{"id":19039,"date":"2020-04-22T09:12:54","date_gmt":"2020-04-22T09:12:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19039"},"modified":"2022-03-09T13:47:17","modified_gmt":"2022-03-09T13:47:17","slug":"respeita-te-o-suficiente-para-te-afastares-de-um-homem-que-nao-ve-o-teu-valor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/respeita-te-o-suficiente-para-te-afastares-de-um-homem-que-nao-ve-o-teu-valor\/","title":{"rendered":"Respeite-se o suficiente para se afastar de um homem que n\u00e3o v\u00ea o seu valor"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A forma como nos tratamos a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios estabelece o padr\u00e3o para os outros e n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada mais valioso que tenha aprendido na minha vida at\u00e9 agora. Se n\u00e3o nos amamos a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios, como podemos esperar que os outros nos amem?<\/p>\n<p>If you don\u2019t respect yourself, how can you expect others to respect you? Please, don\u2019t be one of those who learned this the hard way. Listen to what I have to say.<\/p>\n<p><b>A sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o consigo pr\u00f3prio d\u00e1 o mote para todas as outras rela\u00e7\u00f5es que tem. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>A forma como <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/tratarmo-nos-como-alguem-que-amamos\/\">tratar de si<\/a> and the way you let others treat you will be the path of life you\u2019re gonna have to walk, whether you like it or not.<\/p>\n<p>Dizem<i> tal como fizeres a tua cama, nela te deitar\u00e1s; <\/i>Eu digo <i>if you don\u2019t see your worth, how can you expect others to see it?<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>N\u00e3o \u00e9s um plano de reserva e nunca deves deixar que ningu\u00e9m te trate como uma segunda op\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Independentemente do que v\u00eas quando te olhas ao espelho, eu digo que \u00e9s uma criatura maravilhosa que, para al\u00e9m dos seus defeitos, tem tamb\u00e9m muitos lados espantosos e maravilhosos.<\/p>\n<p>And a creature like this deserves to be a priority, deserves to have someone next to her who\u2019ll always put her first.<\/p>\n<p>You deserve to be next to a man who sees you\u2019re worthy and who treats you as such.<\/p>\n<p>You deserve a man who won\u2019t ever make you question your worth, who won\u2019t bring up your flaws constantly just to bring you down. You deserve a man next to whom you\u2019ll be happy and not miserable.<\/p>\n<p><b>I understand you\u2019re in love but there is a difference between being in love and being an idiot. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>There is only so much you can give to a man. There is only so much of your time, your efforts and your love that you can invest into a relationship with someone who doesn\u2019t see your worth and who doesn\u2019t see the things you\u2019re doing for him.<\/p>\n<p>If you choose to stay by his side even when this line is crossed, then it\u2019s no longer about loving him, it\u2019s about not respecting yourself enough and not being aware of your own worth.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-81766 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/thoughtful-woman-leaning-on-wall.jpg\" alt=\"mulher pensativa encostada \u00e0 parede\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/thoughtful-woman-leaning-on-wall.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/thoughtful-woman-leaning-on-wall-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/thoughtful-woman-leaning-on-wall-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>A forma como nos tratamos a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios estabelece o padr\u00e3o para os outros. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>If you still text him after he hasn\u2019t responded to any of your &nbsp;messages, if you still pick up the phone when he calls even though there has been radio silence for a while, if you continue seeing him even though he refused to commit to you, if you\u2019re giving him boyfriend privileges before he\u2019s your boyfriend, you\u2019re sending him the wrong message.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re telling him he can count on you whenever he needs you and that you\u2019re okay with him disrespecting you. And I know you\u2019re not, so why are you allowing him to treat you this way?<\/p>\n<p><b>Quanto mais nos amamos e respeitamos, menos disparates toleramos. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>So please love yourself to the point where you don\u2019t need anyone else\u2019s love.<\/p>\n<p>Please, respect yourself enough to the point where others can see clearly that they can\u2019t treat you with disrespect. Know your worth and never <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/prefiro-ficar-solteiro-a-contentar-me-com-menos\/\">contentar-se com menos. <\/a><\/p>\n<p><b>If someone is constantly taking you for granted, then there isn\u2019t much you can do except walk away and burn all the bridges behind you. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t force a man into being faithful, loyal and honest. You can\u2019t make him appreciate you for everything you are but you can force him to live without you, as you invest your time into someone better than him.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re not the only one guilty of giving people more chances than they deserve. There are plenty of people like you and me out there.<\/p>\n<p>Mas chegou o momento de aprender quando \u00e9 que se deve ir embora. Chegou a altura de demolir as pontes atr\u00e1s de n\u00f3s e de nos deixar sem outra alternativa que n\u00e3o seja seguir em frente.<\/p>\n<p><b>At some point in your life, the relationship you\u2019re constantly dragging forward on your own will be too much of a burden to carry and you\u2019ll need to learn the art of letting go if you don\u2019t want to get stuck in the same spot forever. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>If a man can\u2019t see your worth, if a man doesn\u2019t respect you, then <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/se-ele-nao-te-respeita-nao-te-merece\/\">he doesn\u2019t deserve you<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>E nenhuma quantidade de amor que lhe deres, nenhuma quantidade de tempo que lhe deres, nenhuma quantidade de esfor\u00e7os que fizeres vai mudar isso.<\/p>\n<p>Eventually, you\u2019ll come to realize that you\u2019ve been wasting your time trying to show the rainbow to a man who\u2019s colorblind.<\/p>\n<p>Eventually, you\u2019ll come to realize that while you\u2019ve been bending over backward to show one man you\u2019re worthy enough, there was another man waiting for a woman like you his whole life.<\/p>\n<p>Eventually, you\u2019ll realize there isn\u2019t anything else to do when a man doesn\u2019t see your worth except to pick up your pride and walk away.<\/p>\n<p>One day you\u2019ll have to learn to respect yourself and it might as well be today. Show him how you want to be treated, show him you respect yourself.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOne of the most courageous decisions you\u2019ll ever make is to finally let go of what is hurting your heart and soul.\u201d \u2014 <i>Brigitte Nicole<\/i><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-81763 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Respect-Yourself-Enough-To-Walk-Away-From-A-Man-Who-Doesn\u2019t-See-Your-Worth-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Respeite-se o suficiente para se afastar de um homem que n\u00e3o v\u00ea o seu valor\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Respect-Yourself-Enough-To-Walk-Away-From-A-Man-Who-Doesn\u2019t-See-Your-Worth-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Respect-Yourself-Enough-To-Walk-Away-From-A-Man-Who-Doesn\u2019t-See-Your-Worth-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Respect-Yourself-Enough-To-Walk-Away-From-A-Man-Who-Doesn\u2019t-See-Your-Worth-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Respect-Yourself-Enough-To-Walk-Away-From-A-Man-Who-Doesn\u2019t-See-Your-Worth-Pinterest.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How you treat yourself sets the standard for others and there isn\u2019t anything more valuable I\u2019ve learned in my life so far. If you don\u2019t love yourself, how can you expect others to love you? If you don\u2019t respect yourself, how can you expect others to respect you? Please, don\u2019t be one of those who&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":81764,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19039","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Respect-Yourself-Enough-To-Walk-Away-From-A-Man-Who-Doesn\u2019t-See-Your-Worth.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19039","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19039"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19039\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/81764"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19039"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19039"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19039"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}