{"id":18865,"date":"2020-04-01T10:51:49","date_gmt":"2020-04-01T10:51:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18865"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:12:16","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:12:16","slug":"amar-te-nao-foi-mais-do-que-uma-perda-de-tempo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amar-te-nao-foi-mais-do-que-uma-perda-de-tempo\/","title":{"rendered":"Amar-te n\u00e3o foi nada mais do que uma perda de tempo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando nos conhecemos e quando come\u00e7\u00e1mos a nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, t\u00ednhamos muitos planos para o futuro. Esper\u00e1vamos realizar muitas coisas e quer\u00edamos fazer tudo juntos.<\/p>\n

We were certain we would grow old together and that our love didn\u2019t have an expiration date.<\/p>\n

T\u00ednhamos a certeza de que nada nem ningu\u00e9m nos poderia separar e que \u00e9ramos mais fortes do que qualquer obst\u00e1culo que a vida nos pudesse colocar.<\/p>\n

We thought that we were meant to be and that our love was something that couldn\u2019t go away.<\/p>\n

E ent\u00e3o, depois de anos passados juntos, tu foi-se embora sem dizer uma palavra <\/a> .<\/p>\n

Deixaste-me como se nunca tiv\u00e9ssemos existido e como se nunca me tivesses amado.<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

Afastaste-te de mim como se a nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o nunca tivesse significado nada para ti e como se nunca tivesse sido importante para ti.<\/p>\n

When you left, I felt the kind of pain I had never felt before. And I literally thought I wouldn\u2019t survive without you.<\/p>\n

Estava convencido de que a minha vida n\u00e3o tinha qualquer significado ou objetivo e estava disposto a fazer tudo o que fosse preciso s\u00f3 para te ter de volta.<\/p>\n

Questionava-me todos os dias sobre a nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, tentando encontrar respostas. Perguntava-me se teria feito algo que te tivesse afastado, algo que te tivesse feito deixar-me.<\/p>\n

I asked myself why I wasn\u2019t enough and if there was something I could\u2019ve done to keep you by my side.<\/p>\n

But after months of tears and the worst kind of emotional suffering I\u2019ve ever experienced, one day I smiled and you weren\u2019t the reason why.<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

E foi nesse dia que soube que acabaria por te esquecer. Foi o dia em que soube que a minha recupera\u00e7\u00e3o tinha come\u00e7ado e o dia em que comecei a esquecer-me de ti.<\/p>\n

E acabei por o fazer seguir em frente <\/a> de certa forma. Eventualmente, ultrapassei o amor que sentia por ti e o facto de te teres afastado de mim como se nunca te importasses comigo.<\/p>\n

Ultrapassei o facto de todos os nossos sonhos e esperan\u00e7as terem sido em v\u00e3o e segui em frente com todos os nossos planos e objectivos.<\/p>\n

But what I can\u2019t get over was the fact that I spent years with you and that those years were only significant to me.<\/b><\/p>\n

What I can\u2019t get over is the fact that everything we went through meant a lot only to me. <\/b><\/p>\n

What I can\u2019t get over is the fact that all the years I spent with you were in vain and that they are all gone with the wind.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

What I can\u2019t get over is the fact that I wasted years of my life on someone who never loved me and with someone who could walk away from me and never look back, like I was just a stop along the way.<\/p>\n

What I can\u2019t get over is the fact that loving you was obviously just a waste of time.<\/b><\/p>\n

Porque n\u00e3o me levou a lado nenhum e n\u00e3o me trouxe nada de bom ou positivo.<\/b><\/p>\n

S\u00f3 me trouxe l\u00e1grimas e sofrimento.<\/p>\n

It has brought me to the point where I\u2019ve now lost trust in everyone around me, where I question everyone\u2019s intentions and where I don\u2019t let anyone in.<\/p>\n

It has brought me to the point where I hate the person you\u2019ve made me become.<\/p>\n

Amar-te foi um desperd\u00edcio de energia, um desperd\u00edcio da minha paci\u00eancia, um desperd\u00edcio dos meus sacrif\u00edcios e esfor\u00e7os.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

Estar contigo foi um desperd\u00edcio de amor porque me desperdicei completamente contigo. <\/b><\/p>\n

E para qu\u00ea? O que \u00e9 que eu ganho com isso agora, para al\u00e9m da desilus\u00e3o e da humilha\u00e7\u00e3o? Para al\u00e9m desta amargura no fundo da minha garganta sempre que algu\u00e9m menciona o teu nome?<\/p>\n

Para al\u00e9m desta negatividade e pessimismo que me consome por completo? Para al\u00e9m desta d\u00favida sobre o meu pr\u00f3prio valor e para al\u00e9m deste medo do futuro?<\/p>\n

Dei-te os meus melhores anos e todas as melhores partes de mim e nunca recebi o agradecimento que merecia. Nunca recebi o apre\u00e7o e o respeito que merecia.<\/p>\n

I never got the confirmation that I existed in your life and that I\u2019d made a difference inside of you.<\/p>\n

E isso era o m\u00ednimo que me devias ter dado.<\/p>\n

\"Amar-te<\/p>\n

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When you and I met and when we started our relationship, we had numerous plans for the future. We hoped to accomplish a lot and we wanted to do it all together. We were certain we would grow old together and that our love didn\u2019t have an expiration date. We were certain that nothing and…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":76564,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18865","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Loving-You-Was-Nothing-But-A-Waste-Of-Time.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","parent":38,"count":146,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29617,"category_count":146,"category_description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","cat_name":"heartbreak","category_nicename":"heartbreak","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18865","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18865"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18865\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/76564"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18865"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18865"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18865"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}