{"id":19107,"date":"2020-09-04T08:57:53","date_gmt":"2020-09-04T08:57:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19107"},"modified":"2022-02-04T11:41:44","modified_gmt":"2022-02-04T11:41:44","slug":"se-nao-esta-feliz-de-a-si-mesmo-permissao-para-sair","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-nao-esta-feliz-de-a-si-mesmo-permissao-para-sair\/","title":{"rendered":"Se n\u00e3o est\u00e1 feliz, d\u00ea a si mesmo permiss\u00e3o para sair"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>You&#8217;re not happy. Am I right? You always look for a reason to leave but you can&#8217;t find one to justify your need to move on from this relationship because you think that &#8216;not being happy&#8217; isn&#8217;t reason enough. But let me tell you that you have to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/sera-que-ele-vai-sentir-a-minha-falta-se-eu-o-deixar-sozinho-e-algo-que-vale-a-pena-descobrir\/\"> dar a si pr\u00f3prio autoriza\u00e7\u00e3o para partir <\/a> .<\/p>\n<p><b>D\u00ea a si pr\u00f3prio autoriza\u00e7\u00e3o para se ir embora. <\/b> You&#8217;re not happy and that can be seen in the way you walk next to him and the way you talk to him.<\/p>\n<p>You used to have that amazing spark in your eyes whenever you would stare at him but now you&#8217;re looking at him with that tired look in your eyes, wondering if you still love him.<\/p>\n<p><b>You may still love him but believe me, love sometimes isn&#8217;t enough.<\/b> Pode ter-se fartado de ouvir isso ou pode ter chegado ao ponto de come\u00e7ar a acreditar nisso; de qualquer forma, uma pequena parte de si concorda comigo.<\/p>\n<p><b>Deixaste de ser feliz quando ele come\u00e7ou a sentir-se confort\u00e1vel contigo ao seu lado.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-109622 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-sad-brunette-sits-on-a-swing-in-the-evening.jpg\" alt=\"uma morena triste senta-se num baloi\u00e7o ao fim da tarde\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1067\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-sad-brunette-sits-on-a-swing-in-the-evening.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-sad-brunette-sits-on-a-swing-in-the-evening-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-sad-brunette-sits-on-a-swing-in-the-evening-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-sad-brunette-sits-on-a-swing-in-the-evening-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-sad-brunette-sits-on-a-swing-in-the-evening-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-sad-brunette-sits-on-a-swing-in-the-evening-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-sad-brunette-sits-on-a-swing-in-the-evening-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-sad-brunette-sits-on-a-swing-in-the-evening-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Now he thinks that he has your heart between his fingers and that he doesn&#8217;t have to worry about putting so much effort into the relationship anymore. We all know that this kind of mindset leads to him taking you for granted and he will stop appreciating you.<\/p>\n<p><b>Por alguma raz\u00e3o, ainda acredita que os seus sentimentos v\u00e3o voltar. <\/b> The feeling of joy whenever he&#8217;d cross your mind and the feeling of satisfaction whenever you would look at him.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/a-verdade-e-que-se-pode-sentir-falta-de-alguem-com-quem-nunca-se-namorou\/\"> Sente falta desses sentimentos <\/a> that overwhelmed your body and mind, they made you feel like you belonged in his arms and you want that feeling back. But how long has it been since you&#8217;ve stopped feeling all of this? It&#8217;s been quite some time now, right?<\/p>\n<p><b>Permita-se ir embora porque a sua felicidade deve ser sempre a sua maior prioridade.<\/b> It&#8217;s not selfish. It&#8217;s not bad. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/5-ways-to-make-self-love-a-priority-because-its-not-selfish-its-necessary\/\"> It&#8217;s necessary <\/a> !<\/p>\n<p>You see that you haven&#8217;t been feeling well lately whenever he crosses your mind. Now all that&#8217;s left of the thought of him is the urge to run away, so you stop thinking about him. But that really isn&#8217;t the answer because it will keep on coming back to you until you fall into despair.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-109623 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-young-sad-brunette-sits-alone-on-a-park-bench.jpg\" alt=\"uma jovem morena triste senta-se sozinha num banco de jardim\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1067\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-young-sad-brunette-sits-alone-on-a-park-bench.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-young-sad-brunette-sits-alone-on-a-park-bench-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-young-sad-brunette-sits-alone-on-a-park-bench-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-young-sad-brunette-sits-alone-on-a-park-bench-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-young-sad-brunette-sits-alone-on-a-park-bench-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-young-sad-brunette-sits-alone-on-a-park-bench-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-young-sad-brunette-sits-alone-on-a-park-bench-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-young-sad-brunette-sits-alone-on-a-park-bench-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>N\u00e3o existe uma altura certa para o fazer.<\/b> You might be searching for the right moment to tell him that your feelings have faded away and that you don&#8217;t want to be with him anymore but let me be honest with you and say that there is no right moment. You can only keep on dragging it out and making it worse for yourself.<\/p>\n<p>If he had these same feelings, if he wasn&#8217;t happy in your relationship, would you want him to keep that from you? Of course not.<\/p>\n<p>You would want him to come to you and tell you everything in the hope that you could fix it. But there is no fixing it. Go, tell him. Tell him that you&#8217;re not happy anymore.<\/p>\n<p><b>Give yourself permission to leave because he&#8217;s not the only man out there.<\/b> It really is a clich\u00e9 to say this but it is the truth.<\/p>\n<p>I can&#8217;t tell you how many times someone came up to me, telling me that they were afraid that they wouldn\u2019t find another partner if they left their current relationship.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-109624 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-sad-blonde-sitting-in-the-park.jpg\" alt=\"uma loira triste sentada no parque\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1067\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-sad-blonde-sitting-in-the-park.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-sad-blonde-sitting-in-the-park-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-sad-blonde-sitting-in-the-park-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-sad-blonde-sitting-in-the-park-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-sad-blonde-sitting-in-the-park-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-sad-blonde-sitting-in-the-park-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-sad-blonde-sitting-in-the-park-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-sad-blonde-sitting-in-the-park-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ir\u00e1 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/estar-com-alguem-que-te-faca-feliz\/\">encontrar algu\u00e9m que te fa\u00e7a feliz<\/a>, someone who&#8217;s waiting for you to come into their life but you can&#8217;t find this special someone because you&#8217;re stuck in an unhappy marriage or relationship.<\/p>\n<p><b>Tem toda a capacidade de voltar a ser feliz.<\/b> Even if you regret it at one point in the future, it won&#8217;t matter anymore because you made yourself happy even if it was just for a moment. You made yourself happy and you showed yourself that you really do love your own well-being.<\/p>\n<p><b>Please don&#8217;t neglect the way you feel because of the fear of hurting someone.<\/b> \u00c9 necess\u00e1rio <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/eu-dei-te-mais-do-que-merecias-agora-e-altura-de-me-por-em-primeiro-lugar\/\"> cuide de si primeiro <\/a> . If you&#8217;re suffering, you&#8217;re not doing anyone a favor. That&#8217;s why you can finally give yourself permission to leave and make your own happiness a priority.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-109625 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/If-Youre-Not-Happy-Give-Yourself-Permission-To-Leave-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Se n\u00e3o est\u00e1 feliz, d\u00ea a si mesmo permiss\u00e3o para sair\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/If-Youre-Not-Happy-Give-Yourself-Permission-To-Leave-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/If-Youre-Not-Happy-Give-Yourself-Permission-To-Leave-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/If-Youre-Not-Happy-Give-Yourself-Permission-To-Leave-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/If-Youre-Not-Happy-Give-Yourself-Permission-To-Leave-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/If-Youre-Not-Happy-Give-Yourself-Permission-To-Leave-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You&#8217;re not happy. Am I right? You always look for a reason to leave but you can&#8217;t find one to justify your need to move on from this relationship because you think that &#8216;not being happy&#8217; isn&#8217;t reason enough. But let me tell you that you have to give yourself permission to leave . 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