{"id":18896,"date":"2018-05-18T07:51:40","date_gmt":"2018-05-18T07:51:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18896"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:32:44","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:32:44","slug":"a-bondade-nao-era-a-sua-fraqueza-era-a-sua-forca","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-bondade-nao-era-a-sua-fraqueza-era-a-sua-forca\/","title":{"rendered":"A bondade n\u00e3o era a sua fraqueza, era a sua for\u00e7a"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Escolheu-a porque ela era bem sucedida, greg\u00e1ria e emp\u00e1tica por natureza. O mesmo n\u00edvel de altru\u00edsmo que ela demonstrava para com os outros era o mesmo que tinha para consigo. Sabias que ela era especial, sabias que ela era \u00fanica, mas escolheste tirar partido da sua natureza carinhosa.<\/p>\n<p>Your perception of her compassion and kindness as some sort of personality flaw or deficit drove you to pass up on what could have been the \u2018real deal\u2019. Instead, you settled for much less.<\/p>\n<p>Quando estiveres na tua cama, sozinho, estar\u00e1s <strong>assombrado<\/strong> by the innumerable acts of kindness bestowed upon you. Those \u2018no-strings-attached\u2019 acts of kindness will <strong>eco<\/strong> no teu c\u00e9rebro e assombram a tua mente.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember SHE was the kind of girl who gave of herself endlessly and who expected nothing in return.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/um-dia-vais-perceber-que-um-sempre\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">ELA estava l\u00e1 para si<\/a> quando precisavas de um ombro para chorar.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember SHE was the girl who nursed you back to health when you were sick.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember SHE was the girl who gave you late-night back rubs because she knew you needed them.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember SHE was your number one cheerleader, who constantly motivated you with her fiery spirit.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember even after working long hours and after taking care of others, SHE always made sure dinner was ready for you when you walked in the door.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember the time SHE purchased Mother\u2019s Day flowers for your mother because you could not be bothered.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember those sweet letters SHE hid in your suitcase when you traveled on business.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember HER inspiring words and speeches she shared with you prior to your job interviews.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember how SHE listened to your every word and how she would try to understand your outlandish behavior\u2014never being judgmental but instead gracious and understanding.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember SHE knew her kindness was rare in this world of selfishness\u2014she was selfless.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember how SHE told you how handsome you were and you responded by telling her she wore too much make-up.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember the many nights SHE spent crying on the bathroom floor out of frustration for you. Frustration that you could not understand what it meant to be kind.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember SHE knew that in order to make relationships work, kindness, a simple act of humanity, should be practiced daily.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember SHE was kind because she loved you.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember how <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/vai-arrepender-se-de-ter-aproveitado-a-rapariga-amada\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">aproveitou-se dela<\/a> bondade e tratou-a como seu capacho.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember SHE encouraged you to show kindness to others.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember her face when she told you she loved you and you said nothing in return.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember what healing powers come from kindness.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember after a long day at work you were happy to see her face and hear those words of encouragement.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember SHE was never disrespectful when responding to your negativity.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember that you are so misguided for seeing <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/por-favor-nao-se-deixe-levar-pela-fraqueza-da-bondade\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">a sua bondade como uma fraqueza<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Acontecer\u00e1 quando passares por ela na rua e ela sorrir para ti. Lembrar-se-\u00e1 que n\u00e3o passa de um desperd\u00edcio de espa\u00e7o lament\u00e1vel por encontrar prazer em deitar abaixo uma pessoa genu\u00edna como ela. Ver\u00e1s que n\u00e3o passas de um ser humano deplor\u00e1vel. ELA, por outro lado, ser\u00e1 mais compreensiva e v\u00ea-lo-\u00e1 como algu\u00e9m que ainda tem potencial para ser bom.<\/p>\n<p>Lembrar-se-\u00e3o que nunca encontrar\u00e3o outra como ela. ELA \u00e9 uma ra\u00e7a rara neste mundo ego\u00edsta em que vivemos atualmente. Pessoas como ela demonstram for\u00e7a, graciosidade e compaix\u00e3o. Pessoas como ela merecem o MELHOR numa parceria igualit\u00e1ria. Pessoas como voc\u00ea, que v\u00eaem a sua bondade e compaix\u00e3o como fraquezas, n\u00e3o t\u00eam qualquer direito de fazer parte da vida dela.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cKindness is a language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see\u201d- Mark Twain.<\/p><\/blockquote>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You chose her because she was successful, gregarious and empathetic by nature. That same level of altruism she showed toward others was the same level she had for you. You knew she was special, you knew she was unique, yet you chose to take advantage of her nurturing nature. Your perception of her compassion and&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":18897,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18896","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/dan-7kidz-634317-unsplash.jpg",800,531,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18896","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18896"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18896\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18897"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18896"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18896"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18896"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}