{"id":19078,"date":"2019-11-23T06:43:17","date_gmt":"2019-11-23T06:43:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19078"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:25:19","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:25:19","slug":"de-a-si-proprio-algum-tempo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/de-a-si-proprio-algum-tempo\/","title":{"rendered":"D\u00ea algum tempo a si pr\u00f3prio"},"content":{"rendered":"

Roma n\u00e3o foi constru\u00edda de um dia para o outro e o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o tamb\u00e9m n\u00e3o vai sarar de um dia para o outro. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Mas o que importa <\/strong>no final \u00e9 que Roma acabou por ser constru\u00edda e tu tamb\u00e9m acabar\u00e1s por o ultrapassar. D\u00ea a si pr\u00f3pria algum tempo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I know all about the heartbreak you\u2019re going through. I know it way too well. I know how hopeless you feel now.<\/p>\n

Eu sei que s\u00f3 queres rastejar para a tua cama debaixo dos len\u00e7\u00f3is e ficar l\u00e1 para o resto da tua vida.<\/p>\n

Eu sei como a tua m\u00e3o ainda digita o n\u00famero dele inconscientemente e como quase o marcaste uma d\u00fazia de vezes.<\/p>\n

Eu sei que ainda verificas as redes sociais dele para ver se ele seguiu em frente. Sei que te perguntas o que poderias fazer para corrigir as coisas e se ele ainda pensa em ti tanto quanto tu pensas nele.<\/p>\n

I know all about this and I\u2019m here to tell you that it\u2019s okay. It\u2019s okay to feel heartbroken. It\u2019s okay to miss him.<\/p>\n

Mas it\u2019s not okay to get back to him<\/a>. It\u2019s not okay to constantly cry over spilled milk. It\u2019s not okay to beat yourself up for being stuck. \u2018Cause you\u2019re not stuck.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re moving on, you\u2019re healing. And all this what you\u2019re feeling? It\u2019s all part of getting over him.<\/p>\n

They say that the only thing more dangerous than war is love. You\u2019ve felt this on your own skin. It feels like you went through a warzone and not a relationship.<\/p>\n

E parece que todas as balas que foram disparadas acabaram por chegar at\u00e9 si.<\/p>\n

Amaste e foste desfeito. Alimentaste as tuas esperan\u00e7as apenas para as veres desvanecerem-se em p\u00f3. Planeaste o teu futuro juntos apenas para o veres nunca se tornar realidade. <\/strong><\/p>\n

And it hurts. All of this hurts so much. But remember: it\u2019s always the darkest before the dawn.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You wanted to keep him. You planned your future with him. You actually wanted him to stay. But if he didn\u2019t stay, then it means he was never sent your way to stay.<\/p>\n

Ele foi enviado para ficar por c\u00e1 durante algum tempo, dar-te uma li\u00e7\u00e3o e, uma vez terminado o trabalho, ir-se embora.<\/p>\n

Houve uma raz\u00e3o pela qual Deus moveu o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o para ele e houve uma raz\u00e3o pela qual se afei\u00e7oou mais do que com qualquer outra pessoa na sua vida.<\/p>\n

When you look back, you\u2019ll see he played a major role in your life, but he had to be in it only temporarily so he could fulfil his duty of showing you a different way of life and then set you free.<\/p>\n

Nothing\u2014or nobody\u2014ever goes away until it teaches us what we need to know.<\/p>\n

The reason he came into your life and the mission he had is known only to you, but you won\u2019t be able to grasp it until you let the pain go.<\/p>\n

So allow yourself to feel whatever you\u2019re feeling. Cry a river. Build a bridge. And then get over it.<\/p>\n

Consola-se com o facto de a sua hist\u00f3ria ser provavelmente melhor deixada como est\u00e1.<\/strong> Deram um ao outro tudo o que tinham para oferecer.<\/p>\n

One got love and other got sorrow. But either way, what\u2019s done is done. The time has come to admit to yourself that the chapter of your book in which he is playing the main role is over.<\/p>\n

Agora, pode optar por continuar a rel\u00ea-lo ou pode optar por escrever um novo cap\u00edtulo, ou mesmo um novo livro.<\/p>\n

O tempo cura tudo, por isso d\u00ea a si pr\u00f3prio tempo para sarar<\/a>. But please don\u2019t build walls. You don\u2019t need all that armor. Because what lives inside can\u2019t be broken.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Um dia, deixar\u00e1s de ansiar pelos seus bra\u00e7os. Um dia, deixar\u00e1s de o amar.<\/p>\n

One day, you\u2019ll no longer wish that things had gone differently because you\u2019ll finally understand you needed him and everything you lived with him took you to a better place.<\/p>\n

Your heart will finally be whole again and you\u2019ll be able to love someone who\u2019s actually meant to stay.<\/p>\n

You will build your own Rome, your own empire with someone else who\u2019s not temporary. Just give yourself some time.<\/p>\n

If you were brave enough to love someone, then you\u2019re strong enough to get over him, too.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So stay strong, you\u2019ve got this.<\/p>\n

\"D\u00ea<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Rome wasn\u2019t built overnight and neither will your heart heal overnight. But what matters in the end is that Rome was built eventually and you too will get over him eventually. Just give yourself some time. I know all about the heartbreak you\u2019re going through. I know it way too well. I know how hopeless…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":19079,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29636],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19078","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-help"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29636,"label":"self help"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/dan-7kidz-621635-unsplash.jpg",800,547,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29636,"name":"self help","slug":"self-help","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29636,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","parent":22911,"count":314,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29636,"category_count":314,"category_description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","cat_name":"self help","category_nicename":"self-help","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19078","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19078"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19078\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19079"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19078"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19078"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19078"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}