{"id":19264,"date":"2019-05-30T08:44:34","date_gmt":"2019-05-30T08:44:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19264"},"modified":"2021-11-03T14:21:38","modified_gmt":"2021-11-03T14:21:38","slug":"8-regras-que-tem-absolutamente-de-seguir-se-quiser-manter-uma-relacao-duradoura","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/8-regras-que-tem-absolutamente-de-seguir-se-quiser-manter-uma-relacao-duradoura\/","title":{"rendered":"8 regras que tens absolutamente de seguir se quiseres manter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o a longo prazo"},"content":{"rendered":"

O ditado \"sem dor n\u00e3o h\u00e1 ganho\" \u00e9 realmente perfeito para esta situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\r\n

You can love each other to the moon and back but if you don\u2019t work on your relationship non-stop, it will fail and you don\u2019t want that.<\/p>\r\n

Infelizmente, o amor, por si s\u00f3, nem sempre \u00e9 suficiente para tornar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o duradoura. Por vezes, s\u00e3o necess\u00e1rios truques que a mantenham viva, coisas que a mantenham interessante.<\/p>\r\n

It\u2019s easy to be stuck in a rut and when people feel that way, they become depressed and disappointed.<\/p>\r\n

After that stage passes, resentment and anger come along. You start literally hating the person you\u2019re with because nothing is going on in your rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n

Everything is the same and you can\u2019t handle it anymore.<\/p>\r\n

Para evitar que isso aconte\u00e7a, \u00e9 preciso agir com firmeza e lutar pela pessoa que se ama.<\/p>\r\n

Seguindo estas regras essenciais e conselhos sobre rela\u00e7\u00f5es <\/a>ajudar\u00e1 a vossa uni\u00e3o a durar muito mais tempo do que normalmente duraria.<\/p>\r\n

1. Admitir que est\u00e1 errado\"8<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

You\u2019re in this together and there is no point in being selfish and not admitting when you made a mistake because in that way you\u2019re only doing wrong to yourself and your relationship.<\/p>\r\n

You\u2019re not going to accomplish anything if you keep acting like you can\u2019t make a mistake.<\/p>\r\n

Seja uma pessoa respons\u00e1vel e mantenha-se fiel ao que fez. O seu parceiro respeit\u00e1-la-\u00e1 mais e encoraj\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 a fazer o mesmo.<\/p>\r\n

2. Varre-o para fora dos seus p\u00e9s\"8<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

If you are in a relationship, it doesn\u2019t have to mean that you don\u2019t have to care about the way you look anymore.<\/p>\r\n

Continue a cuidar do seu corpo, primeiro para si e depois para o seu parceiro. Fa\u00e7a com que ele a deseje sempre que a vir.<\/p>\r\n

Se continuar a tentar, ele nunca procurar\u00e1 outro lugar para se sentir amado e apreciado.<\/p>\r\n

3. Encontrar um s\u00edtio de que ambos gostem\"8<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

Ser\u00e1 o vosso lugar especial. Pode ser qualquer coisa. Pode ser o seu sof\u00e1, pode ser a relva de um parque debaixo de uma \u00e1rvore ou pode ser um caf\u00e9 na sua rua.<\/p>\r\n

Just find something that is yours, where you enjoy life and feel like you\u2019re on top of the world.<\/p>\r\n

\u00c9 l\u00e1 que vamos quando queremos relaxar e sentirmo-nos um ao outro.<\/p>\r\n

It\u2019s a place that\u2019s perfect for some peace and quiet that you both need to gather your thoughts and enjoy each other\u2019s company.<\/p>\r\n

4. Passem todas as datas importantes juntos\"8<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

You\u2019re like a family now and you should start celebrating special holidays together.<\/p>\r\n

Don\u2019t ignore your families but if you can, take your partner to your parents\u2019 house for lunch or if you can\u2019t then devote at least some of your time to him on such a day so he doesn\u2019t feel left out.<\/p>\r\n

He should do the same for you. Not to mention anniversaries, those are your special days and you should always be together, if that\u2019s possible.<\/p>\r\n

5. Planear datas\"8<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

It\u2019s like you just met. You deserve to go out for dinner or to the movies.<\/p>\r\n

A vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o merece um pouco de mimo de vez em quando, s\u00f3 para vos lembrar que escolheram estar juntos e porque decidiram passar todo esse tempo juntos.<\/p>\r\n

Por vezes, as pessoas esquecem-se de como acabaram numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e porqu\u00ea.<\/p>\r\n

So it won\u2019t hurt to remind yourself of the times when you just started and enjoyed the honeymoon phase in total infatuation because after some time, that slowly fades away.<\/p>\r\n

6. Encontrar um interesse comum\"8<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

Encontre um passatempo, algo que se torne um ritual.<\/p>\r\n

Algo de que ambos gostem e que fa\u00e7am todos os dias, como dar um passeio, ir ao gin\u00e1sio ou ler as not\u00edcias durante uma ch\u00e1vena de caf\u00e9 de manh\u00e3.<\/p>\r\n

\u00c9 importante manter estas coisas porque vos torna mais pr\u00f3ximos um do outro. Muitos casais distanciam-se porque cada um tem as suas pr\u00f3prias coisas para fazer.<\/p>\r\n

They have to go to work, meet with friends and so on, so it\u2019s not strange that you somehow can part ways if you don\u2019t find things you can enjoy doing together.<\/p>\r\n

7. Dizer o que pensa\"8<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

Se sentir que tem de dizer alguma coisa, diga-o imediatamente.<\/p>\r\n

Don\u2019t hold it in because it will bother you and after some time you won\u2019t be able to be quiet and the only thing you\u2019re going to achieve is to release all the anger that was growing inside you by resenting your partner for something he did.<\/p>\r\n

And you could just say it right away and sort it out. Otherwise you\u2019re only going to fight more.<\/p>\r\n

8. Nunca deixar o romance morrer\"8<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

It\u2019s important in every relationship to keep showing your partner how much you care about them.<\/p>\r\n

D\u00ea um passo em frente e planeie um encontro rom\u00e2ntico \u00e0 luz das velas com ele. Leve-o a dar um passeio sob as estrelas.<\/p>\r\n

Show him that you love him and that you\u2019re never going to give up on the two of you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n

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