{"id":19189,"date":"2020-06-28T13:38:29","date_gmt":"2020-06-28T13:38:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19189"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:15:48","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:15:48","slug":"5-coisas-que-fazes-acidentalmente-porque-ja-tiveste-o-coracao-partido-demasiadas-vezes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-coisas-que-fazes-acidentalmente-porque-ja-tiveste-o-coracao-partido-demasiadas-vezes\/","title":{"rendered":"5 coisas que voc\u00ea faz acidentalmente porque teve seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido muitas vezes"},"content":{"rendered":"

Todos n\u00f3s mudamos quando o nosso cora\u00e7\u00e3o fica partido, especialmente se isso acontecer mais do que uma vez. E, embora n\u00e3o o saibas, n\u00e3o \u00e9s exce\u00e7\u00e3o a esta regra.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t notice these things because they\u2019ve become a part of who you are and because these changes didn\u2019t happen overnight.<\/p>\n

But it is simple\u2014some of your behavior patterns which you may not be aware of are a direct consequence of your heartbreaks and here are 5 of them.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 negativo<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Uma das coisas que pode n\u00e3o notar que mudou em si desde que teve o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido<\/a> is that you\u2019ve become too negative.<\/p>\n

Antes de todas as desilus\u00f5es por que passou no passado, era sempre otimista e positivo em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a tudo. Mas agora isso mudou.<\/p>\n

Simplesmente espera o pior resultado em todas as situa\u00e7\u00f5es poss\u00edveis e assume sempre o pior sobre tudo e todos.<\/p>\n

Embora possa n\u00e3o o saber, este \u00e9, na verdade, o seu mecanismo de defesa.<\/p>\n

You simply had your hopes up too many times before and you always ended up disappointed so you don\u2019t allow yourself for this to happen again.<\/p>\n

You think you\u2019ll be less hurt if you expect the worst.<\/p>\n

E se algo de bom acontecer, ser\u00e1 uma surpresa positiva para si. Mas se as suas suposi\u00e7\u00f5es se concretizarem, ent\u00e3o j\u00e1 o sabia desde o in\u00edcio.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 c\u00e9tico<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Another thing that has changed about you and your world views is the fact that you\u2019ve become too skeptical and cynical, although you try to fight it.<\/p>\n

You simply don\u2019t believe in love and you secretly think that people who believe in romance and in a fairy tale kind of love are actually foolish to believe in such things.<\/p>\n

Embora fique feliz quando as pessoas \u00e0 sua volta est\u00e3o apaixonadas, a verdade \u00e9 que tem sempre um medo secreto de que elas acabem magoadas e que tenham de passar pelas mesmas coisas que voc\u00ea passou.<\/p>\n

You simply can\u2019t make yourself believe in love and your behavior and comments reveal what you really think about it.<\/p>\n

Tem problemas de confian\u00e7a com pessoas que merecem a sua confian\u00e7a<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Quando somos magoados e abandonados pelas pessoas em quem mais confi\u00e1vamos, \u00e9 natural que tenhamos confian\u00e7a e quest\u00f5es de abandono<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Estas eram as pessoas em quem pens\u00e1vamos que pod\u00edamos sempre confiar e em cujas m\u00e3os est\u00e1vamos prontos a colocar a nossa vida.<\/p>\n

Mas, no final, foram eles que lhe causaram mais dor.<\/p>\n

And after this happened, you felt like you couldn\u2019t trust anyone, let alone someone who had just walked into your life.<\/p>\n

Assim, decidiu simplesmente n\u00e3o dar a sua confian\u00e7a a ningu\u00e9m na sua vida, embora o fa\u00e7a inconscientemente e provavelmente n\u00e3o tenha consci\u00eancia de que o est\u00e1 a fazer.<\/p>\n

But what you don\u2019t know is that not every man is the same; there are guys who deserve your trust and you are keeping these guys out because of your fears.<\/p>\n

Sabota-se a si pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Embora os homens da sua vida passada a tenham magoado v\u00e1rias vezes, o que talvez n\u00e3o saiba \u00e9 que agora \u00e9 a \u00fanica que se impede de ser feliz.<\/p>\n

Isto significa que \u00e9 voc\u00ea que se est\u00e1 a sabotar a si pr\u00f3prio ao permitir que eles continuem a ter um efeito na sua vida.<\/p>\n

You do it every time you let your past demons get to you, every time you remind yourself of everything you\u2019ve been through and every time you give any significance to people who don\u2019t deserve it.<\/p>\n

But not only that\u2014you do it every time you assume the worst of people and every time you think a new guy you meet will be the same as a man from your past.<\/p>\n

Por vezes, parece rude<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

No fundo, \u00e9 uma pessoa am\u00e1vel e carinhosa rapariga com um grande cora\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Mas a vida ensinou-o a n\u00e3o mostrar isso ao mundo, porque as pessoas v\u00e3o ver isso como a sua vulnerabilidade e v\u00e3o us\u00e1-la contra si.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve figured out that you have to protect yourself so you\u2019ve built walls all around you to keep toxic people out.<\/p>\n

You simply don\u2019t open up to almost anyone and you refuse to allow new people to become a part of your life.<\/p>\n

Mas, por vezes, as pessoas que o rodeiam confundem-no com rudeza e indelicadeza. Por vezes, somos vistos como antip\u00e1ticos, embora n\u00e3o tenhamos consci\u00eancia desse facto.<\/p>\n

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We all change when our heart gets broken, especially if it happens more than once. And although you don\u2019t know it, you are no exception to this rule. You don\u2019t notice these things because they\u2019ve become a part of who you are and because these changes didn\u2019t happen overnight. But it is simple\u2014some of your…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":110287,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19189","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/5-Things-You-Accidentally-Do-Because-You-Had-Your-Heart-Broken-Too-Many-Times-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19189","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19189"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19189\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/110287"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19189"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19189"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19189"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}