. It is okay not to obey something you really don&#8217;t feel comfortable with.&nbsp;\r\n\r\nAnd that is why it is good to inform your partner about some things that you&#8217;re not okay with so that they don&#8217;t insist on it during the action. It&#8217;s all about agreement and your performance in accordance with it.&nbsp;\r\n<h2>Considera\u00e7\u00f5es finais<\/h2>\r\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-71660 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-tied-hands-with-tie.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de m\u00e3os atadas com gravata\" width=\"800\" height=\"530\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-tied-hands-with-tie.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-tied-hands-with-tie-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-tied-hands-with-tie-768x509.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>I know that most of these things might sound confusing and perhaps even scary, but believe me, they can be very romantic and pleasant for both sides of the relationship. Don\u2019t get scared off by BDSM porn, because it is too brutal and unrealistic.\r\n\r\nA true dominant-submissive relationship is respect and care, and every woman wants that in her relationship. The only difference here is that there are strict rules established that you have to follow in order to keep both parties happy and satisfied (just like in <i> 50 tons de cinzento<\/i>).\r\n\r\nWhen you do it for the first time, it will probably be different than you expected, but with time it will get better and better. So, if you give it a try, you may just fall in love with this type of lifestyle.\r\n\r\nMaybe you are the dominant one and you will find your submissive whom <a style=\"background-color: #ffffff;\" href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/horoscope\/e-assim-que-o-teu-homem-te-vai-fazer-feliz-com-base-no-seu-signo-do-zodiaco\/\"> tu ir\u00e1s <\/a><a style=\"background-color: #ffffff;\" href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/horoscope\/e-assim-que-o-teu-homem-te-vai-fazer-feliz-com-base-no-seu-signo-do-zodiaco\/\">fazer feliz <\/a> and who will do anything to please your every need.\r\n\r\nThese relationships can be better than the majority of vanilla relationships people think of as normal and functioning.So don\u2019t worry! Even if you merely want to explore a bit, just make sure to let your partner know that when you\u2019re establishing the rules of the relationship.\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-71601 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Dominant-And-Submissive-Relationships-\u2013-Top-10-Rules-To-Follow-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Rela\u00e7\u00f5es entre dominantes e submissos - As 10 principais regras a seguir\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Dominant-And-Submissive-Relationships-\u2013-Top-10-Rules-To-Follow-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Dominant-And-Submissive-Relationships-\u2013-Top-10-Rules-To-Follow-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Dominant-And-Submissive-Relationships-\u2013-Top-10-Rules-To-Follow-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Dominant-And-Submissive-Relationships-\u2013-Top-10-Rules-To-Follow-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Dominant-And-Submissive-Relationships-\u2013-Top-10-Rules-To-Follow-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Dominant-And-Submissive-Relationships-\u2013-Top-10-Rules-To-Follow-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n<!-- \/wp:post-content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What are the benefits, roles, and rules of a dominant and submissive relationship? What does dominant and submissive mean in a relationship?&nbsp; A dominant-submissive relationship is a relationship where one partner is dominant and the other one submits to his\/her partner. Both partners have their own roles.&nbsp; When it comes to defining and understanding BDSM,&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":71603,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18812","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Dominant-And-Submissive-Relationships-\u2013-Top-10-Rules-To-Follow.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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