{"id":19232,"date":"2018-05-29T12:45:48","date_gmt":"2018-05-29T12:45:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19232"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:21:19","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:21:19","slug":"nao-namore-com-ele-se-espera-muda-lo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-namore-com-ele-se-espera-muda-lo\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o namores com ele se esperas mud\u00e1-lo"},"content":{"rendered":"

H\u00e1 um rapaz que conheceu mas n\u00e3o sabe o que pensar dele e da sua potencial rela\u00e7\u00e3o com ele. <\/span><\/p>\n

Let\u2019s get one thing straight<\/span>\u2014<\/span>you don\u2019t have any doubts about your feelings for this man. You like him very much and you are even falling in love with him hard.<\/span><\/p>\n

This guy gives you butterflies you haven\u2019t felt in a long time and you feel like you can\u2019t keep your hands off him. But you also know that this is more than passion and <\/span>atra\u00e7\u00e3o f\u00edsica<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sim, este homem atrai-a sexualmente, mas h\u00e1 algo mais entre voc\u00eas os dois. Tamb\u00e9m se sente atra\u00edda pelo c\u00e9rebro dele e ele provocou diferentes emo\u00e7\u00f5es dentro de si.<\/span><\/p>\n

Therefore, you\u2019ve caught yourself picturing a serious relationship with this guy and planning a life with him.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mas, por outro lado, tamb\u00e9m est\u00e1 preocupada. Embora tenha sentimentos fortes por este rapaz, est\u00e1 consciente das coisas que a rodeiam e pode encarar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o com ele de forma realista. <\/span><\/p>\n

You know that you and this man are quite different and you can see some of his personality traits and behavior patterns that you don\u2019t like. <\/b><\/p>\n

Although you know that you both have your flaws and you don\u2019t expect to have a perfect boyfriend because you don\u2019t think of yourself as perfect either, there are still some things about this guy that you don\u2019t know if you can accept or if you\u2019ll ever be able to accept.<\/b><\/p>\n

You are simply afraid that the two of you won\u2019t get along and that you are not compatible, as much as you don\u2019t want that to be.<\/b><\/p>\n

Por vezes, pensamos que s\u00f3 devemos ouvir o nosso cora\u00e7\u00e3o e que devemos ignorar esses pensamentos e simplesmente seguir o fluxo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Apesar de estar sempre do lado do amor e de tamb\u00e9m a aconselhar a ouvir o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o, tenho de lhe dizer para ter tamb\u00e9m em conta estes pensamentos que lhe passam pela cabe\u00e7a e para reconsiderar tudo sobre este homem e a sua potencial rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n

The truth is that, in general, people don\u2019t change. Even when they do, they do it for their own reasons and only because they think it\u2019s the right thing to do. I know many women hope to change the man by their side but the harsh truth is that they rarely succeed in doing so.<\/b><\/p>\n

So please, don\u2019t be one of those women because you\u2019ll fail and you\u2019ll only end up hurt. Don\u2019t try to change this man because that will only bring dissatisfaction to your relationship and it will make both of you feel miserable. <\/span><\/p>\n

You will be disappointed for not succeeding and because sooner or later, you\u2019ll see that you are fighting with the windmills. On the other hand, it is probable that <\/span>ele tem sentimentos fortes por si<\/span><\/a> e ele pode esfor\u00e7ar-se por se adaptar aos seus padr\u00f5es e mudar os seus h\u00e1bitos. <\/span><\/p>\n

But he will lose his true self in the process of trying to make you happy. And ironically, this won\u2019t make either of you happy. Instead, it will just ruin both of you individually and it will ruin any chance of you two having a successful relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

Em vez de tentar mud\u00e1-lo, decida se consegue aceit\u00e1-lo como ele \u00e9 realmente. Porque se amar verdadeiramente um homem, aceitar\u00e1 todos os seus defeitos e imperfei\u00e7\u00f5es, bem como os seus aspectos positivos. <\/span><\/p>\n

Com isto, n\u00e3o est\u00e1 apenas a mostrar-lhe o seu amor, est\u00e1 tamb\u00e9m a mostrar que respeita a sua integridade e que o respeita como homem e como indiv\u00edduo. Esta \u00e9 a \u00fanica forma de lhe dar a oportunidade de ser ele pr\u00f3prio \u00e0 sua volta e isso ir\u00e1 <\/span>fazer com que ele se apaixone por si como um louco<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

I am not saying that you should put up with all the bullshit he puts you through. On the contrary, I am just telling you to make up your mind before involving yourself in anything serious. I am telling you to reach your decision without planning on changing him in the future or without realizing you can\u2019t accept him after all.  <\/span> <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

There is this guy you\u2019ve met but you don\u2019t know what to think of him and of your potential relationship with him. Let\u2019s get one thing straight\u2014you don\u2019t have any doubts about your feelings for this man. You like him very much and you are even falling in love with him hard. This guy gives…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":19233,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19232","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/freddie-marriage-151597-unsplash.jpg",800,476,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19232","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19232"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19232\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19233"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19232"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19232"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19232"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}