{"id":19238,"date":"2018-05-30T06:25:01","date_gmt":"2018-05-30T06:25:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19238"},"modified":"2022-03-01T22:42:37","modified_gmt":"2022-03-01T22:42:37","slug":"esta-na-altura-de-te-recompores-porque-ela-nao-vai-esperar-muito-mais-tempo-por-ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/esta-na-altura-de-te-recompores-porque-ela-nao-vai-esperar-muito-mais-tempo-por-ti\/","title":{"rendered":"Est\u00e1 na hora de se organizar, porque ela n\u00e3o vai esperar muito mais tempo por si"},"content":{"rendered":"

I know you\u2019ve gotten used to this girl. And when I say you\u2019ve gotten used to her, I don\u2019t mean you just got used to her presence in your life. No\u2014you\u2019ve gotten used to everything she\u2019s been giving you and I am not referring to her body here.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve gotten used to this girl loving you, without you loving her back the way you should.<\/p>\n

Habituaste-te a que ela estivesse sempre l\u00e1 para ti, a ter o seu apoio e lealdade, acontecesse o que acontecesse.<\/p>\n

Sempre soubeste que esta rapariga era algu\u00e9m em quem podias confiar, mesmo que todos os outros te virassem as costas.<\/p>\n

Sabias que ela era a \u00fanica que torcia por ti, independentemente do que fizesses, a \u00fanica que desfrutava honestamente de todos os teus sucessos e a \u00fanica que partilhava toda a tua dor.<\/p>\n

Este foi o \u00fanico girl who couldn\u2019t be happy<\/a> quando estavas triste e que tentava sempre fazer-te sorrir.<\/p>\n

Sabias que ela tinha sido a \u00fanica pessoa neste mundo que te amou incondicionalmente, mesmo quando menos o merecias.<\/p>\n

O \u00fanico que acreditou em ti, quando mais ningu\u00e9m acreditou e mesmo quando deixaste de acreditar em ti.<\/p>\n

Mas em vez de apreciar isso, usou-a.<\/strong> Utilizou o amor dela por si e o facto de ela ser ing\u00e9nua e sens\u00edvel.<\/p>\n

Sabias muito bem que ela sempre teve um ponto fraco por ti e que eras a \u00fanica pessoa neste mundo que ela nunca poderia recusar e aproveitaste-te muito bem disso.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve been giving her only crumbs of your love and attention\u2014just enough to keep her around.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 a primeira pessoa a quem se liga quando se est\u00e1 em apuros, quando se precisa de um ombro para chorar, quando se precisa de conselhos ou orienta\u00e7\u00e3o ou simplesmente quando se precisa de falar com algu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

And you\u2019ve gotten used to her always being there, so with time, you\u2019ve started taking her for granted, assuming that you didn\u2019t have to put any effort into your relationship, that you didn\u2019t have to give her any love or appreciation and that she would stay by your side, despite your treatment.\"Est\u00e1<\/strong><\/p>\n

Well, guess what? She won\u2019t.<\/strong> Chegar\u00e1 um momento em que esta rapariga vai v\u00ea-lo como realmente \u00e9<\/strong>\u2014an egocentric, idiota ego\u00edsta<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Chegar\u00e1 uma altura em que essa rapariga deixar\u00e1 de o ver como um rapaz vulner\u00e1vel e perdido que precisa da m\u00e3o dela para se aguentar na vida.<\/p>\n

Ela ver\u00e1 as suas verdadeiras cores e ficar\u00e1 farta.<\/p>\n

E ao mesmo tempo, ela ver-se-\u00e1 a si pr\u00f3pria como realmente \u00e9.<\/strong> She will finally see her worth and she will realize you don\u2019t deserve her time, patience, efforts or energy.<\/p>\n

She will finally realize you don\u2019t deserve the love she has been giving you and that you don\u2019t deserve her.<\/p>\n

And that is when she\u2019ll walk away from you.<\/p>\n

That is when it will be too late to do anything because she\u2019ll grow tired of you and the way you\u2019ve been treating her.<\/p>\n

And that is when you\u2019ll realize what you have done and what you have lost. But there won\u2019t be anything you can do about it.<\/p>\n

Because when she finally realizes everything, she won\u2019t be able to look at you the same ever again.
\nSo please do something before it\u2019s too late.<\/p>\n

Because she won\u2019t wait forever for you to come to your senses. She won\u2019t wait for you to start appreciating her and all of her efforts and sacrifices.<\/p>\n

She won\u2019t wait much longer for you to start loving and treating her the way she deserves.<\/p>\n

I know you are certain that she will but trust me, this girl won\u2019t waste her entire life on a guy who never gives her anything in return.<\/p>\n

Please get your shit together before it\u2019s too late. Deep down, you know very well that this is the kind of woman you meet once in a lifetime.<\/p>\n

Sabes muito bem que nunca ningu\u00e9m te amar\u00e1 como ela te ama e sabes muito bem que nunca ningu\u00e9m te tratar\u00e1 como ela te tem tratado.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t wait a second longer\u2014change your behavior now. Because you\u2019ll spend the rest of your life regretting your choice if you don\u2019t make the right one now.\"Est\u00e1<\/strong> <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I know you\u2019ve gotten used to this girl. And when I say you\u2019ve gotten used to her, I don\u2019t mean you just got used to her presence in your life. No\u2014you\u2019ve gotten used to everything she\u2019s been giving you and I am not referring to her body here. You\u2019ve gotten used to this girl loving…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":19239,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19238","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/hanna.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19238","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19238"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19238\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19239"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19238"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19238"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19238"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}