{"id":19254,"date":"2019-12-10T07:17:06","date_gmt":"2019-12-10T07:17:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19254"},"modified":"2022-01-17T22:54:32","modified_gmt":"2022-01-17T22:54:32","slug":"ja-nao-te-quer-de-volta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ja-nao-te-quer-de-volta\/","title":{"rendered":"Ela j\u00e1 n\u00e3o te quer de volta"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>N\u00e3o fazes ideia de quanto tempo ela esteve \u00e0 espera que isto acontecesse. N\u00e3o fazes ideia de quanto tempo ela esperou para dizer estas palavras libertadoras. N\u00e3o fazes ideia de como ela se sente livre agora.<\/p>\n<p>Finalmente, ela j\u00e1 n\u00e3o o quer de volta.<\/p>\n<p>For too long, she&#8217;s been unable to get you out of her system. For too long, she&#8217;s been recalling your old times and she&#8217;s been missing your presence.<\/p>\n<p>She missed you so much. She missed it as if what you had wasn\u2019t painful.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s funny how a heart can be deceiving. It just reminds us of the pretty memories as if it was trying to convince us that the bad days never existed. But she knows they did. The cracks on her mind, soul, and heart remind her of that constantly.<\/p>\n<p>But she&#8217;s learned to live with it by now.<\/p>\n<p><strong>She&#8217;s managed to break free from the chains of your <em>amor<\/em>esse amor t\u00f3xico que tu deste.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Eu digo <em>amor<\/em> as if you know what it is. A man who knows love wouldn\u2019t have hurt her so much. A man who knows love wouldn\u2019t grow pain wherever he went. No, you don\u2019t know love, but you\u2019ve played it as if you did so well.<\/p>\n<p>Merece um aplauso pela pe\u00e7a que fez t\u00e3o bem. Nem por um segundo ela duvidou dos teus sentimentos. Nem por um segundo ela foi capaz de prever o desgosto que a esperava. Conseguiste engan\u00e1-la t\u00e3o bem que ela acabou por ser um mero fantoche nas tuas m\u00e3os.<\/p>\n<p>Mas tudo tem um fim e, por isso, chegou o fim dos vossos jogos de manipula\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p><strong>She&#8217;s finally letting you go.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>She&#8217;s finally freeing herself from this idea that you\u2019re the one for her. You\u2019re not.<\/p>\n<p>She&#8217;s letting life carry her to a new place. She believes from this point on, things are going to be better because sh&#8217;s already been through the worst.<\/p>\n<p>Holding on means trying to push life where she wants it to be, thinking she can change the circumstances when in fact, she&#8217;s unable to change anything. Your story is what it is. And it&#8217;s never gonna be more than that no matter what she does.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re never gonna change no matter how much she loves you. You\u2019re never gonna love her the way she deserves to be loved because all you know is how to hurt people and she&#8217;s done sacrificing her sanity just because she loves you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>She&#8217;s ready to accept you as you are.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Just mere passengers in each other\u2019s lives.<\/p>\n<p>Amor infeliz.<\/p>\n<p>Um atormentador e uma v\u00edtima.<\/p>\n<p>You &#8211; an <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/reconhecer-um-homem-emocionalmente-imaturo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">homem imaturo<\/a> who wanted to be put on a pedestal and worshipped and her- a girl who needed so much to love and who wanted to be loved so badly that she got blinded by the smallest affection. Lethal combination, don\u2019t you think?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Mas, como eu disse antes, tudo tem um fim e eu estava a falar a s\u00e9rio.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When you walked away, that\u2019s not when you two ended. Because she couldn&#8217;t let it go. She wanted you back so badly. She knew it was unhealthy and she knew you made her feel miserable more than you made her feel happy and yet, she missed your presence. She wanted you just to be near her no matter how much it hurt. But she outgrew her emotions and she stopped being toxic for herself.<\/p>\n<p>She&#8217;s replaced all the venom you imprinted on her with pure fresh blood and this new version of her doesn\u2019t want to have anything with you anymore.<\/p>\n<p>Now she sees clearly that although she thought you brought her a lot of love, all those happy moments were replaced by the pain you\u2019ve put her through. She had to pay for them somehow, someway. For a moment of happiness, she needed to live days of misery. And this isn\u2019t something she&#8217;d wish even for her worst enemy.<\/p>\n<p>But don\u2019t worry, she&#8217;s <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/how-to-stop-obsessing-over-someone\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">deixou de estar obcecado por ti<\/a>. She&#8217;s done with loving you. She&#8217;s done with believing that there is something wrong with her or that she&#8217;s not good enough when it\u2019s you who\u2019s bad from head to toe.<\/p>\n<p>Even though she thought this day won&#8217;t ever come&#8230; it did. She doesn&#8217;t want you back. She&#8217;s ready to leave you in the past and never look back. Because that&#8217;s where you belong.<\/p>\n<p><em>Au revoir.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-49535\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/triesosam-33-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Ela j\u00e1 n\u00e3o te quer de volta\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/triesosam-33-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/triesosam-33-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/triesosam-33.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You have no idea how long she\u2019s been waiting for this to happen. You have no idea how long she\u2019s waited to say these liberating words. You have no idea how free she feels now. Finally, she no longer wants you back. For too long, she&#8217;s been unable to get you out of her system&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":39,"featured_media":19255,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19254","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/sonnie-hiles-674739-unsplash-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Owen Scott","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/hase\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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