{"id":19241,"date":"2018-05-30T06:37:25","date_gmt":"2018-05-30T06:37:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19241"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:20:26","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:20:26","slug":"para-a-minha-mae-solteira-tu-es-mais-do-que-suficiente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/para-a-minha-mae-solteira-tu-es-mais-do-que-suficiente\/","title":{"rendered":"Para a minha m\u00e3e solteira: Tu \u00e9s mais do que suficiente!"},"content":{"rendered":"

Querida m\u00e3e,<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

This letter is just a reminder of how much I love you and how much I am grateful to have you in my life. If it wasn\u2019t for you, I would never have become the person I am today.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why I just want to say: \u201cThank you!\u201d<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Obrigado por estares l\u00e1 para mim quando mais precisei de ti, obrigado por ouvires os meus problemas, por seres o meu telefonema noturno, por me dares conselhos e por estares sempre ao meu lado. Sei que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 palavras que possam mostrar o quanto estou grata por te ter aqui, mas espero que, depois de leres esta carta, te apercebas de que fizeste um trabalho fant\u00e1stico sozinha.<\/p>\n

Sei que puseste a tua vida em standby s\u00f3 para te concentrares em mim e que o \u00fanico tempo livre que tinhas entre dois empregos e levar-me \u00e0 escola era o tempo em que ias \u00e0 casa de banho chorar porque era muito dif\u00edcil passar por tudo aquilo sozinho. E tamb\u00e9m sei que nunca quiseste que eu soubesse dos teus problemas e por isso os escondias. Mas mesmo quando eu era pequena, sentia a falta de paz e sabia que sofrias e que travavas as tuas pr\u00f3prias batalhas todos os dias.<\/p>\n

Tamb\u00e9m sei que nunca quiseste gritar comigo, mas era t\u00e3o dif\u00edcil tomar conta de mim e ter imensas obriga\u00e7\u00f5es e, ao mesmo tempo, estar descontra\u00eddo. Agora percebo que todo o teu mundo era a desmoronar-se<\/a> while I was just a small girl screaming to get that toy from the store that you couldn\u2019t buy for me.<\/p>\n

Now, I understand why we ordered food so many times. It is because you didn’t have time to cook because you had two jobs so you could provide me with everything I needed. And it wasn\u2019t important to me if you cooked something or not, it was important that we were together.<\/p>\n

I know it was hard for you to go on this trip alone but now that I am an adult you can see that you did a great job. You raised a daughter with a clean and pure heart just like you have and the one who will always stand up for herself. Your advice and love will always be a part of me, so Mom, don\u2019t ever think that you weren\u2019t enough.<\/p>\n

Tu \u00e9s suficiente! <\/strong><\/em>
\nTu \u00e9s digno!<\/strong><\/em>
\nTu \u00e9s importante!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to try anymore because you already gave me all that I ever needed. Of course, I sometimes missed Dad but your love and affection always made me feel that I had more love than those kids with both parents living with them.<\/p>\n

Tu \u00e9s suficiente, o que significa que me deste tudo o que uma pessoa adulta precisa para estar satisfeita e feliz e, por isso, nunca te poderei agradecer o suficiente.<\/p>\n

\u00c9s mais do que suficiente porque sempre foste um bom ouvinte, um amigo honesto<\/a>A minha m\u00e3e era uma boa companheira e o meu di\u00e1rio humano. Podia contar-te tudo o que me incomodava e, com apenas uma frase e um abra\u00e7o, todos os meus pesadelos desapareciam. Foste sempre a minha rocha, m\u00e3e, e ser\u00e1s sempre.<\/p>\n

So please don\u2019t think that you failed because the situation with my dad didn\u2019t happen as you planned. Don\u2019t think that you are not enough because you ended a love relationship and stayed with me only. You chose right. If there isn\u2019t love, there is nothing else to do there. So walking away was the perfect decision and I am so proud of you and your strength to do that. Just remember that your imperfections and your problems don\u2019t reflect your worth. Don\u2019t think that you are weak because you walked away because that doesn\u2019t make you weak at all. That just means that you were too strong for too long.<\/p>\n

I know that you had a crazy and challenging phase in your life and I know that it wasn’t easy for you to handle all the problems alone. But in the end, you made it and that\u2019s why you are more than enough.<\/p>\n

Foste suficiente, \u00e9s suficiente e nunca deixar\u00e1s de ser suficiente. Sei que sentiste isso cada vez que te estendi as m\u00e3os para me levantares. Sei que sentiste que eras suficiente cada vez que te olhava com os meus grandes olhos, mostrando-te que eras tudo o que eu precisava e que n\u00e3o havia mulher mais perfeita do que tu.<\/p>\n

Sempre foste a pessoa perfeita para mim e sempre ser\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

M\u00e3e, quero que saibas que \u00e9s mais do que suficiente.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

And I am begging you, don\u2019t you ever forget that!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Com amor,<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

A tua filha.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Dear Mom, This letter is just a reminder of how much I love you and how much I am grateful to have you in my life. If it wasn\u2019t for you, I would never have become the person I am today. That\u2019s why I just want to say: \u201cThank you!\u201d Thank you for being there…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":19242,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29624],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19241","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-friends-and-family"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29624,"label":"friends&family"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/jon-flobrant-38755-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29624,"name":"friends&family","slug":"friends-and-family","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29624,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Do you want to improve your relationship with friends and family? Following these tips will help you boost your connection with your favorite people.","parent":29620,"count":316,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29624,"category_count":316,"category_description":"Do you want to improve your relationship with friends and family? Following these tips will help you boost your connection with your favorite people.","cat_name":"friends&family","category_nicename":"friends-and-family","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19241","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19241"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19241\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19242"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19241"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19241"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19241"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}