{"id":18850,"date":"2020-04-17T09:30:57","date_gmt":"2020-04-17T09:30:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18850"},"modified":"2022-02-22T16:25:17","modified_gmt":"2022-02-22T16:25:17","slug":"5-maneiras-de-lidar-com-homens-emocionalmente-indisponiveis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-maneiras-de-lidar-com-homens-emocionalmente-indisponiveis\/","title":{"rendered":"5 maneiras de lidar com homens emocionalmente indispon\u00edveis"},"content":{"rendered":"

Apaixonar-se por um homem emocionalmente indispon\u00edvel<\/a> sometimes seems like you\u2019re dating a wall.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re doing your best, trying so hard and giving all of yourself to your relationship and it seems like it\u2019s all in vain.<\/p>\n

It seems like you\u2019re screaming at a wall and all you hear is your own echo.<\/p>\n

E h\u00e1 tantos caracter\u00edsticas dos homens emocionalmente indispon\u00edveis<\/a> que, por vezes, parece imposs\u00edvel perceber se o nosso parceiro est\u00e1 realmente emocionalmente indispon\u00edvel. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Algumas das principais caracter\u00edsticas a ter em conta s\u00e3o o facto de ser um mau comunicador, estar sempre cheio de desculpas, ser arrogante e s\u00f3 falar, procurar a perfei\u00e7\u00e3o e ser mentiroso.<\/p>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

But sometimes, emotionally unavailable man can overcome whatever it is that\u2019s bothering them because there are two types of unavailability\u2014chronic and temporary.<\/p>\n

A indisponibilidade cr\u00f3nica \u00e9 causada por uma doen\u00e7a mental, uma depend\u00eancia ou uma inf\u00e2ncia conturbada, ao passo que a tempor\u00e1ria resulta do facto de se dar mais prioridade a algo do que \u00e0 rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Algumas pessoas t\u00eam apenas medo de se apaixonar e de se magoarem novamente, tornando-se assim emocionalmente indispon\u00edveis. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Sometimes it\u2019s almost impossible to tell if it\u2019s something temporary that can be solved with time or if it\u2019s chronic.<\/p>\n

Se o seu homem vale a pena e voc\u00ea acredita firmemente que ele vale, aqui est\u00e3o todas as formas de lidar com homens emocionalmente indispon\u00edveis.<\/p>\n

1. Ouvir o que ele tem para dizer<\/h2>\n

\"fotografia<\/p>\n

So many women out there fall in love with someone and when it\u2019s already too late, they realize that he is not who they believed he was.<\/p>\n

And chances are great that he was telling her the truth all the time, but because of the love and honeymoon phase that strikes in the early beginning of a relationship, they just didn\u2019t see it coming.<\/p>\n

Se j\u00e1 tem algumas d\u00favidas sobre ele, preste aten\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 forma como ele comunica consigo e com as outras pessoas.<\/p>\n

Ou\u00e7a-o quando ele est\u00e1 a falar das suas ex-mulheres ou do passado, porque h\u00e1 muitas pistas a\u00ed.<\/p>\n

If he never takes the blame for his actions, he could be chronically emotionally unavailable and there\u2019s just no point in trying to save him.<\/p>\n

But, if he admits that there were certain things he could\u2019ve done differently or that his ex broke him and he never believed he\u2019ll apaixonar-se de novo<\/a>Se o seu filho n\u00e3o estiver dispon\u00edvel, pode estar a lidar com uma indisponibilidade tempor\u00e1ria. Nesse caso, arme-se de paci\u00eancia e amor.<\/p>\n

2. Don\u2019t push him \u2013 he needs to heal on his own<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Tanto quanto quer consert\u00e1-lo<\/a> e ajud\u00e1-lo a ultrapassar isso, ele precisa de o fazer sozinho. Ele precisa de tomar essa decis\u00e3o sozinho e de o fazer por si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

Tudo o que pode fazer agora \u00e9 dar-lhe apoio e mostrar-lhe que n\u00e3o foi voc\u00ea que o quebrou, que n\u00e3o foi voc\u00ea que o fez construir os seus muros.<\/p>\n

And with time, he\u2019ll come around. But if you keep pushing him, his walls will only grow thicker.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 por isso que o n\u00famero quatro desta lista \u00e9 verdadeiramente importante quando se est\u00e1 a lidar com um homem emocionalmente indispon\u00edvel.<\/p>\n

3. Don\u2019t apologize for your feelings and wishes<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Your feelings are yours to feel and your wishes are yours to wish. Don\u2019t ever apologize for them\u2014not to him, not to yourself and not to anyone else out there.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o h\u00e1 literalmente ningu\u00e9m que tenha estado no vosso lugar e n\u00e3o h\u00e1 ningu\u00e9m que possa sonhar como voc\u00eas sonham e amar como voc\u00eas amam.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 por isso que as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es, os seus sonhos e os seus desejos fazem parte de si. S\u00e3o eles que fazem de si um ser \u00fanico.<\/p>\n

And don\u2019t be ashamed if you are dreaming about having a huge family and a bunch of children running around. Don\u2019t be ashamed if you are not dreaming about children at all.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s your choice to do so and if you are respecting his choices (like building walls and staying behind them), he needs to respect yours.<\/p>\n

If by any chance he is making you feel less worthy because of your dreams or he\u2019s making fun of them, same like your feelings, he is not worth it.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s one thing to be emotionally unavailable, but it\u2019s a completely different one to be an asshole.<\/p>\n

4. Manter a sua independ\u00eancia e felicidade como prioridade<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

When you are dealing with such men, it\u2019s important that you keep your independence a priority.<\/p>\n

I know that you love him, you wouldn\u2019t be with him if you didn\u2019t in the first place.<\/p>\n

I know that you want to make him your life, but it\u2019s incredibly important that you don\u2019t do it.<\/p>\n

Fa\u00e7a com que ele fa\u00e7a parte disso, mas continue a perseguir os seus sonhos, a sua felicidade e o seu futuro.<\/p>\n

Ao faz\u00ea-lo, estar\u00e1 a dar-lhe espa\u00e7o para crescer e trabalhar sobre si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

You will show him that you are not trying to change him and that that\u2019s something he needs to do on his own.<\/p>\n

Esta \u00e9 importante porque ele ver\u00e1 que n\u00e3o \u00e9 como qualquer outra pessoa que ele j\u00e1 conheceu, que \u00e9 a sua pr\u00f3pria mulher, com os seus pr\u00f3prios sonhos e a sua pr\u00f3pria vida.<\/p>\n

With time, he will want to be part of it because there is something about you that attracted him in the beginning\u2014your independence and your will to live.<\/p>\n

And another reason why this is important is that you don\u2019t want to give him too much power over you.<\/p>\n

Sometimes these things simply don\u2019t work out and this is a perfect way for you to have that safety net, to have something to hold onto when you lose him.<\/p>\n

5. Certifica-te de que \u00e9 isto que realmente queres<\/h2>\n

\"morena<\/p>\n

Above all, be sure that this is something you want to do. Be sure that you are ready to scream at the wall, that you are ready to give your love to someone who doesn\u2019t know how to give his love to you.<\/p>\n

Certifique-se de que est\u00e1 preparado para p\u00f4r a sua vida amorosa em espera por algo que pode acabar por n\u00e3o resultar.<\/p>\n

Sim, parece assustador como o inferno e sim, existe a possibilidade de doer muito.<\/p>\n

But if you\u2019re up for it, if you are sure, keep in mind that there is nothing you can\u2019t do when you set your mind to it. And if he is not the one for you, you can be the one for yourself.<\/p>\n

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