{"id":19128,"date":"2020-05-23T12:23:49","date_gmt":"2020-05-23T12:23:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19128"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:49:22","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:49:22","slug":"5-perguntas-a-fazer-a-si-proprio-antes-de-lhe-dizer-que-tem-saudades-dele","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-perguntas-a-fazer-a-si-proprio-antes-de-lhe-dizer-que-tem-saudades-dele\/","title":{"rendered":"5 perguntas a fazer a si pr\u00f3pria antes de lhe dizer que tem saudades dele"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando tens saudades do teu ex-namorado, a \u00fanica coisa que te incomoda \u00e9 se ele sente a tua falta<\/a> voltar.<\/p>\n

Mas embora seja importante saber isso, h\u00e1 algumas coisas mais cruciais que precisa de resolver consigo pr\u00f3pria antes de lhe confessar os seus sentimentos.<\/p>\n

Aqui est\u00e3o 5 perguntas que deve fazer a si pr\u00f3prio antes de dizer ao seu ex que tem saudades dele.<\/p>\n

Isto \u00e9 amor ou ego?<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Quando perdemos algu\u00e9m que pens\u00e1vamos que nos pertencia, temos tend\u00eancia a sentir uma gama diferente de emo\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

Claro que a primeira \u00e9 normalmente o choque, seguido de uma enorme dor emocional.<\/p>\n

But something not many of us are aware of is that this pain sometimes doesn\u2019t have a lot to do with love.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, we miss a person because we got used to having them in our life or we suffer for all the future plans we won\u2019t be able to accomplish with that someone, now that they are gone.<\/p>\n

But there are also times in which our heart is not the thing which is actually hurt, even though we don\u2019t know it.<\/p>\n

There are times when there is simply too much vanity in us which prevents us from accepting that we\u2019ve lost someone we thought would always be ours.<\/p>\n

We take this person\u2019s departure as a personal defeat and our ego makes us think we would do anything just to have this person back.<\/p>\n

So one of the first questions you need to ask yourself before you decide to tell your ex you miss him is, \u201cIs this love or just my ego talking?\u201d Are you just jealous of him for moving on with his life before you did or is it that you really can\u2019t imagine spending the rest of your life without this person by your side?<\/p>\n

Ser\u00e1 que tenho mesmo saudades dele todo?<\/h2>\n

\"morena<\/p>\n

After the break-up happens and some time passes by, one of your brain\u2019s defense mechanisms is there to make you forget most of the bad memories you shared with this person.<\/p>\n

Desta forma, ao fim de algum tempo, acaba por se lembrar apenas das coisas bonitas da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o passada e \u00e9 natural que sinta nostalgia ao recordar esses momentos.<\/p>\n

Mas se pensarmos em voltar a juntar-se<\/a> with your ex, you need to be aware that your relationship wasn\u2019t all that great because otherwise the two of you wouldn\u2019t have broken things off.<\/p>\n

Therefore, you need to ask yourself whether you miss this person completely and entirely or you just miss the parts of him you liked\u2014because he is still the whole package, despite your wishes.<\/p>\n

Vale a pena lutar por esta rela\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Outra quest\u00e3o que deve colocar a si pr\u00f3pria antes de dizer ao seu ex que tem saudades dele \u00e9 se vale a pena lutar por essa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Esta \u00e9 uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o em que deseja passar anos e talvez at\u00e9 o resto da sua vida?<\/p>\n

Ou \u00e9 algo de que se consegue esquecer dentro de alguns meses?<\/p>\n

Ser\u00e1 que esta rela\u00e7\u00e3o e este homem s\u00e3o dignos da sua energia, tempo e paci\u00eancia e, mais importante ainda, ser\u00e3o eles dignos de si?<\/p>\n

Estas s\u00e3o todas as perguntas a que deve responder de forma realista e deve ter a certeza das suas respostas antes de agir de acordo com os seus potenciais sentimentos.<\/p>\n

Estarei pronta para passar por tudo outra vez?<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Se disser ao seu namorado que tem saudades dele e se ele lhe responder, \u00e9 muito prov\u00e1vel que os dois voltem a ficar juntos.<\/p>\n

But it doesn\u2019t mean all of your problems will magically go away and this is one of the most important li\u00e7\u00f5es que a sua separa\u00e7\u00e3o lhe vai ensinar<\/a>se voltares para a tua ex.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso estar consciente do facto de que o mesmo resultado da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 muito poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n

The two of you are still the same people you were before and the fact that you might miss one another doesn\u2019t change that fact.<\/p>\n

Por isso, a pergunta que tem de fazer a si pr\u00f3pria antes de tomar qualquer atitude em rela\u00e7\u00e3o aos seus sentimentos \u00e9 se est\u00e1 preparada para passar por mais uma rutura e por tudo o que isso acarreta, porque esse \u00e9 um risco poss\u00edvel de voltar a estar com ele.<\/p>\n

Podemos perdoar-nos uns aos outros?<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

O facto \u00e9 que alguma coisa teve de levar \u00e0 vossa separa\u00e7\u00e3o para que ela acontecesse.<\/p>\n

Mas uma coisa \u00e9 se tiveram alguns pequenos desentendimentos e outra completamente diferente \u00e9 se os dois se magoaram um ao outro.<\/p>\n

If this is the case, what you need to ask yourself is if you and your ex are ready to forgive one another for all the pain you\u2019ve caused.<\/p>\n

Porque n\u00e3o vale a pena voltarem a estar juntos se os dois voltarem constantemente \u00e0s mesmas coisas que fizeram um ao outro.<\/p>\n

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