{"id":19229,"date":"2020-08-29T12:41:58","date_gmt":"2020-08-29T12:41:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19229"},"modified":"2021-12-20T18:16:50","modified_gmt":"2021-12-20T18:16:50","slug":"se-ele-fizer-estas-5-coisas-tem-de-elevar-os-seus-padroes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-ele-fizer-estas-5-coisas-tem-de-elevar-os-seus-padroes\/","title":{"rendered":"Se ele faz estas 5 coisas, tens de elevar os teus padr\u00f5es"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c9 muito comum n\u00e3o conseguirmos ver de forma realista a nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e a pessoa que est\u00e1 ao nosso lado quando nos apaixonamos por ela como loucos.<\/p>\n

Apesar de haver algumas coisas que \u00e9 preciso comprometer na rela\u00e7\u00e3o, h\u00e1 tamb\u00e9m algumas que nunca se deve permitir tolerar, por muito profundo que seja o seu amor por um homem.<\/p>\n

But sometimes, you simply forget about these things and you allow yourself to lower your standards and to settle for less for a guy who doesn\u2019t deserve it.<\/p>\n

Here are 5 of your boyfriend\u2019s behavior patterns that you shouldn\u2019t tolerate and which show you it\u2019s about time you raise your standards.<\/p>\n

Ele compara-a com outras raparigas<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Se estiver numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1vel<\/a> com algu\u00e9m, devem fazer-se sentir especiais um ao outro.<\/p>\n

Isso significa que o seu namorado precisa de a tratar como \u00fanica e que voc\u00ea precisa de ser a \u00fanica rapariga na vida dele.<\/p>\n

Por outro lado, se ele a faz sentir que n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficiente para ele e se a compara com outras raparigas, bem, \u00e9 \u00f3bvio que tem um problema.<\/p>\n

I am not talking about cheating here only, because that is something that shouldn\u2019t even be discussed and that should always be off limits.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not even saying that you should forbid him from talking to any other female besides you or to look at you only.<\/p>\n

Por muito que odiemos admiti-lo, um homem pode achar outra rapariga atraente mesmo que a ame profundamente.<\/p>\n

But this doesn\u2019t mean it is OK for him to text other girls, to flirt with them or to stare at them while you are sitting next to him.<\/p>\n

Remember\u2014if he is the homem certo<\/a>Ele faz-nos sempre sentir como se f\u00f4ssemos a \u00fanica rapariga na sala.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t answer your texts or calls<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Mesmo quando estamos numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, todos n\u00f3s precisamos de algum tempo sem o nosso parceiro e de algum tempo a s\u00f3s.<\/p>\n

Just because this guy is your boyfriend, it doesn\u2019t mean you and him should spend every moment apart texting each other or talking on the phone.<\/p>\n

Mas uma das alturas em que deves elevar os teus padr\u00f5es \u00e9 quando o est\u00e1s a aturar ignorar as suas mensagens<\/a> ou chamadas durante a maior parte do dia.<\/p>\n

When you call or text him, he never answers instantly and that shows the harsh truth that he doesn\u2019t think of you as often as you think of him.<\/p>\n

Besides, it makes you feel like you are the only one going after him and you feel desperate by constantly texting him and waiting anxiously for him to respond and those are the things you shouldn\u2019t feel in a healthy relationship.<\/p>\n

Ele est\u00e1 sempre demasiado ocupado para si<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

When you are in a relationship, it doesn\u2019t mean that you and your boyfriend are not allowed to have a life outside of it.<\/p>\n

Ambos eram indiv\u00edduos antes desta rela\u00e7\u00e3o, com as suas fam\u00edlias e amigos, e isso deve manter-se assim durante a rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

But it also doesn\u2019t mean that it is OK for your boyfriend never to dedicate any of his time to you. I<\/p>\n

Se este homem est\u00e1 sempre demasiado ocupado para estar consigo ou apenas para falar consigo, \u00e9 evidente que os seus sentimentos por si n\u00e3o s\u00e3o muito fortes e que deve elevar os seus padr\u00f5es.<\/a><\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t respect you<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

O respeito \u00e9, sem d\u00favida, um dos alicerces de qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel e o desrespeito deve ser um importante fator de desrespeito para todos.<\/p>\n

Infelizmente, muitas mulheres pensam que o seu homem as pode amar sem lhes dar o seu total respeito, o que est\u00e1 longe de ser correto.<\/p>\n

Therefore, if your partner disrespects you in any way, you should definitely reconsider your relationship with him and it shows you it\u2019s time for you to raise your standards when it comes to dating.<\/p>\n

This means that you shouldn\u2019t put up with him manipulating you, abusing you in any way, belittling you or trying to put you beneath him.<\/p>\n

Voc\u00eas os dois s\u00e3o parceiros iguais e ele tem de a tratar apenas dessa forma. Tudo o resto \u00e9 inaceit\u00e1vel, porque tu sabes o teu valor e ele tamb\u00e9m o deve saber.<\/p>\n

Tem consci\u00eancia de que ele a est\u00e1 a usar apenas para sexo<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada de errado no facto de a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o com algu\u00e9m se basear apenas no sexo, desde que ambos os parceiros estejam cientes desse acordo e desde que seja isso que ambos querem.<\/p>\n

Mas a situa\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 completamente diferente se formos n\u00f3s a ser enganados e a pensar que estamos numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o verdadeira, enquanto ele s\u00f3 quer sexo.<\/a><\/p>\n

Se esta \u00e9 uma situa\u00e7\u00e3o na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o e est\u00e1 ciente dela, tem de elevar os seus padr\u00f5es porque este homem est\u00e1 claramente a aproveitar-se de si.<\/p>\n

He is never around when you need him and he doesn\u2019t give you any real attention but he only calls you at night to hang out at your place or his.<\/p>\n

It is clear what his intentions are and it\u2019s clear that the two of you don\u2019t want the same things.<\/p>\n

Therefore, it\u2019s time to raise your standards without hoping that you\u2019ll make him reconsider his behavior toward you and to walk away from someone who clearly doesn\u2019t deserve you.<\/p>\n

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