{"id":19287,"date":"2019-05-30T10:35:07","date_gmt":"2019-05-30T10:35:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19287"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:38:03","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:38:03","slug":"finalmente-tenho-a-coragem-de-dizer-que-era-demasiado-bom-para-ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/finalmente-tenho-a-coragem-de-dizer-que-era-demasiado-bom-para-ti\/","title":{"rendered":"Finalmente, sou suficientemente corajoso para dizer que era demasiado bom para ti"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ele \u00e9 que perde!<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

V\u00e1 l\u00e1, anima-te. Ainda h\u00e1 muito peixe no mar.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

\u00c9 <\/span><\/i>demasiado bom para ele<\/span><\/i><\/a> de qualquer forma!<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Estou?<\/b><\/p>\n

I didn\u2019t see you broken like I was. I didn\u2019t see you losing your posture even for a second when you were breaking things off. When you were telling me how I was holding you back. When you were telling me how I had changed, how I was not myself lately.<\/span><\/p>\n

Na altura, parecia que tinhas raz\u00e3o. Na altura, acreditei que eras demasiado bom para mim e que eu n\u00e3o merecia mais do que ser deitada fora como um tapete velho.<\/span><\/p>\n

Na altura, acreditava que merecia ser destru\u00edda.<\/span><\/p>\n

But\u2026<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

God, how I love this \u2018but\u2019.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

But not anymore. It\u2019s been months of me pitying myself, of me hating every single part of me, of hating my body and my mind, thinking that they drove you away. It\u2019s been months with me trying to find the sense in why you left. <\/span><\/p>\n

Was it because I was so tired lately? Was it because I couldn\u2019t keep up with your never-ending thirst for adventure? Was it because I was not pretty anymore?<\/span><\/p>\n

Meses em que me recusei a deixar algu\u00e9m entrar, porque eles iriam embora de qualquer maneira. Meses em que pensei que toda a gente me queria apanhar, que toda a gente me queria fazer mal e que, agora que te tinhas ido embora, n\u00e3o tinha ningu\u00e9m para me proteger. <\/b><\/p>\n

Meses a esconder-me dentro do <\/b>paredes que constru\u00ed<\/b><\/a> para manter toda a gente do lado de fora, mas apercebi-me demasiado tarde de que me tinha fechado.<\/b><\/p>\n

I still can\u2019t believe how well you did your job. I still can\u2019t believe that I was so blind to see what you were doing. Thinking that you loved me, I gave you all of me. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pensando que estavas a tentar manter-me em seguran\u00e7a, baixei a minha guarda em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a ti e coloquei-a contra todos os outros. Afastei os meus amigos e a minha fam\u00edlia, pensando que tu eras tudo o que eu precisava.<\/span><\/p>\n

Boy, was I wrong\u2026<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Quero felicit\u00e1-lo por me ter manipulado t\u00e3o bem que nunca o vi a acontecer. Quero dar-te os parab\u00e9ns por me teres despido de todas as minhas for\u00e7as, sem que eu me apercebesse e quero dar-te os parab\u00e9ns por teres perdido uma rapariga que queria ser tua. Por perderes algu\u00e9m que realmente se importava contigo.<\/b><\/p>\n

Mas tal como eu era cega para ver as tuas manipula\u00e7\u00f5es, tu eras demasiado cego para ver o meu valor. S\u00f3 vias o que precisavas e isso era apenas mais uma v\u00edtima dos teus jogos. <\/span><\/p>\n

And while I was blinded by love, you were blinded by your hatred, your pain and old scars. But even though I wasn\u2019t the one who caused them, I was the one who paid the price for every single one of them.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por cada vez que foste enganado, fizeste-o a mim.<\/b><\/p>\n

Por cada vez que te sentias menos digno, fazias-me sentir uma merda.<\/b><\/p>\n

Por cada vez que te faltou o amor, fizeste-me sentir n\u00e3o am\u00e1vel.<\/b><\/p>\n

But I don\u2019t care. Not anymore. You were nothing more than just another lesson in my life and you leaving was just another test I aced. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tive as minhas dificuldades e demorou algum tempo, mas ultrapassei-te, ultrapassei todo o inferno que me fizeste passar<\/span> and now I\u2019m happier than I ever believed I could be.<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m braver than I ever was, because I let people in. I gave away parts of me once again but this time I gave them to the right people. <\/span><\/p>\n

This time my heart is safe because it\u2019s guarded by people who never gave up on me, by people who patiently waited for me to come around, who waited for me to ask them for help.<\/span><\/p>\n

And I don\u2019t know what I did to deserve them, what I did to have their unconditional love, but I\u2019m so glad I have them. So grateful to have those who will always remind me of my worth, who will always remind me of my courage, my skills and my strength.<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m so grateful for having those who will always remind me that I was too good for you anyway.<\/b><\/p>\n

E finalmente, eu tamb\u00e9m estou a ver.<\/b><\/p>\n

Finally, I\u2019m bold enough to say it.<\/b><\/p>\n

De qualquer forma, eu era demasiado bom para ti!<\/b><\/p>\n

\"FINALMENTE<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

It\u2019s his loss! Come on, cheer up. There are plenty of fish left in the sea. You are too good for him anyway! Am I? I didn\u2019t see you broken like I was. I didn\u2019t see you losing your posture even for a second when you were breaking things off. When you were telling me…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":19288,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19287","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/jorge-flores-223750-unsplash-2.jpg",800,532,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19287","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19287"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19287\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19288"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19287"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19287"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19287"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}