{"id":19163,"date":"2021-02-05T10:52:08","date_gmt":"2021-02-05T10:52:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19163"},"modified":"2022-02-28T02:10:59","modified_gmt":"2022-02-28T02:10:59","slug":"7-coisas-que-podes-fazer-quando-ele-comeca-a-tomar-te-por-garantida","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-coisas-que-podes-fazer-quando-ele-comeca-a-tomar-te-por-garantida\/","title":{"rendered":"Ele n\u00e3o me leva a s\u00e9rio: 9 raz\u00f5es para isso (e o que fazer)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><i>Ele toma-me por garantido.<\/i> Esta \u00e9, sem d\u00favida, uma das frases mais populares que circulam h\u00e1 algum tempo.<\/p>\n<p>Is he seriously taking you for granted? That\u2019s a serious accusation to make, and you shouldn\u2019t make it without the solid proof he is really doing that.<\/p>\n<p>Infelizmente, colocar algu\u00e9m no Plano B acontece muito mais nas rela\u00e7\u00f5es modernas. Quer queiramos admiti-lo ou n\u00e3o, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/sindrome-da-erva-mais-verde\/\">a s\u00edndrome da relva mais verde<\/a> tornou-se o maior destruidor de rela\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n<p>Esta \u00e9 uma das raz\u00f5es pelas quais o facto de tomar algu\u00e9m por garantido se infiltra numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o outrora feliz.<\/p>\n<p>Para se tornar realmente positivo em rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0s suas suspeitas, em primeiro lugar, tem de ser objetivo e tentar n\u00e3o envolver demasiadas emo\u00e7\u00f5es na avalia\u00e7\u00e3o do facto de ele ser <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/prioridade-e-nao-opcao\/\">tratam-no como uma op\u00e7\u00e3o em vez de uma prioridade<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Besides looking for signs he&#8217;s taking you for granted, you need to understand what exactly means when someone takes you for granted, why they are doing that, and what you can do about it. We&#8217;ll cover all that (and more) below.<\/p>\n<h2>He Takes Me For Granted Significado<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-129135\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/unhappy-couple-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"casal infeliz em casa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/unhappy-couple-at-home.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/unhappy-couple-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/unhappy-couple-at-home-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/unhappy-couple-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/unhappy-couple-at-home-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/unhappy-couple-at-home-320x214.jpg 320w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/unhappy-couple-at-home-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/unhappy-couple-at-home-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/unhappy-couple-at-home-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/unhappy-couple-at-home-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/unhappy-couple-at-home-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/unhappy-couple-at-home-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/unhappy-couple-at-home-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If he takes you for granted, it basically means that he doesn&#8217;t appreciate you enough. It implies a lack of gratitude where he&#8217;s taking advantage of you or undervalues you.<\/p>\n<p>You know he&#8217;s not appreciating you enough if he doesn&#8217;t reciprocate, doesn&#8217;t acknowledge the things you do for him, and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/10-sinais-de-que-ele-nao-esta-a-esforcar-se-o-suficiente-na-vossa-relacao\/\">isn&#8217;t putting enough effort<\/a> para estar l\u00e1 para ti quando precisares dele.<\/p>\n<p>You know he&#8217;s taking you for granted when you feel like you&#8217;re the only one going out of your way to make things work in a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Todas as pequenas e grandes coisas que faz por ele passam muitas vezes despercebidas e sente que a sua presen\u00e7a fica na sombra do seu ego\u00edsmo.<\/p>\n<h2>Por que \u00e9 que os homens te tomam por garantida?<\/h2>\n<p>Uma das maiores raz\u00f5es pelas quais os homens a tomam por garantida \u00e9 quando come\u00e7am a ESPERAR que se comporte de uma determinada maneira. Habituam-se a receber um tratamento real sem dar nada em troca.<\/p>\n<p>Aqui est\u00e3o as raz\u00f5es mais comuns pelas quais os homens a tomam por garantida:<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">You have troubles saying &#8216;no&#8217;<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79074 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shallow-focus-of-thoughtful-woman-sitting-next-to-man-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"foco superficial de uma mulher pensativa sentada ao lado de um homem em casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shallow-focus-of-thoughtful-woman-sitting-next-to-man-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shallow-focus-of-thoughtful-woman-sitting-next-to-man-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shallow-focus-of-thoughtful-woman-sitting-next-to-man-at-home-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Sente que prefere assumir mais tarefas e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/psicologia\/assumir-a-responsabilidade-pelos-seus-actos\/\">responsabilidades<\/a> than say &#8216;no&#8217; to your partner or other people? Then you officially have trouble saying &#8216;no&#8217; and you&#8217;re officially going out of your way to please others at your own expense.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;re a people pleaser<\/h3>\n<p>You just can&#8217;t be rude to others no matter how rude they are to you because <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/8-sinais-de-que-e-uma-pessoa-que-gosta-de-agradar-as-pessoas\/\">you&#8217;re a legit people pleaser<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re too sweet and nice which guys immediately recognize and then, through time, decide to &#8216;turn your sweetness against you&#8217; aka take you for granted.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Os outros podem prever o seu comportamento<\/h3>\n<p>Predictable behavior can be easily manipulated by others. If you&#8217;re predictable, it means others can know your next few moves in advance.<\/p>\n<p>Isto torna mais f\u00e1cil para eles manipularem-no e levarem-no a fazer o que querem. Este tipo de manipula\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o subtis, pelo que pode nem sequer se aperceber delas.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Tem dificuldade em confrontar as pessoas<\/h3>\n<p>You have trouble confronting issues with others (be it your partner or someone else). If you don&#8217;t tell them how their actions make you feel, you end up unhappy and they keep <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/carta-que-o-homem-tomou-como-garantida\/\">tomar-te por garantido<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>They do that because they&#8217;re convinced that everything is fine and you&#8217;re okay with their behavior. Well, are you?<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;re not being honest with yourself<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79073 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shallow-focus-of-thoughtful-man-sitting-next-to-woman-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"focagem superficial de um homem pensativo sentado ao lado de uma mulher em casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shallow-focus-of-thoughtful-man-sitting-next-to-woman-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shallow-focus-of-thoughtful-man-sitting-next-to-woman-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shallow-focus-of-thoughtful-man-sitting-next-to-woman-at-home-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Em vez de admitirmos para n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios a famosa frase, <i>Ele toma-me por garantido, <\/i>desculpa o seu comportamento.<\/p>\n<p>Em vez de se perguntar a si pr\u00f3prio <i>Espera, porque \u00e9 que ele me est\u00e1 a tomar por garantido no <\/i><i>primeiro lugar<\/i><i>? <\/i>you turn a blind eye thinking that you&#8217;re overreacting and it&#8217;s all in your head.<\/p>\n<p>Justificar o seu comportamento de merda tornou-se o novo normal.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Procura constantemente a aprova\u00e7\u00e3o dos outros<\/h3>\n<p>Permite que os outros se sintam emocionalmente <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/controlo-do-comportamento\/\">controlam-no e manipulam-no<\/a> because you&#8217;re determined to get their approval at any cost. You ask for their approval on almost everything you do and that&#8217;s how you lose yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Quando come\u00e7am a tomar-nos por garantidos, muitas vezes n\u00e3o nos apercebemos disso porque j\u00e1 perdemos o nosso sentido de julgamento.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Tem poucas expectativas<\/h3>\n<p>Habituou-se a ficar t\u00e3o desiludido com os outros que as suas expectativas em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a eles se tornaram muito baixas.<\/p>\n<p>You give too much from yourself and receive little or nothing at all but you don&#8217;t <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/a-arte-malefica-da-transferencia-de-culpas\/\">culpar os outros<\/a> para isso. Porqu\u00ea?<\/p>\n<p>Because you have low expectations and you don&#8217;t expect others to treat you the way you treat them.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;re scared<\/h3>\n<p>You&#8217;re scared of people who act bossy, confrontational or are too loud. Because of that, you refuse to confront them.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;d rather do as they say and accept what they say than ever go against them. They know that, too, and that&#8217;s why they decide to take you for granted.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">D\u00e1-se mais do que se recebe<\/h3>\n<p>Somehow, you&#8217;re always the one who gives too much without even realizing that you&#8217;re doing that.<\/p>\n<p>You never question the matter of reciprocity in a relationship because you&#8217;re used to being the one who gives more than they get back.<\/p>\n<p>Mesmo que decida <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/her-and-him\/porque-e-que-os-homens-se-afastam-antes-de-se-comprometerem\/\">afastar-se<\/a>, they&#8217;d be upset, accusing you of being the one who changed for the worse.<\/p>\n<h2>He Takes Me For Granted: 7 Clear Signs He&#8217;s Taking You For Granted<\/h2>\n<p>Quando me perguntei pela primeira vez <i>Estar\u00e1 ele a tomar-me por garantida?<\/i> Estava pronto para passar um ano \u00e0 procura de sinais de que ele o fazia. Para meu espanto, estes sinais estavam mesmo \u00e0 minha frente durante todo este tempo, mas decidi n\u00e3o os ver.<\/p>\n<p>As always, it&#8217;s best to learn from other people&#8217;s mistakes, so here are the signs that will open your eyes by showing his true nature:<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Deixou de a tratar com respeito<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79078 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/thoughtful-couple-sitting-next-to-each-other-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"casal atencioso sentado ao lado um do outro em casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/thoughtful-couple-sitting-next-to-each-other-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/thoughtful-couple-sitting-next-to-each-other-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/thoughtful-couple-sitting-next-to-each-other-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>O respeito \u00e9 uma coisa que, para al\u00e9m do amor, nunca deve faltar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Your partner has to acknowledge you even for the small things you\u2019ve done. It\u2019s important that you know he appreciates you and your effort.<\/p>\n<p>Once he stops doing all that, consider it as not a good sign. It\u2019s the beginning of \u2018\u2019<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/deixei-de-ser-demasiado-simpatica-porque-estava-farta-de-ser-tomada-como-garantida\/\">tomar-te por garantido<\/a>\u2019\u2019 journey you don\u2019t want to be on.<\/p>\n<p>If he\u2019s making plans without you knowing, then you have a big red warning sign that something is seriously wrong.<\/p>\n<p>Fazer planos sozinho em vez de a envolver significa que ele nem sequer est\u00e1 interessado em saber se pode ou n\u00e3o participar nesses planos.<\/p>\n<p>What you want in this case is not an option. Ask any relationship expert if this behavior is worthy of putting up with, they will all give you the same answer\u2014you&#8217;re being taken for granted and something needs to be changed.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">He doesn\u2019t care what you think<\/h3>\n<p>Este sentimento pode afetar seriamente a sua autoestima. As suas reac\u00e7\u00f5es indiferentes <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/a-errada-fara-com-que-se-sinta-inutil-2\/\">fazem-nos sentir insignificantes<\/a> e sem import\u00e2ncia.<\/p>\n<p>Ningu\u00e9m se deve sentir assim, especialmente numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o em que o seu parceiro a deve fazer sentir especial e amada.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s not making you feel anything except shame and a sense of less worth. If your significant other is faced with difficult choices in life, it\u2019s normal and natural for them to turn to you for advice.<\/p>\n<p>O seu namorado deixou de a deixar participar nos grandes momentos e decis\u00f5es da vida.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s because you don\u2019t matter to him as much as you used to. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/tipos-de-intimidade\/\">Rela\u00e7\u00f5es saud\u00e1veis<\/a> implica amor incondicional e, acima de tudo, confian\u00e7a. Perdeste a confian\u00e7a e talvez at\u00e9 o amor.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ele deixou de tentar perto de si<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79072 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-doesnt-want-to-talk-with-her-girlfriend-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"o homem n\u00e3o quer falar com a namorada em casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-doesnt-want-to-talk-with-her-girlfriend-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-doesnt-want-to-talk-with-her-girlfriend-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-doesnt-want-to-talk-with-her-girlfriend-at-home-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>He\u2019s not taking you to nice dates anymore. He\u2019s not even trying to do anything romantic anymore. I don&#8217;t want to scare you but these are huge red flags in a romantic relationship.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/leia-isto-se-a-sua-relacao-de-longa-duracao-esta-num-marasmo\/\">A sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o tem estado presa numa rotina<\/a>, and he doesn\u2019t seem to be bothered by it.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s even stopped trying to look good for you. I\u2019m not saying he should groom himself all the time to look like a model when he\u2019s with you, don\u2019t get me wrong.<\/p>\n<p>He should be relaxed around you, but isn\u2019t there a line between being relaxed and not giving a damn?<\/p>\n<p>I mean if boxers are the only thing he ever wears around you and you\u2019re home all the time\u2026is that really nice of him to do?<\/p>\n<p>Or is it the result of a lack of trying? I\u2019ll let you be the judge of that.<\/p>\n<p>Pense bem: a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o de longa data entrou numa crise e precisa de mudar alguma coisa o mais rapidamente poss\u00edvel ou \u00e9 porque <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/10-sinais-de-que-ela-nao-gosta-mais-de-voce\/\">he\u2019s just not into you anymore<\/a>, so he\u2019s taking you for granted?<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">He doesn\u2019t listen when you talk<\/h3>\n<p>When you talk, he does his own thing. He is not paying attention to anything you say, and the reason is more than simple. He doesn\u2019t care about you, things that you say, or things that you think about.<\/p>\n<p>A sua comunica\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1 a ir por \u00e1gua abaixo, o que \u00e9 outra <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/15-red-flags-screaming-leave-relationship\/\">bandeira vermelha numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Como seres humanos, temos o desejo de nos relacionarmos com os outros a muitos n\u00edveis. Por isso, quando a comunica\u00e7\u00e3o deixa de existir, sabemos que a nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1 a enfrentar alguns problemas s\u00e9rios.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Os amigos dele s\u00e3o mais importantes do que tu<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79071 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/group-of-male-friends-taking-a-selfie.jpg\" alt=\"grupo de amigos do sexo masculino a tirar uma selfie\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/group-of-male-friends-taking-a-selfie.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/group-of-male-friends-taking-a-selfie-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/group-of-male-friends-taking-a-selfie-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>I\u2019m not saying he should be by your side and hang out with you all the time but if there ever comes a point in your relationship where he chooses to spend time with his friends rather than you, he\u2019s most definitely taking you for granted.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t blow this out of proportion. If he rejects you once to go with his friends, it doesn\u2019t have to mean <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/carta-rapaz-deixou-de-se-preocupar-rapariga-amada\/\">ele deixou de se importar<\/a> sobre si. Tens de o deixar ter a sua vida social fora da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Mas se isto come\u00e7ar a acontecer com regularidade, deve come\u00e7ar a preocupar-se. A primeira coisa que vem \u00e0 mente \u00e9 que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-signs-hes-losing-interest-deal\/\">ele est\u00e1 a perder lentamente o interesse em si<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Evita a intimidade<\/h3>\n<p>Quando foi a \u00faltima vez que tiveram intimidade? Lembra-se? A falta de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/cinco-factos-importantes-que-deve-saber-sobre-a-intimidade-fisica-no-casamento\/\">intimidade f\u00edsica<\/a> \u00e9 definitivamente um dos sinais alarmantes de que a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1 a enfrentar problemas.<\/p>\n<p>Passion is one of the things that should always be present in a relationship, no matter what. If you don\u2019t attract each other physically, that relationship is doomed to fail sooner or later.<\/p>\n<p>O mesmo se aplica \u00e0 intimidade emocional. Deve ter a possibilidade e a liberdade de falar sobre os seus sentimentos com o seu parceiro.<\/p>\n<p>Being vulnerable is not something you should be ashamed of, especially when you\u2019re with your loved one. He has to give you emotional support and ensure you feel safe and protected when he\u2019s around.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">He hasn\u2019t introduced you to his family<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-49312\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/7-Signs-Hes-Taking-You-For-Granted-And-7-Things-You-Can-Do-About-It1.jpg\" alt=\"7 sinais de que ele est\u00e1 a tomar-te por garantida (e 7 coisas que podes fazer em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a isso)\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/7-Signs-Hes-Taking-You-For-Granted-And-7-Things-You-Can-Do-About-It1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/7-Signs-Hes-Taking-You-For-Granted-And-7-Things-You-Can-Do-About-It1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/7-Signs-Hes-Taking-You-For-Granted-And-7-Things-You-Can-Do-About-It1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>My family is everything to me, as I\u2019m sure yours to you, too. He is no exception either.<\/p>\n<p>Wouldn\u2019t it be completely normal for him to introduce you to his loved ones if he was <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/ele-esta-a-brincar-comigo\/\">a s\u00e9rio sobre si<\/a>? I would do it, and you would do the same. Why hasn\u2019t he done it yet?<\/p>\n<p>The answer is not so pleasing. It could be that he&#8217;s not interested in anything serious with you or he&#8217;s simply taking you for granted.<\/p>\n<p>Estes problemas s\u00e3o bastante s\u00e9rios e n\u00e3o h\u00e1 uma solu\u00e7\u00e3o f\u00e1cil que nos venha \u00e0 cabe\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<p>Although you can always try to talk to your boyfriend using complete honesty to try to solve what\u2019s holding him down in your relationship.<\/p>\n<h2>O que fazer quando um homem a toma por garantida?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79077 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside.jpg\" alt=\"mulher pensativa coloca a cabe\u00e7a nas costas de um homem enquanto este se encontra no exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>When a man takes you for granted, it&#8217;s best to give him the taste of his own medicine if you want to teach him a valuable lesson.<\/p>\n<p>H\u00e1 sempre algumas op\u00e7\u00f5es que pode considerar. Quando ele a toma por garantida, pode ignor\u00e1-lo e concentrar-se em <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/a-melhor-vida-e-aproveitar-as-pequenas-coisas\/\">viver a sua melhor vida<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>You can cut off contact for good. At least, you\u2019re getting the satisfaction of winning and walking away from him, instead of him from you.<\/p>\n<p>But, there are other options, too, which might intrigue him and get him hooked back\u2026<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Divertir-se sozinho<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-129138\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/happy-woman-smiling-on-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"mulher feliz a sorrir na rua\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/happy-woman-smiling-on-the-street.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/happy-woman-smiling-on-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/happy-woman-smiling-on-the-street-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/happy-woman-smiling-on-the-street-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/happy-woman-smiling-on-the-street-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/happy-woman-smiling-on-the-street-320x214.jpg 320w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/happy-woman-smiling-on-the-street-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/happy-woman-smiling-on-the-street-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/happy-woman-smiling-on-the-street-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/happy-woman-smiling-on-the-street-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/happy-woman-smiling-on-the-street-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/happy-woman-smiling-on-the-street-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/happy-woman-smiling-on-the-street-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ele toma-me por garantido. E ent\u00e3o? Ainda te podes divertir sozinho e concentrar-te na tua pr\u00f3pria vida, certo?<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t even bother to ask him what he\u2019s doing that night if you know that he\u2019s going to have some lame excuse for not going out with you.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, go out on a date with yourself or find new hobbies. Do something that you will enjoy doing even when you know that he wouldn\u2019t enjoy it with you.<\/p>\n<p>There are so many things you stopped doing since you two started your relationship, so it&#8217;s time to do those things right now.<\/p>\n<p>Oh, and don\u2019t forget to take a picture and post it somewhere he will see it. Let him ask himself why you didn\u2019t even invite him.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t answer his messages right away<\/h3>\n<p>Women have this urge to answer messages right away. I mean it\u2019s polite, and that\u2019s how it\u2019s supposed to be done if you have your phone by your hand.<\/p>\n<p>But now that he\u2019s taking you for granted and he doesn\u2019t know how hard it is for you when you have to wait a whole day before he answers, ignore the urge to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/8-razoes-legitimas-para-nao-voltar-a-enviar-lhe-mensagens-de-texto\/\">enviar-lhe uma mensagem de volta<\/a>. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/12-razoes-pelas-quais-ele-nunca-te-manda-uma-mensagem-primeiro-mas-responde-sempre-quando-tu-lhe-mandas-uma\/\">Don&#8217;t text him and he will text you.<\/a><\/p>\n<p><i>Recuperar a sua <\/i><i>respeito por si pr\u00f3prio<\/i><i>. Make him feel your pain. Don\u2019t answer him.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>You could even leave him on \u2018read\u2019.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Vestir-se para impressionar<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79064 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-looking-at-glass-of-beer.jpg\" alt=\"homem a olhar para um copo de cerveja\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-looking-at-glass-of-beer.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-looking-at-glass-of-beer-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-looking-at-glass-of-beer-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>N\u00e3o importa a frequ\u00eancia com que se veste bem, duplique-a! Vista-se t\u00e3o bem que ele se babar\u00e1 sempre que passar por si.<\/p>\n<p>Let him see what he\u2019s losing. A little red lipstick and mascara will make you feel good about yourself, too.<\/p>\n<p>Needless to say that men are visual creatures, so if he sees you that hot, he\u2019ll instantly come after you. But don\u2019t let him touch you.<\/p>\n<p>O contacto f\u00edsico est\u00e1 fora dos limites at\u00e9 ele come\u00e7ar <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-sinais-a-prova-de-bala-nao-aprecia-mais\/\">apreciar a vossa presen\u00e7a<\/a> na sua vida novamente.<\/p>\n<p>I know that this sounds like manipulation but if he doesn\u2019t see what he\u2019s losing, he won\u2019t realize what\u2019s going on and he won\u2019t be able to \u2018read the signals\u2019 you\u2019re trying to send him.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Sair com os seus amigos<\/h3>\n<p>O teu namorado toma-te por garantida? N\u00e3o h\u00e1 problema.<\/p>\n<p>Ir a festas, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/questions-and-games\/bff-talk\/lista-de-amigos-13-desafios-que-tem-de-fazer-com-o-seu-melhor-amigo\/\">divertir-se com os seus melhores amigos<\/a>colegas de trabalho, etc. Deixe-o ver que \u00e9 capaz de ter uma vida maravilhosa sem ele.<\/p>\n<p>Plan an all-girls weekend for your birthday, and don\u2019t allow him to join the party.<\/p>\n<p>Let him know that he\u2019s not invited. He doesn\u2019t deserve to be there in the first place, right?<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Cancelar planos com ele<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79061 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-woman-listening-to-music-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"mulher bonita a ouvir m\u00fasica em casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-woman-listening-to-music-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-woman-listening-to-music-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-woman-listening-to-music-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Believe me, I know it\u2019s hard. You want to spend more time with him because you love him, but this is the best way for you to let him know that something isn\u2019t right.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 necess\u00e1rio <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/10-maneiras-de-fazer-um-homem-perceber-que-esta-a-perder\/\">make him realize he&#8217;s losing you<\/a>!<\/p>\n<p>If he calls you to go out, politely tell him that you don\u2019t want to. If you have already made plans with him, then cancel the date night and tell him that you have something important to do for work. Either way, it will pay off.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t talk to him about your life<\/h3>\n<p><i>Ele toma-me por garantida. Talvez eu precise de multiplicar os meus esfor\u00e7os e ser mais aberta com ele.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s exactly what I was thinking a few years ago. Don&#8217;t make the same mistake. Withhold information about your life right now.<\/p>\n<p>At one point when you\u2019re talking to him and he asks you about why you haven\u2019t told him that before, choose a passive-aggressive answer like, \u201cI saw that you were too busy to actually care.\u201d These sentences hit the spot even though they may sound a bit rough.<\/p>\n<p>Depois de todo este tempo <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/nao-se-preocupou-muito\/\">tomar-te por garantido<\/a>Mostre-lhe que n\u00e3o est\u00e1 de acordo com o seu comportamento.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Fale com ele sobre o que sente<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79063 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-holding-phone-outside.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a segurar o telefone no exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-holding-phone-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-holding-phone-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-holding-phone-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Depois de ter decidido que j\u00e1 chega de jogos, experimente a velha t\u00e9cnica de ouro de falar sobre as coisas.<\/p>\n<p>Talvez j\u00e1 o tenha tentado antes de tudo isto, mas agora \u00e9 a altura certa para falar sobre o assunto.<\/p>\n<p>Tell him how you have been feeling lately, and tell him that you aren\u2019t happy in your relationship because he doesn\u2019t appreciate you and what you\u2019re doing for him.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve said this already\u2014communication is the key to every <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-regras-de-relacionamento-a-seguir-se-quiser-ter-uma-vida-amorosa-feliz\/\">rela\u00e7\u00e3o feliz<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Diga-lhe que ele s\u00f3 tira da rela\u00e7\u00e3o sem dar nada em troca e veja o que acontece. Diga-lhe que qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 uma via de dois sentidos e que n\u00e3o funcionar\u00e1 se um dos parceiros se esfor\u00e7ar mais do que o outro.<\/p>\n<p>Pense se ele merece a sua segunda oportunidade.<\/p>\n<p>If he says that he is going to change his behavior, then you should give him a chance, but be careful with how many chances you\u2019re giving out and is it worth the trouble?<\/p>\n<h2>Como \u00e9 que o impe\u00e7o de me tomar por garantida?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79062 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/An-attractive-young-woman-prepares-in-a-dressing-room.jpg\" alt=\"Uma jovem atraente prepara-se num quarto de vestir\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/An-attractive-young-woman-prepares-in-a-dressing-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/An-attractive-young-woman-prepares-in-a-dressing-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/An-attractive-young-woman-prepares-in-a-dressing-room-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>You&#8217;ll stop him from taking you for granted when you stop doing those things he takes for granted and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/estabelecer-limites-como-uma-mulher-de-grande-valor\/\">estabelecer limites como a mulher de alto valor<\/a> que tu \u00e9s.<\/p>\n<p>Let him know that you won&#8217;t tolerate him not appreciating your effort. Let him know that you&#8217;re fine without him.<\/p>\n<p>This is how you&#8217;ll stop him from taking you for granted ever again:<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Stop doing those things he&#8217;s taking for granted<\/h3>\n<p><i>Ele toma-me por garantido. <\/i>Well, then stop doing those things he&#8217;s taking for granted.<\/p>\n<p>Isto \u00e9 algo que qualquer treinador de rela\u00e7\u00f5es lhe diria: P\u00e1ra de te esfor\u00e7ar para fazeres coisas boas para ele. Ponto final.<\/p>\n<p>The more you&#8217;re going out of your way to please him, the more he&#8217;ll take your effort for granted. You need to break this evil art of <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ele\/inside-his-mind\/7-sinais-de-que-ele-esta-apenas-a-aproveitar-se-da-sua-bondade\/\">ele aproveitar-se de si<\/a> and you&#8217;ll do it by not giving him the things he used to receive from you.<\/p>\n<p>Let him know that it takes two to tango. You will not be the only one trying to make things work. It&#8217;s high time that he chooses between reciprocity or nothing.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Chamar-lhe a aten\u00e7\u00e3o para o seu comportamento<\/h3>\n<p>Don\u2019t omit anything he does, and most importantly, don\u2019t make excuses for him in the process of evaluating what his deal is.<\/p>\n<p>Observem tudo, desde as pequenas coisas \u00e0s grandes, porque todas s\u00e3o igualmente importantes.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m sure you\u2019ve realized by now that you\u2019ve missed so many sure signs telling you that he is not appreciating you as he used to.<\/p>\n<p>If you did, don\u2019t let that lower your spirits and discourage you.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not your fault that you missed out on whatever was going on right in front of your nose. You\u2019re not the one to blame that your significant other is not treating you the way you deserve.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Estabelecer limites<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79065 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/group-of-friends-cheering-with-glasses-of-wine.jpg\" alt=\"grupo de amigos a aplaudir com copos de vinho\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/group-of-friends-cheering-with-glasses-of-wine.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/group-of-friends-cheering-with-glasses-of-wine-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/group-of-friends-cheering-with-glasses-of-wine-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>It&#8217;s time to set yourself some boundaries. Choose the things that you&#8217;ll do because you want to do them and accentuate the things you won&#8217;t do because he&#8217;s obviously taking them for granted.<\/p>\n<p>Once he sees that you&#8217;re no longer going out of your way to please him, he&#8217;ll start to question his behavior. (Well, I hope he will.)<\/p>\n<p>Estabelecer limites \u00e9 da maior import\u00e2ncia se quiser <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/fake-love\/emotional-abuse\/7-formas-de-proteger-o-abuso-emocional\/\">proteger-se<\/a> do seu comportamento manipulador.<\/p>\n<p>It will help you realize the things you&#8217;re doing for yourself and the things you&#8217;ve been doing for him that he didn&#8217;t appreciate whatsoever.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Concentre-se em si pr\u00f3prio<\/h3>\n<p>One of the greatest relationship advice of all times: When everything else fails, focus on yourself. When you&#8217;ve done all you could and you see that he still doesn&#8217;t realize the mistake of taking you for granted, just ignore him completely.<\/p>\n<p>Do what makes YOU happy at the moment. Don&#8217;t worry about how he&#8217;ll perceive your decision to no longer settle for his selfish treatment.<\/p>\n<p>A man cannot realize what he had if you don&#8217;t let him know what he lost. In this case, I refer to what he &#8216;temporarily&#8217; lost.<\/p>\n<p>Claro que, se vires que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/se-nao-consegue-falar-com-ele-sobre-estas-5-coisas-a-sua-relacao-nao-tem-futuro\/\">a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o tem futuro<\/a> and the problems are beyond fixing, you can easily replace the word &#8216;temporarily&#8217; with &#8216;permanently&#8217;.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Let him know you&#8217;re TOTALLY fine without him<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79066 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-looks-thoughtful-while-talking-on-phone-at-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com ar pensativo enquanto fala ao telefone num caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-looks-thoughtful-while-talking-on-phone-at-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-looks-thoughtful-while-talking-on-phone-at-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-looks-thoughtful-while-talking-on-phone-at-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>I&#8217;ve heard many women say: <i>He took me for granted so I left him. He didn&#8217;t appreciate my gestures, so I stopped trying.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s one for you:<i> He took me for granted, so I showed him that I&#8217;m TOTALLY fine without him.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Live your best life and don&#8217;t think about him even for a second. Let him know that if you had to leave, you definitely would and that you would be fine without him.<\/p>\n<p>Isto recordar-lhe-\u00e1 o facto de que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/10-sinais-que-mostram-que-esta-a-lidar-com-uma-mulher-independente\/\">you&#8217;re an independent woman<\/a> who knows how to take care of herself. You don&#8217;t need his lame behavior in your life because you know better.<\/p>\n<p>You put up with his behavior so far because you wanted to and not because you had to. Now that you see he still hasn&#8217;t changed his game, you&#8217;ll give him a checkmate.<\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;ll either open his eyes and realize what he&#8217;ll lose or he&#8217;ll keep taking you for granted. The only difference is that this time he knows you won&#8217;t tolerate the latter.<\/p>\n<h2>Don&#8217;t Take Me For Granted Quotes<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79067 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/couple-talking-at-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"casal a conversar num caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/couple-talking-at-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/couple-talking-at-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/couple-talking-at-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Se quer que ele (e os outros) deixem de a tomar por garantida, ent\u00e3o tem de os lembrar de que devem PARAR de se comportar assim.<\/p>\n<p>One of the surefire ways to do so is by posting or sending them quotes about taking you for granted. These words of wisdom have the power to change everyone&#8217;s perception and he is not an exception.<\/p>\n<p>1. \u201cLearn my VALUE or earn my ABSENCE. Don\u2019t take me for granted.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>2. \u201cWhen I give you my time, I\u2019m giving you a portion of my life that I will never get back. So please don\u2019t make me regret it.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>3. \u201cNever take a woman for granted because one day another guy will come along and appreciate what you didn\u2019t.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>4. \u201cDon\u2019t take me for granted because unlike the rest I\u2019m not afraid to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/10-boas-razoes-para-se-ir-embora\/\">afastar-se<\/a>.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>5. \u201cWomen are often overlooked, taken for granted. They can slip easily through a man\u2019s defense.\u201d \u2013 Stan Lee<\/p>\n<p>6. \u201cJust because I\u2019m here for you all the time, doesn\u2019t mean you can take me for granted.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>7. \u201cYou need to stop doing things for someone when you find out it\u2019s expected rather than appreciated.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>8. \u201cIf they don\u2019t appreciate your presence, perhaps you should try giving them <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/ausencia-que-ensinou-a-viver-sem\/\">a sua aus\u00eancia<\/a>.\u201d \u2013 Tinku Razoria<\/p>\n<p>9. \u201cEven the most caring people can get tired of being taken for granted.\u201d \u2013 Nishan Panwar<\/p>\n<p>10. \u201cIf they don\u2019t respect, appreciate and value you, then they don\u2019t deserve you.\u201d \u2013 Robert Tew<\/p>\n<p>11. \u201cIt is sad when you realize you are not as important to someone as they are to you!\u201d \u2013 Nikhil Andy<\/p>\n<p>12. \u201cKindness should never be taken for granted because even the nicest people have their limits.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79060 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/upset-couple-talking-at-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"casal chateado a conversar num caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/upset-couple-talking-at-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/upset-couple-talking-at-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/upset-couple-talking-at-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>13. \u201cNever take someone\u2019s feelings for granted. Because you never know how much courage they took to show it to you.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>14. \u201cDon\u2019t be mad because I don\u2019t care anymore. Be mad because I once did, and you were too blind to see.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>15. \u201cEvery time you take them for granted, you\u2019re teaching them to live without you.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>16. \u201cOnce you take me for granted, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/o-meu-ex-tem-saudades-minhas\/\">you\u2019ll miss me<\/a> when I stop doing the things I used to do for you.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>17. \u201cShe used to love his kisses, but not anymore. She had lost him, somewhere along the way, and this man was a stranger-a stranger who took her for granted.\u201d \u2013 Caroline Anderson<\/p>\n<p>18. \u201cWhen you have taken for granted the things that are important, you lose them eventually.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>19. \u201cI do not judge people at all, and I\u2019m ALWAYS here to help anyone at any time. But please don\u2019t take my help for granted.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>20. \u201cDon\u2019t take me for granted. Cause when you lose me, I won\u2019t come back.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>21. \u201cWhen you&#8217;re always there for people they stop appreciating you because your favors are now an expectation.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>22. \u201cYou don&#8217;t need to waste your time on someone who only wants you around when it fits their needs. \u201d \u2013 Rajat Dogra<\/p>\n<p>23. \u201cIf we don&#8217;t feel appreciated, we don&#8217;t feel loved.\u201d \u2013 Jonathan Lockwood Huie<\/p>\n<p>24. \u201cAs I was fighting for you, I realized I was fighting to be lied to; fighting to be taken for granted; fighting to be disappointed; and fighting to be hurt again&#8230;so I started fighting to let go.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>25. \u201cIf you take someone for granted, you don&#8217;t deserve them. Be mature enough to let them move on to someone else who knows their worth.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<h2>O veredito<\/h2>\n<p><i>Ele toma-me por garantida. Ser\u00e1 que alguma vez deixar\u00e1 de o fazer?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Se lhe disser, com as suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es e palavras, que n\u00e3o vai tolerar que ele a tome por garantida, pode esperar um dos seguintes resultados:<\/p>\n<p>a) He will continue doing so (because he doesn&#8217;t care).<\/p>\n<p>b) He&#8217;ll open his eyes and realize that he&#8217;s losing you (because he cares).<\/p>\n<p>Uma coisa \u00e9 certa: se <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ele\/inside-his-mind\/32-pequenas-coisas-que-gritam-que-ele-te-ama-sem-o-dizer-em-voz-alta\/\">ele ama-te<\/a>Se ele for atr\u00e1s de si, encontrar\u00e1 uma forma de fazer com que a rela\u00e7\u00e3o funcione. Tudo o resto \u00e9 apenas uma desculpa.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-129136\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/He-Takes-Me-For-Granted-9-Reasons-Why-And-What-To-Do-About-It-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Ele n\u00e3o me leva a s\u00e9rio: 9 raz\u00f5es para isso (e o que fazer)\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/He-Takes-Me-For-Granted-9-Reasons-Why-And-What-To-Do-About-It-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/He-Takes-Me-For-Granted-9-Reasons-Why-And-What-To-Do-About-It-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/He-Takes-Me-For-Granted-9-Reasons-Why-And-What-To-Do-About-It-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/He-Takes-Me-For-Granted-9-Reasons-Why-And-What-To-Do-About-It-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/He-Takes-Me-For-Granted-9-Reasons-Why-And-What-To-Do-About-It-pinterest-320x480.jpg 320w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/He-Takes-Me-For-Granted-9-Reasons-Why-And-What-To-Do-About-It-pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/He-Takes-Me-For-Granted-9-Reasons-Why-And-What-To-Do-About-It-pinterest-360x540.jpg 360w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/He-Takes-Me-For-Granted-9-Reasons-Why-And-What-To-Do-About-It-pinterest-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/He-Takes-Me-For-Granted-9-Reasons-Why-And-What-To-Do-About-It-pinterest-800x1200.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/He-Takes-Me-For-Granted-9-Reasons-Why-And-What-To-Do-About-It-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>He takes me for granted. Undoubtedly, this is one of the most popular sentences that have been circulating for a while now. Is he seriously taking you for granted? That\u2019s a serious accusation to make, and you shouldn\u2019t make it without the solid proof he is really doing that. Sadly, putting someone in Plan B&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":79059,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19163","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/7-Signs-Hes-Taking-You-For-Granted-And-7-Things-You-Can-Do-About-It.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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