{"id":18926,"date":"2020-07-18T11:31:55","date_gmt":"2020-07-18T11:31:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18926"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:36:51","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:36:51","slug":"desisti-de-nos-nao-porque-nao-me-importasse-mas-porque-tu-nao-te-importavas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/desisti-de-nos-nao-porque-nao-me-importasse-mas-porque-tu-nao-te-importavas\/","title":{"rendered":"Desisti de n\u00f3s, n\u00e3o porque n\u00e3o me importasse, mas porque VOC\u00ca n\u00e3o se importava"},"content":{"rendered":"

N\u00e3o sou um desistente.<\/b><\/p>\n

You know damn well I\u2019m not.<\/b><\/p>\n

Todas as noites que passei ao teu lado a pensar em todas as solu\u00e7\u00f5es para os teus problemas, enquanto os meus se acumulavam.<\/p>\n

Todos aqueles dias que passei a preocupar-me mais com o teu bem-estar do que com o meu.<\/p>\n

E todos aqueles meses que passei a dar tudo de mim nesta rela\u00e7\u00e3o at\u00e9 n\u00e3o restar nada.<\/p>\n

Tudo isto prova que I don\u2019t give up easily <\/a> . Esta \u00e9 a prova de que quando fa\u00e7o uma escolha, quando assumo um compromisso, mantenho-me fiel a ele.<\/p>\n

Quando dou a minha palavra, mantenho-a.<\/b><\/p>\n

But I can\u2019t keep on being the only one who is giving. I can\u2019t keep on being the only one who gives a damn about this relationship, because it takes two for love. And let\u2019s face it, I was the only one.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I\u2019m giving up on us, because there wasn\u2019t an us to begin with.<\/b> Talvez no in\u00edcio, h\u00e1 muito tempo atr\u00e1s, quando realmente se preocupava em manter a sua palavra.<\/p>\n

Quando eras encantador, doce e amoroso. Quando eras tudo o que eu podia pedir. Mas esses tempos j\u00e1 l\u00e1 v\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Esses tempos n\u00e3o passam agora de mem\u00f3rias distantes.<\/b><\/p>\n

I\u2019m giving up on us because I deserve more than being in a <\/b>rela\u00e7\u00e3o unilateral<\/b><\/a>.<\/b> I deserve someone who will kiss me and tell me everything will be okay, even though we both know that it won\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Mere\u00e7o algu\u00e9m que me fa\u00e7a sentir amada e que se esforce tanto como eu.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not asking you to give all in, I\u2019m not asking you to give up on your life to make me happy. I\u2019m not asking you to put your life, your dreams, on hold so I can make mine happen.<\/p>\n

Nunca o fiz. Tudo o que pedi foi algu\u00e9m que me amasse tanto como eu o amava a ele.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Algu\u00e9m que me respeitasse, que nos respeitasse. Algu\u00e9m que estivesse aqui porque quisesse, n\u00e3o porque precisasse.<\/p>\n

Mas tu nunca foste esse.<\/b><\/p>\n

I\u2019m giving up on us because there\u2019s nothing more left in me.<\/b> Toda a minha for\u00e7a se esvaiu, todo o meu amor n\u00e3o \u00e9 agora mais do que o eco do antigo.<\/p>\n

And it\u2019s killing me. It\u2019s killing me to look into my eyes and see that there\u2019s no fire in them. The fire you started. And ended.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s killing me that I have to be the one to end it but I guess that\u2019s how it works. I\u2019m the one who kept it going and I\u2019m the one who will end it.<\/b><\/p>\n

I\u2019m giving up on us, not because I don\u2019t care. Fuck, you know I do.<\/b> You know that I would jump into the deepest part of the ocean to save you even though I\u2019m terrified of depth.<\/p>\n

You know I would face all of my biggest fears for you but that\u2019s the thing.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

While I\u2019m facing my fears and fighting to get over obstacles on the road, you are doing nothing.<\/p>\n

NADA.<\/b><\/p>\n

You\u2019re just standing aside, waiting until all the work is done.<\/p>\n

Pretending like I\u2019m not bleeding in front of you, like all these scars on me were always here. Like you are not the reason behind them.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m giving up on us, not because I don\u2019t care. But because you don\u2019t.<\/b> You don\u2019t care if I\u2019m happy or sad, as long as everything works out for you.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t care if your peace has cost me my sanity, as long as you have it. When did we become like this? When did YOU become like this?<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ainda me lembro do homem por quem me apaixonei, o homem por quem fiz tudo isto. Mas esse homem foi-se embora.<\/p>\n

O homem que amo e que sempre amarei de alguma forma j\u00e1 n\u00e3o est\u00e1 comigo.<\/p>\n

Recuso-me a acreditar que ele \u00e9. Recuso-me a acreditar que algu\u00e9m t\u00e3o fant\u00e1stico e amoroso se possa transformar nisto.<\/p>\n

Num sanguessuga emocional <\/a> who loves only himself. An emotional vampire who\u2019s sucking me dry of my happiness and love. Of my peace and sanity.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m giving up on us. On you.<\/b><\/p>\n

And I\u2019m making myself my priority, like I should\u2019ve done a long time ago.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Desisti<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I\u2019m not a quitter. You know damn well I\u2019m not. All those nights I spent by your side figuring out all the solutions to your problems, while mine were piling up. All those days I spent worrying about your well-being more than I worried about mine. And all those months I spent giving all of…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":106053,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18926","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/I-Gave-Up-On-Us-Not-Because-I-Didnt-Care-But-Because-YOU-Did-Not.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18926","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18926"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18926\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/106053"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18926"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18926"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18926"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}