{"id":19271,"date":"2020-04-23T09:01:39","date_gmt":"2020-04-23T09:01:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19271"},"modified":"2022-01-04T13:42:57","modified_gmt":"2022-01-04T13:42:57","slug":"10-coisas-essenciais-a-fazer-antes-da-sua-proxima-relacao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-coisas-essenciais-a-fazer-antes-da-sua-proxima-relacao\/","title":{"rendered":"10 coisas essenciais a fazer antes da sua pr\u00f3xima rela\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"

Come\u00e7ar uma nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o depois de um desgosto amoroso \u00e9 um pouco dif\u00edcil. \u00c9 preciso dedicar muito tempo e esfor\u00e7o para renascer das cinzas e seguir em frente.<\/p>\n

Talvez tenha sido abusado ou manipulado numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o anterior, o que o levou a ter problemas de confian\u00e7a, mas acredita que conhecer algu\u00e9m novo e come\u00e7ar uma nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o o pode ajudar a curar-se.<\/p>\n

Because of the reason that starting a new relationship when you’re not ready for it can only break you even more, there are a few things that you should consider before you decide that you want a serious relationship again.<\/p>\n

1. Curar<\/span><\/h2>\n

I know that it’s easier said than done but no matter how much time it takes you, you have to heal!<\/p>\n

By starting a new relationship when you’re this broken, you can only break your own heart or the heart of your new partner. It doesn’t bring anything good to anyone.<\/p>\n

Tamb\u00e9m, you can’t expect your partner to help you heal<\/a>. That’s your job! You are the only one to whom you should go for advice on healing to become happy with yourself.<\/p>\n

2. Dar tempo a si pr\u00f3prio<\/span><\/h2>\n

Don’t rush it! Give yourself all the time that’s needed in order to be sure that you are finally over your ex. There’s no need to rush into the next relationship because it simply won’t bring you anything good.<\/p>\n

You won’t be prepared for the commitment and all the things that come together with a new relationship. So why jump into it?<\/p>\n

Give yourself time to do all the things you weren’t able to do while you were in your previous relationship.<\/p>\n

3. Torna-te quem sempre quiseste ser<\/span><\/h2>\n

You probably have a picture of the perfect woman in your mind. That woman isn’t someone the media presents you as but your own unique version of someone you want to become.<\/p>\n

Por isso, for\u00e7a! Torna-te a mulher durona que sempre quiseste ser.<\/p>\n

Vai atr\u00e1s da tua paix\u00e3o, encontra um emprego fant\u00e1stico, continua os teus estudos, veste todas aquelas roupas malucas que queres vestir. Prometo-te que haver\u00e1 algu\u00e9m que se apaixonar\u00e1 por ti, tal como tu te amas a ti pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

4. Tornar-se independente<\/span><\/h2>\n

Aprender a apanhar uma aranha sozinho. Aprender a mudar um pneu. Pagar sozinho todas as suas refei\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

Tomar decis\u00f5es importantes na sua vida. Fa\u00e7a todas estas coisas para mostrar a si pr\u00f3prio que you don’t actually need a man<\/a> mas que queres um.<\/p>\n

Becoming independent means that you are ready to live your life with or without a man\u2014because you will be able to take care of yourself.<\/p>\n

5. Data<\/span><\/h2>\n

I know that you can’t find someone who will know exactly what you want in a relationship but you can come close to it by knowing it yourself.<\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio para se sentir feliz, amado e apreciado? S\u00f3 pode saber isso namorando consigo pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

Saia para jantar e descubra os seus restaurantes preferidos. Compre flores e chocolate para si.<\/p>\n

Conhe\u00e7a-se verdadeiramente a si pr\u00f3prio, os seus desejos e necessidades, para poder dizer o que quer numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o da pr\u00f3xima vez que algu\u00e9m lhe perguntar.<\/p>\n

6. Passar tempo com os amigos<\/span><\/h2>\n

Now is the right time to catch up with all of your friends you didn’t have the time for before. Go on road trips together, have a shoulder to lean on and a support group.<\/p>\n

Ri-te! Sair e embebedar-se com eles.<\/p>\n

If you look hard enough, you’ll see that you aren’t alone in this world. Your friends will show you that there is life after heartbreak and that they are there for you whenever you truly need them.<\/p>\n

7. Faz uma lista das coisas que fizeste mal<\/span><\/h2>\n

One day, when you have enough time, just sit down and write a list of all the things you think that you did wrong in the relationship. Don’t be harsh on yourself but instead be rather realistic.<\/p>\n

By doing this you will know which aspects of your behavior in relationships you have to work on. If you always care too much and you end up spoiling your partner then I think that it’s finally time to find a way to not do it again.<\/p>\n

8. Pergunte a si pr\u00f3prio porque \u00e9 que quer estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/span><\/h2>\n

Do you think that you\u2019re just trying to convince yourself? Sente-se s\u00f3?<\/a>?<\/p>\n

Do you think that it’s easier to be in a relationship? Or maybe you don’t have a reason for it at all?<\/p>\n

If you can’t convince yourself with the answers of why you want to be in a relationship again, if it’s not reason enough, then don’t. You’ll be happier that you didn’t start a relationship before you were actually ready.<\/p>\n

9. Fazer encontros casuais<\/span><\/h2>\n

Just see how you will react to casual dating. Don’t let them into your home, don’t have sex, just dinner.<\/p>\n

Dating is OK, because you’re not rushing into a new relationship but rather you’re having some fun with people you find to be interesting. There is a difference.<\/p>\n

10. Perdoar<\/span><\/h2>\n

Don’t rush into the next relationship still carrying the weight of the previous one. There’s no need for you to hold grudges.<\/p>\n

Rather let go and forgive. I know that it’s hard, I know that if he deserved to be forgiven you would still be together. But forgive.<\/p>\n

O seu peito sentir-se-\u00e1 mais leve. Perdoe todos os erros que aconteceram na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o e continue a sua vida sem nenhum fardo para carregar. Merece-o.<\/p>\n

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