{"id":18958,"date":"2020-04-21T07:35:09","date_gmt":"2020-04-21T07:35:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18958"},"modified":"2022-02-21T19:14:27","modified_gmt":"2022-02-21T19:14:27","slug":"por-favor-para-de-me-dar-esperancas-porque-ambos-sabemos-que-nunca-me-poderas-dar-o-que-eu-preciso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/por-favor-para-de-me-dar-esperancas-porque-ambos-sabemos-que-nunca-me-poderas-dar-o-que-eu-preciso\/","title":{"rendered":"Por favor, pare de alimentar minhas esperan\u00e7as porque ambos sabemos que voc\u00ea nunca poderia me dar o que eu preciso"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Durante anos, foste o \u00fanico homem que eu quis. Eras o meu \u00fanico desejo e a minha \u00fanica ora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Estava convencida de que s\u00f3 podia ser feliz contigo e tinha a certeza de que eras o \u00fanico homem para mim.<\/p>\n<p>Durante anos, rezei para que ganhasses ju\u00edzo e visses que est\u00e1vamos destinados a ficar juntos. Queria que finalmente me escolhesses e que n\u00f3s os dois come\u00e7\u00e1ssemos a viver a nossa vida juntos em paz.<\/p>\n<p>But that didn\u2019t happen. All along, you knew I would wait for you for as long as it took.<\/p>\n<p>Sabias que eu te aceitaria sempre de bra\u00e7os abertos, independentemente da dor que me causasses e do que me fizesses. E em vez de apreciares isso e em vez de apreciares o meu amor por ti e a minha devo\u00e7\u00e3o a ti, tomaste-me por garantida.<\/p>\n<p>Assumiu que havia <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/a-triste-verdade-e-que-nao-ha-nada-que-possas-fazer-para-que-eu-deixe-de-te-amar\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">nada que possas fazer para que eu deixe de te amar<\/a>. And every time you saw I was losing my strength, every time you sensed I was about to walk away from you, you didn\u2019t allow that to happen.<\/p>\n<p>De repente, transformava-se no homem que eu sempre quis que fosse. Mas isso nunca durou muito tempo.<\/p>\n<p>No momento em que visses que me tinhas de novo, voltarias aos teus velhos h\u00e1bitos e continuarias <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/dizer-amor-tratar-como-merda\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">tratando-me como merda<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>E isto durou anos.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Embora nunca tenha pensado que seria eu a diz\u00ea-lo, pela primeira vez, pe\u00e7o-te que me deixes ir.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Pe\u00e7o-te que te afastes de mim, porque n\u00e3o sei se alguma vez teria for\u00e7as para o fazer.<\/p>\n<p>Pe\u00e7o-te que deixes de me enganar e que deixes de me dar esperan\u00e7as porque ambos sabemos que nunca me poder\u00e1s dar o que preciso, quero ou mere\u00e7o.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/estou-a-implorar-por-favor-saiam\/\">Pe\u00e7o-te que me deixes<\/a> de vez, porque ambos sabemos que \u00e9 a \u00fanica coisa que me ajudar\u00e1 a esquecer-te e a seguir em frente com a minha vida.<\/p>\n<p>Isto sou eu a pedir-vos que deixem de me dar esperan\u00e7as <strong>porque ambos sabemos que n\u00f3s os dois nunca seremos uma coisa.<\/strong> Porque nunca poder\u00edamos ser nada mais do que um quase casal e nunca poder\u00edamos ter nada mais do que uma quase rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Because you will never be able to label things between us and make me your official girlfriend and I\u2019ve had enough of being your part-time girl and I\u2019ve had enough of being the girl you call when everyone else abandons you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Because we both know you\u2019ll never put any effort into me or into our relationship.<\/strong> Because you\u2019ll always know you have me, no matter what.<\/p>\n<p>Because it is more than obvious that you don\u2019t think I am worthy of your efforts and there is nothing I could do about it, as much as I try.<\/p>\n<p>Because we both know you\u2019ll never put me first. Because you\u2019ll always treat me like one of your options and because you\u2019ll never put me at the top of your priority list.<\/p>\n<p>Because there will always be someone more important to you than me and that is something I don\u2019t want to put up with any longer.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Because we both know you\u2019ll never give up on all those other women.<\/strong> Porque estou farto de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/as-mulheres-tem-medo-de-competir-ou-sao-2\/\">a competir com todas as outras raparigas<\/a> and because I\u2019ve had enough of begging you to give me your love and attention.<\/p>\n<p>Because I am tired of wondering what those other girls have that I don\u2019t and because I am tired of fighting for you against all of them, when you never had to fight for me.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Please stop getting my hopes up because we both know you don&#8217;t love me, you never did and you never will.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>At least not the way I love you and not the way I need to be loved. Because you\u2019ll always be giving me your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/my-heart-deserves-more-than-your-half-assed-love\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">amor de meia-tigela<\/a> e isso n\u00e3o \u00e9 algo com que me queira contentar.&nbsp;<!--\/codes_iframe--> <!--codes_iframe--> <!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-80795 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/please-stop-getting-my-hopes-up-because-we-both-know-you-could-never-give-me-what-i-need-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"POR FAVOR, P\u00c1RA DE ME DAR ESPERAN\u00c7AS PORQUE AMBOS SABEMOS QUE NUNCA ME PODER\u00c1S DAR O QUE EU PRECISO\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/please-stop-getting-my-hopes-up-because-we-both-know-you-could-never-give-me-what-i-need-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/please-stop-getting-my-hopes-up-because-we-both-know-you-could-never-give-me-what-i-need-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/please-stop-getting-my-hopes-up-because-we-both-know-you-could-never-give-me-what-i-need-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For years, you were the only man I wanted. You were my only desire and my only prayer. I was convinced that I could only be happy with you and I was certain that you were the only man for me. For years, I prayed for you come to your senses and finally see we&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":18959,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18958","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/gabriel.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18958","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18958"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18958\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18959"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18958"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18958"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18958"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}