{"id":19020,"date":"2020-09-22T08:02:10","date_gmt":"2020-09-22T08:02:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19020"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:53:17","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:53:17","slug":"ela-age-sem-coracao-porque-foi-quebrada-demasiadas-vezes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ela-age-sem-coracao-porque-foi-quebrada-demasiadas-vezes\/","title":{"rendered":"Ela age sem cora\u00e7\u00e3o porque j\u00e1 foi quebrada demasiadas vezes"},"content":{"rendered":"

How can she trust again when her trust has been betrayed so many times? How can she fall for someone again when the bruises from her last fall still haven\u2019t healed?<\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que ela pode voltar a amar quando o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o mal funciona depois de tudo o que passou?  <\/p>\n

You see, she was always the one who would risk anything for love. She was fully invested and absolutely committed or she wouldn\u2019t even start anything. <\/b><\/p>\n

Nunca se interessou por todos os jogos. Nunca conseguiu perceber porque \u00e9 que as pessoas tinham este desejo de usar outras pessoas como pe\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

Either you want somebody or you don\u2019t<\/a>. N\u00e3o h\u00e1 necessidade de jogos e de destruir as pessoas \u00e0 sua volta.<\/p>\n

A sua forma de pensar vinha do que trazia dentro de si, um bom cora\u00e7\u00e3o que nunca magoaria ningu\u00e9m intencionalmente.<\/p>\n

Por isso, era-lhe dif\u00edcil perceber porque \u00e9 que outra pessoa fazia isso. Ela entrava numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o com uma enorme esperan\u00e7a e uma mente aberta, vendo apenas o lado bom das pessoas.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

E de cada vez que se magoava e jogava, decidia dar mais uma oportunidade ao amor. Ela simplesmente acreditava que o seu amor estava l\u00e1 fora.<\/p>\n

Because of that, she wouldn\u2019t give up on people so easily. She would stay in the wrong relationships for far too long.<\/p>\n

Concentrava-se nas partes boas e negligenciava as partes m\u00e1s. Pensava que se lhes desse mais uma oportunidade, se mudasse, se se esfor\u00e7asse mais, tudo se resolveria.<\/p>\n

Mas nunca nada mudou, nunca nada resultou e ela est\u00e1 t\u00e3o cansada de romper com o amor. Ela est\u00e1 t\u00e3o cansada de se enaltecer a si pr\u00f3pria. <\/b><\/p>\n

That\u2019s why she built walls around her heart instead.<\/b> Paredes t\u00e3o frias, t\u00e3o espessas e t\u00e3o altas que ningu\u00e9m podia sequer aproximar-se.<\/p>\n

Era o seu pr\u00f3prio mecanismo de defesa criado para a proteger do mal. A dor era t\u00e3o grande que a \u00fanica coisa que ela podia fazer era fechar-se emocionalmente.<\/p>\n

She says she has had it with love. She has given love too many chances and it has failed her every single time. She doesn\u2019t want to lose herself again.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t want to feel like her soul is being ripped away from her. She doesn\u2019t want to risk feeling all that pain again. The stakes are too high.<\/p>\n

Os seus m\u00e9todos evitam a dor, mas tamb\u00e9m evitam o amor.<\/p>\n

Ela tem medo de deixar algu\u00e9m entrar, porque da \u00faltima vez que o fez, mal se recomp\u00f4s.<\/b> Sentiu que tinha de aprender a viver de novo.<\/p>\n

She had to find herself and love herself again. She had to keep going forward even when she didn\u2019t have the strength.<\/p>\n

Basicamente, ela teve de reconstruir a sua vida a partir do zero e ainda tem de dar alguns retoques finais.<\/p>\n

She acts heartless even though she is far from it. Don\u2019t let her cold exterior fool you. Her heart is still warm inside those walls. <\/b><\/p>\n

O seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o ainda espera que o amor o liberte. O problema \u00e9 que n\u00e3o \u00e9 qualquer um que o pode fazer.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ela precisa de algu\u00e9m que fa\u00e7a com que essas paredes caiam, algu\u00e9m que seja diferente de todos os outros que ela j\u00e1 conheceu.<\/p>\n

Ela precisa de algu\u00e9m que compreenda o que ela est\u00e1 a passar. <\/b><\/p>\n

Ela precisa de algu\u00e9m que veja para al\u00e9m da sua frieza, algu\u00e9m que veja o qu\u00e3o calorosa e \u00fanica ela realmente \u00e9. Ela precisa de algu\u00e9m paciente e persistente.<\/p>\n

Someone who won\u2019t quit on her so easily. Someone who will prove that he is worthy of her trust, respect, and love.<\/p>\n

She knows he has no reason to prove himself. He has done nothing wrong. That\u2019s why she will value his efforts even more.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why she will appreciate him for taking his time to see the real her underneath that heartless mask. <\/b><\/p>\n

No final, ele receber\u00e1 mais do que alguma vez deu, se encontrar um caminho para o cora\u00e7\u00e3o dela.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Ela<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

How can she trust again when her trust has been betrayed so many times? How can she fall for someone again when the bruises from her last fall still haven\u2019t healed? How can she love again when her heart is barely ticking after everything she has been through?   You see, she was always the…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":120130,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19020","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/She-Acts-Heartless-Because-Shes-Been-Broken-Too-Many-Times-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","parent":38,"count":146,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29617,"category_count":146,"category_description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","cat_name":"heartbreak","category_nicename":"heartbreak","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19020","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19020"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19020\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/120130"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19020"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19020"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19020"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}