{"id":18937,"date":"2018-05-18T12:50:08","date_gmt":"2018-05-18T12:50:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18937"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:30:20","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:30:20","slug":"os-seus-sinais-contraditorios-fazem-me-questionar-a-mim-proprio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/os-seus-sinais-contraditorios-fazem-me-questionar-a-mim-proprio\/","title":{"rendered":"Os teus sinais contradit\u00f3rios fazem-me questionar a mim pr\u00f3prio"},"content":{"rendered":"

When we first met, you showed way more interest in me than I did for you. It doesn\u2019t mean that I was <\/span>jogar duro para conseguir<\/span><\/a>\u2014<\/span>Eu sou simplesmente uma daquelas raparigas que precisa de tempo para conhecer algu\u00e9m e para se sentir confort\u00e1vel com essa pessoa. E eu deixei isso bem claro para ti<\/span>\u2014<\/span>I told you how things were and that you shouldn\u2019t expect too much from me in the beginning. Instead of walking away from me that instant, you were caring, patient and full of understanding.<\/span><\/p>\n

But not for long. Soon, you just disappeared and when I tried to see if something was wrong, you kept telling me that everything was great but that you were just too busy. At first, I believed you but later on I saw that you were avoiding me. I assumed that you had got tired of me or that you\u2019d found someone else and soon enough, I forgot about you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mas depois, voltaste \u00e0 minha vida, como se nada tivesse acontecido. Mais uma vez, eras aquele rapaz doce e carinhoso do in\u00edcio da nossa hist\u00f3ria. E eu apaixonei-me por esse rapaz. E deixei isso bem claro. E foi a\u00ed que todo o drama come\u00e7ou.<\/span><\/p>\n

Foi nessa altura que come\u00e7aste a desaparecer e a voltar \u00e0 minha vida como querias. E eu, tola, aceitava-te sempre de volta, pensando que seria diferente.<\/b><\/p>\n

That was when you started changing. There were days when you acted like we were nothing more than friends and days when you acted like I was the woman of your dreams and the love of your life. There were also weeks when you pretended you didn\u2019t know me, where you would ignore all of my texts and phone calls, when you would live your life as if I never existed. Then, you would come back and sweet-talk me into taking you back. And the never-ending circle would continue. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

For months, I\u2019ve been trying to figure you out. I\u2019ve been trying to read your mixed signals and I\u2019ve been trying to understand what it was that you really wanted from me.<\/b> Querias uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o? Querias<\/span> s\u00f3 querem ser amigos<\/span><\/a>? Querias uma aventura sem compromissos? Ou apenas gostaste de me provocar?<\/span><\/p>\n

But then I realized that all of this wasn\u2019t important. I assume that you yourself never knew what you wanted and that you don\u2019t know it now either. But what is important is the way it affects me.<\/span><\/p>\n

Your mixed signals have caused me more misery and self-doubt than you could imagine. They brought me more tears and pain than I would ever be ready to admit. The fact is that your behavior has ruined me completely, as much as I try to run away from it. But I hope that there will come a time when I\u2019ll get enough courage to walk away from you for good, to move on with my life and to get over you completely. Because I don\u2019t blame you for most of these things. I allowed you to treat me this way and I am the one who keeps letting you into my life, aren\u2019t I?<\/span><\/p>\n

But what I can\u2019t seem to overcome is the fact that you made me question myself and everything I always was.<\/span><\/p>\n

Antes de mais, <\/span>fez-me questionar a minha sanidade mental.<\/b> Have you got any idea what it\u2019s like to spend one day being sure of someone\u2019s love for you and having all your hopes shattered the very next day? There were times when I was certain I was going crazy because I didn\u2019t know what to think anymore. <\/span>Houve alturas em que pensei que estava a imaginar tudo o que se passava entre n\u00f3s e que estava apenas a interpretar mal os teus sinais.<\/b> Convencia-me de que me vias apenas como uma amiga e depois aparecias a dizer-me o quanto me amavas e o quanto lamentavas por me teres negligenciado. E no momento em que eu acreditava em ti, voltavas aos teus velhos h\u00e1bitos e tudo isto criou um inferno na minha cabe\u00e7a.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mas acima de tudo, <\/span>you\u2019ve made me question my worth. How come I wasn\u2019t enough for you to actually date me? Why wasn\u2019t I enough for you to at least give our relationship a try? Will every guy I meet in the future treat me the same? Is my body the only quality I have? What is wrong with me and why could I never keep you around me? <\/b>Estas eram todas as perguntas que me passavam pela cabe\u00e7a at\u00e9 que um dia percebi que, na verdade <\/span>Eu era suficientemente bom<\/span><\/a> and that you were the one who wasn\u2019t enough. None of this was my fault because I really did give you my best and I really did try everything.<\/span><\/p>\n

E embora saiba tudo isto agora, \u00e9 algo de que sempre me ressentirei, por me ter feito pensar e sentir.<\/span> <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When we first met, you showed way more interest in me than I did for you. It doesn\u2019t mean that I was playing hard to get\u2014I am simply one of those girls who needs time to get to know someone and to be comfortable around that person. And I made that very clear to you\u2014I…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":18938,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18937","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/aziz-acharki-275516-unsplash-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18937","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18937"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18937\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18938"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18937"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18937"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18937"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}