We as humans make major changes in life and as humans we have evolved so much over a period of time, with technology, social media, clothing trends, etc. But one thing that hasn\u2019t changed over this period of time is the expected \u2018timeline\u2019 for us to settle down, get married, and have children, all before our \u2018biological clocks\u2019 time out.<\/p>\n
I\u2019m in my late 20\u2019s and most of my girlfriends are in relationships (or rela\u00e7\u00f5eshits<\/strong> como gosto de lhes chamar). Costumava sentir que era sempre eu que ficava para tr\u00e1s ou que acompanhava os meus amigos nas suas sa\u00eddas \u00e0 noite. J\u00e1 para n\u00e3o falar que costumava chorar at\u00e9 adormecer \u00e0 noite, quando me apercebia que a \u00fanica coisa\/objeto com que chegava a casa era o meu animal de peluche Mr.<\/p>\n One day, as I was out with my girlfriends on a much-needed wine tasting adventure, I found myself and my thoughts in a second bottle of rose. I\u2019m not sure whether it was the bubbles or just a waking moment but I realized Eu estava realmente \u00e9 muito melhor ser solteiro<\/a> do que nas rela\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/strong> I had to thank them all for this realization\u2014after all, if it hadn\u2019t been for them continually complaining about their fake relationshits or arguing over who had the best #couplestatus<\/strong>, I\u2019d still be thinking their lives were bliss while mine was shit.<\/p>\n Esses mesmos pensamentos levaram-me a esta conclus\u00e3o: ser solteiro<\/a> in your 20\u2019s is the most beautiful and life-liberating experience!<\/strong> So, while some days you may feel hopeless, I can promise you that the journey in finding yourself and who you truly are is well worth the wait. I promise if you are patient with yourself you\u2019ll find you won\u2019t have to repeat that vicious cycle of being the ever so single one. So if you feel hopeless or lonely, I hope you can look back on these 6 ways to realizing that being single in your 20\u2019s is nothing but pure enjoyment.<\/strong><\/p>\n Maybe it was because I wasn\u2019t in the right relationship but I often would get so frustrated when a partner would not compliment me on my accomplishments, no matter how big or small. However, over time and being alone with myself, I have learned that the only validation I need is from within. Aprendi a elogiar-me quando tenho bom aspeto e a felicitar-me quando alcan\u00e7o os meus objectivos ou realiza\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/strong> Eu sou verdadeiramente a \u00fanica pessoa que importa quando se trata de mim pr\u00f3pria!<\/p>\n So often when we get into relationships we lose who we are because we are so focused on catering to our partner\u2019s every need. I know we have all been there and that\u2019s OK. However, se dedicarmos algum tempo a estarmos sozinhos, podemos realmente aprofundar-nos <\/strong>n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios and ask the important question\u2026 what is your true purpose in life?\u2014what is your true calling?<\/strong> Est\u00e1 a fazer tudo o que pode para atingir esse objetivo ou voca\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/p>\n It\u2019s always nice to share dreams and aspirations with a partner. However, o seu parceiro n\u00e3o pode substituir os seus objectivos pessoais.<\/strong> In order to have a fully loving and shared experience with another human being, you must first know how to make yourself happy and fulfilled. If you are unhappy at work, don\u2019t expect a partner to fill that void. Your partner should be that accent to your life\u2014like that great pair of earrings!<\/p>\n Este \u00e9 o meu favorito absoluto! N\u00e3o tens ningu\u00e9m que te impe\u00e7a de viajar para certos lugares do mundo e n\u00e3o tens ningu\u00e9m a quem responder. If you decide to wake up and book a flight to Tahiti\u2014you can. You are free to go anywhere at any time.<\/strong> If you want to wear that special dress\u2014go for it. If you want to eat at YOUR favorite restaurant\u2014go for it. That little voice that used to say, \u201cWonder if he\u2019s OK with this, wonder if he\u2019ll like it, wonder if this fits his style,\u201d has been silenced and replaced by a loud, happy, boisterous shout of being oneself!<\/p>\n No passado, passava o tempo a escrever pequenas notas de apoio e a comprar aquela coisa especial para o agradar. Orgulhava-se muito de o fazer feliz, de o agradar. Se ele estava feliz, voc\u00ea estava feliz. A sua prioridade era agradar-lhe em primeiro lugar e acima de tudo. Agora j\u00e1 n\u00e3o! Agora pode mimar-se.<\/strong> Reservar esse dia no spa. Spend a little extra and get that dress you know you\u2019ve been wanting. Who says that little red sports cars are just for men! Go for it!<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00c9 capaz de compreender a import\u00e2ncia da fam\u00edlia e de ter apenas as coisas simples da vida. Uma coisa eu sei com certeza, I\u2019ve found closer relationships within my family and have a better understanding of being grateful for all that I have.<\/strong> No longer do I have to decide between him, HIS family or mine. I have managed to reconnect with my siblings and parents in a way I couldn\u2019t if he was still in the picture. I even have a closer connection with my sweet little dog!<\/p>\n Ver tamb\u00e9m: A mente de uma rapariga que nunca teve um encontro<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n1. Aprende que a \u00fanica valida\u00e7\u00e3o de que precisas vem de dentro de ti<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n
2. A liga\u00e7\u00e3o espiritual na descoberta de si pr\u00f3prio<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n
3. Podes perseguir os teus pr\u00f3prios sonhos e aspira\u00e7\u00f5es<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n
4. N\u00e3o est\u00e1s preso a nenhuma corrente<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n
5. Podes mimar-te<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n
6. Aprender\u00e1 a apreciar melhor as coisas que tem<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n