{"id":19017,"date":"2020-05-22T07:54:46","date_gmt":"2020-05-22T07:54:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19017"},"modified":"2022-02-27T12:49:08","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T12:49:08","slug":"um-dia-vais-desejar-ter-lutado-por-ela-enquanto-tiveste-oportunidade","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/um-dia-vais-desejar-ter-lutado-por-ela-enquanto-tiveste-oportunidade\/","title":{"rendered":"Um dia vais desejar ter lutado por ela enquanto ainda tinhas oportunidade"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Aposto que est\u00e1 a chorar muito neste momento. Aposto que est\u00e1 a rezar a Deus para voltar atr\u00e1s no tempo para poder fazer as coisas de forma diferente.<\/p>\r\n<p>I bet you\u2019re <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/ela-e-o-tipo-de-mulher-que-se-vai-arrepender-de-ter-perdido\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">arrepender-se tanto de ter perdido<\/a> provavelmente a sua \u00fanica hip\u00f3tese de se sentir amado.<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Tiveste-a s\u00f3 para ti e estragaste tudo.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>Ela amava-o tanto. Estava pronta a dar a vida dela pela tua e tu n\u00e3o o fizeste.<\/p>\r\n<p>N\u00e3o viste o amor quando ele estava mesmo debaixo do teu nariz.<\/p>\r\n<p>Ela tentou ser perfeita para ti, sabes? Ela esfor\u00e7ou-se tanto para manter um sorriso no rosto quando tudo o que ela queria fazer era gritar de dor a plenos pulm\u00f5es.<\/p>\r\n<p>Scream from sadness and neglect. But you were just doing fine, weren\u2019t you? You were given so much love and affection and gave nothing in return. Isn\u2019t that a pretty life?<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>She stood by your side choking in tears and crying when you weren\u2019t looking, hoping that things would change.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>Nothing changed. You got up in the morning leaving her all alone after just saying goodbye. You didn\u2019t answer her calls when she was worried sick about you.<\/p>\r\n<p>E depois de teres estado fora o dia todo, chegavas a casa a tresandar a \u00e1lcool e a cigarros. Divertia-se tanto enquanto ela o imaginava deitado numa sarjeta algures.<\/p>\r\n<p>And no, you didn\u2019t even bother to text her that you were fine, that you were out with friends, that you were coming back soon.<\/p>\r\n<p>She even opened up to you. She told you what was bothering her and you lied to her face saying that she was right and you\u2019d make up for everything. That was just one of the lines of your endless lies.<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Ela nunca pediu demasiado.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>Ela era uma rapariga normal. S\u00f3 queria amar e ser amada. Desta vez, pensou que finalmente tinha conseguido realizar o seu sonho e conseguiu, mas s\u00f3 a meio.<\/p>\r\n<p>She loved you and showed it to you every day and you couldn\u2019t have cared less but you took her love anyway. It suited you.<\/p>\r\n<p>Sentiu-se bem. Mas nunca parou para pensar como ela se estava a sentir.<\/p>\r\n<p>Ela nunca foi muito exigente. Tudo o que ela sempre quis foi passar tempo contigo. Queria estar ao teu lado, fazer as coisas de que gostavas.<\/p>\r\n<p>Ela queria que fizessem coisas juntos. Ela queria adormecer ao seu lado e acordar de manh\u00e3 consigo a abra\u00e7\u00e1-la.<\/p>\r\n<p>But, at the end of the day, you didn\u2019t make her wishes come true. You were too selfish to do that.<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Ela queria amar-te.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>It\u2019s as simple as that. She wanted to hold your hand <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/um-dia-vais-perceber-que-um-sempre\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">quando se estava a desmoronar<\/a> e queria rir-se contigo quando estavas feliz.<\/p>\r\n<p>Ela queria fazer parte da vossa vida. Ela queria que voc\u00eas os dois fossem um s\u00f3. Mas tu desiludiste-a novamente.<\/p>\r\n<p>You made a huge mistake and one day you\u2019ll realize that and it will be too late.<\/p>\r\n<p>By the time you realize what you\u2019ve done and how you neglected the only person who will ever love you the way she did, she\u2019ll be gone.<\/p>\r\n<p>She\u2019ll have found someone to love and that man will never treat her poorly like you did. That man will be aware of what a diamond he has in his possession and he will never let her go.<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Ele ficar\u00e1 grato por a ter deitado fora porque, ao faz\u00ea-lo, tornou poss\u00edvel que ele a encontrasse. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p><strong>And at the end of the day, you\u2019ll end up bitter and alone and she\u2019ll be the happiest woman alive. And this will hurt you so badly.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p><strong>After all she\u2019s been through, she still can\u2019t hate you.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>N\u00e3o h\u00e1 lugar para o \u00f3dio no seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o. Sim, h\u00e1 desilus\u00e3o, sim, h\u00e1 raiva, mas o \u00f3dio n\u00e3o \u00e9 um sentimento com o qual ela esteja familiarizada.<\/p>\r\n<p>Sim, ela queria que sofresses como ela sofreu, mas foi s\u00f3 porque recebeu tantos golpes, uns atr\u00e1s dos outros, que quis que sentisses apenas uma pequena parte da dor que ela sentiu.<\/p>\r\n<p>But that is gone now. She can\u2019t hold anything against you. She can only feel sorry for you for not appreciating her the way you should.<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Now, she\u2019s thankful.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>If it wasn\u2019t for you, she wouldn\u2019t be so happy today. If it wasn\u2019t for you, she wouldn\u2019t know what it means to hit rock bottom and come back to life stronger than ever.<\/p>\r\n<p>She would never have learned what she is capable of surviving if you hadn\u2019t been there in that one sad chapter of her life.<\/p>\r\n<p>Mas ela terminou esse cap\u00edtulo com um grande ponto final no fim e virou uma p\u00e1gina nova e fresca, pronta a ser escrita de novo. Neste cap\u00edtulo da sua vida, ela n\u00e3o \u00e9 tomada por garantida, n\u00e3o est\u00e1 triste e, acima de tudo, \u00e9 amada.<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Mas continua a n\u00e3o haver desculpa para o que fizeste.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-vais-perder\/\">You\u2019re an idiot for losing a one-of-a-kind girl<\/a>. Sei que o amor n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma rua de sentido \u00fanico e que pode tentar encontrar a\u00ed a sua justifica\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\r\n<p>But she was the one driving in the right direction and you were nowhere to be found, so please don\u2019t even try to go there.<\/p>\r\n<p>Fizeste asneira e tens de a reconhecer. Partiste-a. Fizeste-a chorar.<\/p>\r\n<p>You almost made her never trust anyone again. You can\u2019t do that to a person, especially not a woman who loved you unconditionally.<\/p>\r\n<p>You just had to be less selfish. She wasn\u2019t a needy girl, she always gave you space and time to sort out everything you needed to deal with.<\/p>\r\n<p>Tudo o que tinhas de fazer era abrir os olhos e arranjar espa\u00e7o para ela na tua vida. Terias tido a melhor vida de sempre.<\/p>\r\n<p>This way, you\u2019re going to end up alone, thinking about what a fool you\u2019ve been and cursing yourself for pushing her away.<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Raparigas como ela <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-teu-amor-nao-se-afasta-as-coisas-tornam-se-dificeis\/\">don\u2019t walk away that easily<\/a>. Raparigas como ela d\u00e3o tantas oportunidades, muito mais do que homens como tu merecem. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p><strong>One day, when you look back, you\u2019ll be sorry but don\u2019t feel so bad. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Voc\u00eas os dois nunca tiveram hip\u00f3tese. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/nao-eras-a-minha-alma-gemea-eras-apenas-a-minha-licao\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Tu foste apenas uma li\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> que ela precisava de aprender. Eras apenas uma prepara\u00e7\u00e3o para a bela vida que ela tinha pela frente. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p><strong>She\u2019s living it now. And where are you? Probably sitting all alone with a bottle of whiskey by your side. Tell me, isn\u2019t that karma at its best?<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-41147 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/herway.net-21.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/herway.net-21.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/herway.net-21-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/herway.net-21-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I bet you\u2019re crying your eyes out right now. I bet you\u2019re praying to God to turn back time so you could do things differently. I bet you\u2019re regretting so hard for missing probably your only true chance to feel loved. You had her all to yourself and you fucked up. She loved you so&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":19021,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19017","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/samuel-zeller-27200-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19017","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19017"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19017\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19021"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19017"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19017"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19017"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}