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<\/p>\nMuitas pessoas dir-lhe-\u00e3o que \u00e9 preciso ter mem\u00f3rias reais com algu\u00e9m para poder sentir a sua falta.<\/p>\n
They will tell you that you need to share a life with someone so you can feel their absence and so you can suffer for them. They will tell you can\u2019t lose someone you never had.<\/p>\n
E aqui est\u00e1s tu, a sofrer por um tipo com quem nunca tiveste uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/b><\/p>\n
Whether this is just someone you were madly in love or someone you had some kind of almost relationship with, no strings attached, or someone you were friends with benefits with\u2014the point is that you two were never exclusive and you never labeled things. But despite that, you know you miss him like hell.<\/p>\n
You feel like someone has ripped a part of your chest out and you feel like your heart has literally been broken. You can\u2019t breathe knowing that you never had him and that you never will and you can\u2019t sleep knowing that the next day will give you the same pain all over again.<\/p>\n
Ent\u00e3o, perguntamo-nos se estamos loucos. O que \u00e9 que se passa consigo? Como \u00e9 que se pode ter saudades de algu\u00e9m que nunca se teve e de algu\u00e9m que nunca foi nosso?<\/b><\/p>\n
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You keep telling yourself that you don\u2019t have any memories with this guy, you don\u2019t have anything to hold on to. You keep telling yourself that you are overreacting and that this pain is not something you should be feeling.<\/p>\n
Continua a dizer a si pr\u00f3prio que \u00e9 um mulher madura<\/a> e que ele \u00e9 tudo menos digno de tanto sofrimento. At\u00e9 se sente envergonhada por se permitir sentir tanta dor por algu\u00e9m que nunca namorou.<\/p>\n Tem vergonha de partilhar os seus pensamentos e sentimentos com as pessoas que o rodeiam e at\u00e9 tenta escond\u00ea-los de si pr\u00f3prio. Pensa que esta dor desaparecer\u00e1 se fugir dela durante muito tempo.<\/p>\n But time has passed by and nothing has changed. You\u2019ve tried everything but it appears that this pain only gets stronger and stronger with every day that passes by.<\/p>\n E nenhuma dessas coisas que continuas a dizer a ti pr\u00f3prio te ajuda. Embora a tua mente te esteja a dizer tudo isto, o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o tem o seu pr\u00f3prio caminho.<\/p>\n No matter how hard you try to fight it, you know that this pain is real and you simply don\u2019t know what to do about it.<\/p>\n Bem, deixem-me dizer-vos que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada de que se envergonhar. E deixem-me dizer-vos que n\u00e3o est\u00e3o de certeza loucos. Porque podes sofrer por algu\u00e9m que nunca foi teu. <\/b><\/p>\n E podemos sentir falta de algu\u00e9m que nunca tivemos.<\/b> Although there is no scale or measurement for the amount of pain someone is feeling, it is possible to miss someone you were never with more than someone you\u2019ve had.<\/p>\n It\u2019s not that you only suffer for that person. You suffer for all the hopes and dreams you had about him that are now sadly shattered. You suffer for all the \u2018what ifs\u2019 and \u2018could have beens\u2019. <\/b><\/p>\n You miss everything you guys didn\u2019t share<\/b>\u2014<\/b>every memory he wasn\u2019t a part of and your entire future he won\u2019t be in.<\/b><\/p>\n![\"mulher](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/woman-standing-on-door-looking-outside.jpg\")
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