A comunica\u00e7\u00e3o resolve os problemas que possa ter e, al\u00e9m disso, as conversas produtivas e longas acabam por criar uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional muito melhor entre si e o seu parceiro.<\/p>\n
It might be frustrating sometimes because your opinions might not be the same, but that doesn’t mean you two won’t get along once you dive deeper into the thought processes of each other. In fact, communication and honest conversations are the best signs you and your partner are being intimate with each other.<\/p>\n
Because of the fact that a lot of men don’t actually know what to talk about, or you simply might need some inspiration, I’m going to give you some ideas for conversations and things to talk about with your girlfriend.<\/p>\n
Elogiar-se mutuamente<\/h2>\n
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This sounds a bit off the topic, but believe me, it’s not. Talk about something productive such as complimenting your partner for doing something good or telling her that she looks really pretty today.<\/p>\n
It doesn’t have to be a long conversation but rather some way of showing her that you appreciate her and that you are aware of all the hard work she puts into the relationship.<\/p>\n
Show her that you have noticed her new dress she wore today to impress you and show her that you notice her effort. Don’t just let her think that est\u00e1 a tom\u00e1-la por garantida. <\/a><\/p>\n These may be date ideas, vacation ideas or ideas for the weekend. Any kind of planning that will give her something to look forward to. This way you can both voice your ideas, say what you’d like to do and actually turn that into action. It can help you build a better connection because you will be brainstorming about ideas for hours.<\/p>\n Also, something very important here is to visualize. Tell her to close her eyes and let her talk to you about what she wants the experience to look like. Let her talk and then you switch roles. There’s nothing more romantic than listening to your partner talking about your future.<\/p>\n Everyone likes to talk about themselves. That’s why the best solution at the end of the day is to talk about her. Ask her about her interests. Her favorite band?<\/p>\n O que \u00e9 que ela ouvia quando era crian\u00e7a? O que \u00e9 que ela achava de um determinado livro e porqu\u00ea? Onde \u00e9 que ela quer estar daqui a 10 anos?<\/p>\n Como \u00e9 que ela quer ganhar dinheiro? Alguma vez teve um momento em que se sentiu extremamente embara\u00e7ada por causa de alguma coisa?<\/p>\n These are all amazing questions you can ask a girl in order to make her feel good. She’ll believe that est\u00e1 mesmo muito interessado <\/a> in what she’s telling you.<\/p>\n The people in the life of both of you have a great impact on you. For that reason, it’s very important to talk about them. Ask her about her friends and how she met them, what do they mean to her and how can they make her a better person. Has she ever had a backstabbing friend? How did they solve their issues?<\/p>\n E quanto a as suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es anteriores <\/a> ? Bem, estas coisas talvez nem queiras saber, mas podem ajudar-te na tua rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Pode ajud\u00e1-lo a n\u00e3o cometer os mesmos erros que as pessoas antes de si cometeram, perdendo-a como resultado.<\/p>\n The thing with this topic is that you don’t really pressure her into talking about it, just ask the first question and if she’s interested in talking about it she’ll continue by herself. Don’t let it seem like you’re insecure and you want to know where the other guys screwed up.<\/p>\n Fale sobre a sua fam\u00edlia! A fam\u00edlia \u00e9 importante para ela e porqu\u00ea? E a inf\u00e2ncia dela? Os pais orgulhavam-se dela? Como \u00e9 que eles reagiram quando ela lhes disse qual era a carreira que queria seguir?<\/p>\n Quando se sentirem mais \u00e0 vontade para se abrirem um com o outro, podem passar a perguntas de n\u00edvel seguinte, como por exemplo, se os vossos pais e voc\u00eas tiveram algum problema enquanto cresciam? Se suspeitar de alguma coisa, pode perguntar-lhe gentilmente se ela sofreu algum abuso verbal ou f\u00edsico.<\/p>\n Estas perguntas s\u00e3o t\u00e3o importantes e tem a capacidade de falar sobre elas durante dias, porque h\u00e1 sempre hist\u00f3rias engra\u00e7adas para contar sobre a sua fam\u00edlia, as pequenas brigas e o quanto gosta deles. Esta torna-vos ambos vulner\u00e1veis <\/a> e d\u00e1-nos uma sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de proximidade.<\/p>\n You both have secrets. Ask her about the biggest secret she is keeping from the world. Just remember that you can’t really push it. If she wants to tell you, she’ll talk about it. But ask her about her secrets and why she’s keeping them a secret.<\/p>\n Pergunte-lhe sobre as coisas que os seus pais nunca descobriram e sobre algumas cenas embara\u00e7osas que ser\u00e3o para sempre mantidas em segredo.<\/p>\n Of course, you have to take part in this and talk about your secrets as well and also promise that you will continue on keeping her secrets just that \u2013 a secret. This way trust is formed and you are finally able to dive deeper into her soul and see what’s hiding there.<\/p>\n Everyone has their own philosophy of life and religion and they are based on things we have experienced. Because of that, it’s important to know what your partner\u2019s view of life is in order for you to understand them better and for you two to see if you’re compatible or not.<\/p>\n But let’s put that aside for a while. Ask her about what she wants to do with her life and what’s her view on life in general. Does she live every day like it’s her last or does she plan out every part of every day? Why does she live her life like that and what are her next steps to living life in a better way?<\/p>\n E quanto \u00e0 religi\u00e3o? Qual \u00e9 a sua vis\u00e3o de Deus <\/a> ? Ela acredita na vida depois da morte? Ela tinha algu\u00e9m na fam\u00edlia que era realmente religioso?<\/p>\n From whom did she learn what she knows about religion? This really is a topic on which you can talk about for hours on end and never get tired of it because it’s interesting. But again, you have to respect the opinions of each other to the point where you won’t get mad at your partner for thinking or feeling a certain way about this topic.<\/p>\n Que \u00f3timo tema para falar, n\u00e3o \u00e9? Falar sobre medos \u00e9 normalmente uma das melhores formas de se tornar \u00edntimo e conhecer melhor o seu parceiro.<\/p>\n A sua namorada deve ter aqueles pequenos medos insignificantes como aranhas e trovoadas, mas ao mesmo tempo, pergunte-lhe sobre os medos maiores. Ela tem medo da morte e porqu\u00ea? Ela tem medo de n\u00e3o saber as coisas? <\/a> ? Ela tem medo de ser vulner\u00e1vel e de se magoar?<\/p>\n Estas perguntas acertam em cheio e pode manter esta conversa durante toda a noite se for suficientemente consistente com as suas perguntas sem ser invasivo. Seja compreensivo em rela\u00e7\u00e3o aos receios dela e, se tiver o mesmo receio, troque impress\u00f5es sobre ele.<\/p>\n Afterwards, put your own opinion into the conversation and tell her about your fears and what scares you in life the most. It’ll be more interesting than you might expect.<\/p>\n Eu sei que parece um tema aborrecido, mas contar um ao outro como foi o vosso dia e sobre aquela coisa engra\u00e7ada que algu\u00e9m vos disse no trabalho \u00e9 realmente um \u00f3timo in\u00edcio de conversa. Podem contar um ao outro todos aqueles momentos engra\u00e7ados que gostariam que o vosso parceiro estivesse l\u00e1 para viver convosco.<\/p>\n If she had an argument with someone, let her tell you the whole story and don’t interrupt her. Let her tell you all the arguments she made in the fight and what was the end result. If you have space to ask questions, do so!<\/p>\n She’ll love that you’re interested and it can lead to deeper conversations. In one day, she can go through many emotions and discussing all of them and finding solutions for problems will keep you busy for a while.<\/p>\n Every person has their own passions in life and what they want to do because it makes their blood flow faster. The way people look when they’re talking about things they love really is wonderful!<\/p>\n Por essa mesma raz\u00e3o, falar sobre as suas paix\u00f5es e perguntar-lhe sobre as dela causa impacto. Ela pintava quando era pequena? Porque \u00e9 que parou? Ela gosta de dan\u00e7ar? O que \u00e9 que a apaixona tanto que deixaria o seu emprego neste preciso momento se isso significasse que poderia ganhar a vida a faz\u00ea-lo?<\/p>\n You might have things in common that you can discuss further and give each other advice on these things. You make her feel special, you let her talk and then you just add your own opinion. Believe it or not, that’s how simple conversations are, especially a conversation about your passions.<\/p>\n What makes her happy? This sounds very simple but it’s also very productive for your relationship. You can talk about what makes the other one happy and this way, you will know what to do in order to make her happy.<\/p>\n Poder\u00e1 haver pequenas coisas <\/a> como apanhar flores ou coisas grandes como a sa\u00fade das pessoas que a rodeiam. Esta pode ser a forma perfeita de apaixonar-se<\/a> with her all over again because you will see that she is human, too, and that you don’t have to do some grand gestures in order to make her the happiest person alive.<\/p>\n Um tema um pouco assustador. Muitas vezes, as pessoas sentem-se vulner\u00e1veis a falar sobre a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o com os seus parceiros de uma perspetiva diferente. E se os dois fizessem um acordo para se sentarem todos os meses e fazerem um balan\u00e7o da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/p>\n What can you do better? How can you improve certain aspects in which you’re lacking? What does the other side need that they’re not getting and so on?<\/p>\n The improvement of your relationship should be your top priority. I guess that that’s also the reason why you searched this topic and why you want to improve your communication. Communicate your differences, your wants and needs, your boundaries in relationships.<\/p>\n Desta forma, ser\u00e1 muito mais f\u00e1cil para ambos trabalharem em conjunto e descobrirem se s\u00e3o realmente compat\u00edveis ou n\u00e3o <\/a> .<\/p>\n Well, why are you wasting time with someone who doesn’t want to get married because they are afraid to commit? Or she wants to commit but you’re the one who’s afraid? How can you know this without asking?<\/p>\n You don’t have to talk about this early on in the relationship, but it is really important to talk about it at some point, so you know if you have a future together and if you have the same view on monogamous relationships and how would you want your marriage to work.<\/p>\n Os filhos s\u00e3o tamb\u00e9m um tema de conversa exatamente por causa do vosso futuro juntos. T\u00eam de saber se voc\u00eas os dois querem o mesmo. Quantos filhos \u00e9 que voc\u00eas querem?<\/p>\n If she wants kids but you, on the other hand, get frustrated every time you’re around kids and you simply don’t want a commitment like that, you have to let her know. It won’t help to try and convince her against her beliefs.<\/p>\n As conversas picantes s\u00e3o uma necessidade nas rela\u00e7\u00f5es. O sexo \u00e9 uma parte importante das vossas rela\u00e7\u00f5es <\/a> e, por isso, podemos falar de sexo de duas maneiras:<\/p>\n A primeira forma \u00e9 falar sobre como melhorar a sua vida sexual at\u00e9 \u00e0 perfei\u00e7\u00e3o e o que precisa que o seu parceiro fa\u00e7a mais (ou menos) para que sinta mais prazer.<\/p>\n Ask her if she’s satisfied and if she wants to try out new things that can help you get a better connection in bed.<\/p>\n The second way is you two talking dirty to each other. You know what I mean\u2014tell her while breathing deeply what you’d like to do to her and what turns you on about her and your sex. Talk about the way you love to touch her curves and the way her moans make you feel like a real man. This gives you both security and reassurance that what you’re doing is pleasurable to the other.<\/p>\n It’s always an interesting topic to talk about the news. There is always something happening in the world that you can research or hear on the news.<\/p>\n What are her opinions on the newest conspiracy theories? There are so many things around us that can be talked about. There is bad news that you can ask her opinion about but there is also lots of good news out there giving you the chance to talk about how you don’t appreciate the little things life gives you. Numerous possibilities. Just find a story that’s interesting to the both of you.<\/p>\n Que pa\u00edses queres visitar? Porqu\u00ea? Que prato novo queres experimentar? Falar sobre viagens \u00e9 uma das conversas mais interessantes que os dois podem ter.<\/p>\n Start a conversation on this topic and you’ll end up discussing different cultures all around the world and you will also be making plans for the future where you two will travel the whole world together.<\/p>\n Even talking about things you’d like to pack with you for certain trips could be interesting. It can get funny and awkward, but you’ll get a better insight into your partner and she into you.<\/p>\n If she is willing to live out of a backpack for months of traveling, you know that she’s open minded for new things and so on. It’s just so easy to get to know a person better when you’re talking about traveling.<\/p>\n Gossiping isn’t that bad at all. It’s a great conversation starter and it can go on forever because there is always something to say about someone else.<\/p>\n This doesn’t have to mean that gossip should be bad, but rather that you talk about the behaviors of your friends around you and other couples. You can always learn from them or at least get a solid laugh. Ask her about her work and colleagues \u2013 she’ll have a lot to say, believe me.<\/p>\n Work-related things don’t always mean gossip. It can be a conversation about a new project she’s working on and maybe you can give her some advice on how to better handle the team she’s working with. You can also ask her for her opinion on some problems you’re facing at work.<\/p>\n I know that it’s not emotional talk and it’s not something that you would consider to be romantic, but it lets you both know that you are able to look outside the box and that you are willing to help each other in every aspect of your lives.<\/p>\n Assim, poder\u00e3o ver se, um dia, talvez possam trabalhar juntos. Talvez at\u00e9 come\u00e7ar algo por conta pr\u00f3pria? Quem sabe?<\/p>\n OK, here comes the serious stuff. Talking about your inner emotions, especially with your partner is frightening. It’s making you vulnerable and the whole new level of intimacy is creeping you out. I get it! I get it all. But it’s not a reason why you should avoid this conversation.<\/p>\n If you are angry, try to articulate your feelings\u2014what triggered your emotions and how she can help you feel better.<\/p>\n Also, if you see that she’s been going through some problems and that she feels sad, depressed or anxious, ask her all the questions that are needed for her to open up to you. What caused her feelings? How is she dealing with them?<\/p>\n Can you help her? Women really do want you to continue on asking them questions even after they\u2019ve told you, \u201cI’m fine\u201d. She is not fine! Go and figure out what’s wrong!<\/p>\n N\u00e3o se deve ir com a inten\u00e7\u00e3o de melhorar a situa\u00e7\u00e3o, porque n\u00e3o existem emo\u00e7\u00f5es boas ou m\u00e1s. As emo\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o apenas certas formas de reagir \u00e0s situa\u00e7\u00f5es para que o corpo volte a ser o seu eu natural.<\/b> Just help her by being interested in her emotions. Take part in it and don’t let her feel like she’s alone in situations where she needs you desperately.<\/p>\n Not a pleasant topic to talk about, but at least it’s better than yelling at each other. If you have had a fight recently, try talking about it. It’s extremely important for your relationship to talk about your arguments, fights and conflicts. It lets you make an overview that can help you in your relationship.<\/p>\n When the fight is actually happening, there is usually not much space to talk things through to the core because you’re both very confused.<\/p>\n The adrenalin is causing you to have clouded thoughts and it doesn’t let you think rationally. So now, sit down and talk things through like adults. Find a way to solve arguments productively\u2014in a way where both of you can be happy. There are so many things you can do better if you just talk about them.<\/p>\n I am not even joking about this one. I am genuinely telling you to talk with your girlfriend about cooking. Even if you’re not a good cook yourself, talk about different spices, what brands are the best for certain dishes and so on. This is for the pleasure of the both of you.<\/p>\n Podem cozinhar juntos como um trabalho de equipa para fortalecer a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e transform\u00e1-la em algo maravilhoso e especial.<\/p>\n Cozinhar \u00e9 tamb\u00e9m a melhor forma de nos aperfei\u00e7oarmos e de aprendermos a ouvir as cr\u00edticas. E enquanto fazem tudo isso, ficam com a barriga cheia de coisas fant\u00e1sticas que cozinharam juntos. N\u00e3o h\u00e1 desvantagens em falar sobre comida e cozinhar.<\/p>\n Isto pode ser ainda mais importante do que as coisas que enumerei acima.<\/p>\n You see, people think that they don’t have anything to say at all or that what they’re talking about is going to bore the hell out of someone else. <\/b><\/p>\n Don’t think that way!<\/b> You have been given the amazing opportunity to talk with someone you love and you enjoy talking with her. Do not be fooled that you don’t have something interesting to say or an interesting story to tell. Just give yourself space and all of your words will come out easily.<\/p>\n Ouvir!<\/b> A chave para uma boa comunica\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 ouvir ativamente. Quando se ouve, sabe-se exatamente em que altura se pode perguntar uma nova pergunta <\/a> to continue the conversation and you will also know what to ask. Knowing what to ask is crucial because she might be upset with you because you’re repeating a question she already answered and that by itself is a conversation killer. You simply have to listen and hear what she’s telling you.<\/p>\n Remember what she’s telling you.<\/b> This goes together with listening. By remembering what she told you before, it will be easier to find a way to continue the conversation. If she’s talking about something, you can connect it with something from the past that she was telling you about. By doing this, you will not only help the conversation but also make her think that she’s important enough to you that you remember what she was telling you.<\/p>\nIdeias para datas<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nFalar sobre ela<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nAs pessoas da sua vida<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nSegredos<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nVis\u00e3o sobre a vida e a religi\u00e3o<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nMedos<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nO dia<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nPaix\u00f5es<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nFelicidade<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nA sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nCasamento e filhos<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nSexo<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nA not\u00edcia<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nViajar<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nFofocas<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nTrabalho<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nSentimentos interiores<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nConflitos<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nCozinhar<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nComo nunca ficar sem temas para falar<\/h2>\n
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