{"id":19096,"date":"2020-05-23T07:59:55","date_gmt":"2020-05-23T07:59:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19096"},"modified":"2021-08-31T07:04:51","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T07:04:51","slug":"vais-arrepender-te-de-ter-perdido-uma-rapariga-que-se-esforcou-tanto-por-ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/vais-arrepender-te-de-ter-perdido-uma-rapariga-que-se-esforcou-tanto-por-ti\/","title":{"rendered":"Vais arrepender-te de ter perdido uma rapariga que se esfor\u00e7ou tanto por ti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/amor-incondicional-apenas-cuidar-de-alguem\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Amor incondicional<\/a>. Apoio. Afeto. Compreens\u00e3o. Prote\u00e7\u00e3o. Conforto.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\r\n<p>That was everything she gave you without asking you to reciprocate in the same way. You see, she thought that things like that should be as normal as breathing, that she wasn\u2019t supposed to beg for love.<\/p>\r\n<p>Mas ela tinha. Ela teve de implorar pelo seu amor e aten\u00e7\u00e3o como se fosse algo dif\u00edcil de dar. Talvez tenha sido dif\u00edcil para ti porque nunca a amaste como ela te amou.<\/p>\r\n<p>So, don\u2019t try to win her back now when she is happy with someone else.<\/p>\r\n<p>Don\u2019t you dare mess up her plans for real love. You know that she deserves a better man than you and that you can\u2019t give her what she craved all the time.<\/p>\r\n<p><em><strong>Por isso, agora que a perdeste, deixa-a ser feliz com algu\u00e9m que a ame como ela merece ser amada.<\/strong><\/em> Let her be happy with a man who won\u2019t make her question if she is good enough or worthy enough.<\/p>\r\n<p>Don\u2019t you see that sparkle in her eyes when she looks at him?<\/p>\r\n<p>You know, she used to look at your eyes in the same way. And she would probably have continued doing that if you didn\u2019t blow up every chance to be happy with her.<\/p>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89970\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/worried-couple-looking-at-each-other-at-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"casal preocupado a olhar um para o outro num caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/worried-couple-looking-at-each-other-at-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/worried-couple-looking-at-each-other-at-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/worried-couple-looking-at-each-other-at-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>So, don\u2019t blame her for giving up on you because that doesn\u2019t make her weak. That just means she was too strong for too long. That just means she was feeling with all her heart but it got broken in the end.<\/p>\r\n<p>And if you see her in the street with someone else, don\u2019t ruin her day because only one look at you will make her feel sad. She will immediately remember all the things she had to put up with just to be with you.<\/p>\r\n<p>E as suas esperan\u00e7as de ser feliz no amor afundar-se-\u00e3o como um barco velho.<\/p>\r\n<p><em><strong>Ela vai perceber que ainda o ama, mas que era mais f\u00e1cil afastar-se do que ficar consigo e sofrer.<\/strong> <\/em>Ela sabe que tu eras apenas um <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/4-assina-acordo-com-homem-toxico\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">homem t\u00f3xico<\/a> in her life who didn\u2019t give her the love she deserved.<\/p>\r\n<p>Heck, you didn\u2019t give her anything but tears and agony. That was all she knew about when she was with you. And she just wanted to love you.<\/p>\r\n<p>She wanted you to be the man with whom she will grow old, her soulmate, her human diary and her better half. She just wanted you to fight for her, but you couldn\u2019t even do that.<\/p>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89971\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-wearing-blue-shirt-hugging-smiling-young-blonde-woman-outside.jpg\" alt=\"homem de camisa azul abra\u00e7a uma jovem loira sorridente no exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-wearing-blue-shirt-hugging-smiling-young-blonde-woman-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-wearing-blue-shirt-hugging-smiling-young-blonde-woman-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-wearing-blue-shirt-hugging-smiling-young-blonde-woman-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>E o facto de ser a \u00fanica a tentar durante tanto tempo s\u00f3 a ajudou a desistir de ti. Porque ela queria que a escolhesses todos os dias ou que te fosses embora.<\/p>\r\n<p>And we all know what you did. You gave up on her so easily; you didn\u2019t even want to fight for her.<\/p>\r\n<p>You didn\u2019t even want to do that to make her yours one more time. That was how little she meant to you.<\/p>\r\n<p>E ela queria que lhe mostrasses que a amas da forma mais simples que existe. Ela s\u00f3 queria que lhe roubasses um beijo enquanto ningu\u00e9m est\u00e1 a ver.<\/p>\r\n<p>She wanted you to take her hand when she was afraid to do something she didn\u2019t like. She wanted you to tell her that she was strong enough and that she can do anything she plans.<\/p>\r\n<p><em><strong>Mas isso era demasiado para ela pedir, certo?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\r\n<p>Porque em cada tentativa dela de te beijar, tu oferecias-lhe a tua face em vez dos teus l\u00e1bios.<\/p>\r\n<p>A cada tentativa dela de pegar na sua m\u00e3o porque tinha medo, voc\u00ea dizia-lhe que ela devia enfrentar os seus medos, retirando-lhe a sua m\u00e3o.<\/p>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89972\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/sad-couple-sitting-on-sofa-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"casal triste sentado num sof\u00e1 em casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/sad-couple-sitting-on-sofa-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/sad-couple-sitting-on-sofa-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/sad-couple-sitting-on-sofa-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>With every hope that she will get the comforting words from you that she needed so much, you just told her that she shouldn\u2019t even try to do something new because it will be a failure.<\/p>\r\n<p>That\u2019s how much you believed in her, in the woman who would move mountains for you, for the one who always put you first trying to satisfy your needs instead of hers.<\/p>\r\n<p>She admired you for such a long time but now she admires another man. You disappointed her and she doesn\u2019t think that you are as awesome as she thought before. Now, she just wants to be as far as she can from you.<\/p>\r\n<p><em><strong>Porque se te aproximares, ela pode n\u00e3o resistir.<\/strong><\/em> Ela pode dar tudo de si como fez antes.<\/p>\r\n<p>And you know that you won\u2019t be able to reciprocate any of it. You know that you will never give her the love she gave you and that you will never be crazily in love with her.<\/p>\r\n<p><em><strong>Por isso, desta vez, pe\u00e7o-te que desistas dela. Deixa-a ser feliz com algu\u00e9m que a saiba acarinhar. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\r\n<p><em><strong>Deixa-a experimentar o verdadeiro amor que tanto desejava. Porque \u00e9 isso que ela realmente merece. E nada menos do que isso.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89967\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/You\u2019re-Going-To-Regret-Losing-A-Girl-Who-Tried-So-Hard-For-You-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Vais arrepender-te de ter perdido uma rapariga que se esfor\u00e7ou tanto por ti\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/You\u2019re-Going-To-Regret-Losing-A-Girl-Who-Tried-So-Hard-For-You-Pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/You\u2019re-Going-To-Regret-Losing-A-Girl-Who-Tried-So-Hard-For-You-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/You\u2019re-Going-To-Regret-Losing-A-Girl-Who-Tried-So-Hard-For-You-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Unconditional love. Support. Affection. Understanding. Protection. Comfort. That was everything she gave you without asking you to reciprocate in the same way. You see, she thought that things like that should be as normal as breathing, that she wasn\u2019t supposed to beg for love. But she had. She had to beg for your love and&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":89968,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19096","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/You\u2019re-Going-To-Regret-Losing-A-Girl-Who-Tried-So-Hard-For-You-1.jpg",800,531,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19096","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19096"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19096\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/89968"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19096"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19096"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19096"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}