{"id":19393,"date":"2020-10-01T10:17:53","date_gmt":"2020-10-01T10:17:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19393"},"modified":"2022-03-01T22:55:29","modified_gmt":"2022-03-01T22:55:29","slug":"querida-outra-mulher","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/querida-outra-mulher\/","title":{"rendered":"Querida outra mulher"},"content":{"rendered":"

Apesar da minha devasta\u00e7\u00e3o e desgosto, quero obrigado<\/a>.<\/strong> Quero agradecer-vos sinceramente do fundo da minha alma.<\/p>\n

Agora, libertaram-me de todas as mentiras e noites de descanso que tive de suportar. Nunca mais vou ter de me sujeitar \u00e0quelas noites intermin\u00e1veis de tortura emocional que ambos me fizeram passar. Nunca mais vou deixar que a tristeza que voc\u00eas dois causaram ecoam na minha mente.<\/strong><\/p>\n

J\u00e1 n\u00e3o tenho de olhar para o meu reflexo atrav\u00e9s da po\u00e7a de l\u00e1grimas e perguntar-me onde \u00e9 que ele est\u00e1. Eu sei exatamente onde ele est\u00e1, e \u00e9 contigo.<\/p>\n

This person who you think you\u2019ll be able to trust and spend the rest of your life with will be impossible.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Impossible because the two of you built the fundamental blocks of your relationship on nothing but trickery and deception. Don\u2019t get me wrong, it takes two to tango. The amount of rage I have for you is triple for him and you both disgust me equally.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019m disgusted because sabia exatamente quem eu era.<\/strong> Olhaste-me nos olhos todas as ter\u00e7as-feiras na tua aula de spinning, encorajando-me a esfor\u00e7ar-me mais.<\/p>\n

Enquanto eu tomava banho sozinho depois das aulas, eras tu que te banhavas em cima dele.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o gostaria de nada mais do que colocar o teu nome em destaque e ser o mais b\u00e1sico poss\u00edvel ao dizer que voc\u00eas os dois se merecem um ao outro.<\/p>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Isto \u00e9 para uma jovem esposa de uma amante de longa data<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

However, that\u2019s the thing about ego\u00edsta<\/strong> people. Selfish people don\u2019t care how they get there or who they trample on in mud\u2014as long as they get there, it doesn\u2019t matter how. Ego\u00edsta<\/strong> pessoas como tu n\u00e3o t\u00eam remorsos pelo que fizeram, e pessoas ego\u00edstas como tu n\u00e3o perdem o sono \u00e0 noite quando pensam nos teus erros.<\/p>\n

No entanto, as pessoas ego\u00edstas sentir-se-\u00e3o magoadas quando a mesma quantidade de dor que causaram aos outros se reflecte nelas. Tu, minha querida, \u00e9s a sua pr\u00f3xima v\u00edtima e, por isso, tenho pena de ti.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You, my dear, are foolish to think he will not do the same to you. It will be the same old song for him. When he is high from the sick games he plays, it is over with you. Other women will be there to enter the scene. That\u2019s the thing with narcissistic men.<\/p>\n

Quando ele acabar de a despojar de toda a sua felicidade, vai encontrar outra mulher.<\/strong> Once he can groom you into the perfect model he wants, he can equally destroy you\u2014he did with me and he will do that with you.<\/p>\n

It won\u2019t take long for you to be placed into the same category that he has placed me and all his exes. The same category in which I now lie.<\/p>\n

Your once-shared special memories of the perfect euphoria you both created will now be replaced by his new gal because \u2018her\u2014your\u2019 jealousy was too much to bear. You, my dear, will enter that \u2018crazy ex\u2019 category.<\/strong> You\u2019ll leave him but one choice and that will be to find another.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not stupid sweetheart, I know that\u2019s exactly what he told you about me. I know because he made me listen to his guilty conscience when I asked him why the rest of his perfect relationships seemed to fail and end abruptly.<\/p>\n

No entanto, depois de todo o sofrimento que causaste, depois de toda a confus\u00e3o que criaste, n\u00e3o te odeio.<\/strong> Sei que ele quereria que eu te odiasse ou tivesse ci\u00fames de ti, mas tenho pena de ti.<\/p>\n

\"a<\/p>\n

I feel sorry because you\u2019ll now have to endure a future with this emotional psychopath.<\/strong> Agora vais ter de te justificar porque \u00e9 que agora \u00e9s tu a maluca. Tenho pena de ti que, num mundo cheio de mulheres que d\u00e3o poder a outras mulheres, sejas tu a \u00fanica who\u2019s alone.<\/strong><\/p>\n

O que desejo para ti, desejo que este doloroso li\u00e7\u00e3o aprendida<\/a> nunca mais se repetir\u00e1 na vossa vida.<\/p>\n

Desejo que compreendas que as ac\u00e7\u00f5es t\u00eam consequ\u00eancias e que, tal como a lei do karma, o que vai, volta. Desejo-vos que a vossa dor de cabe\u00e7a nunca seja t\u00e3o dolorosa como a minha.<\/strong><\/p>\n

What I wish for you is that you\u2019ll learn to enjoy your liberdade<\/strong> depois de tudo o que foi dito e feito. Desejo-vos nunca ter de morrer lentamente por dentro como eu morri.<\/strong> What I wish for you is that you find true love, true love that isn\u2019t built on lies or deception.<\/p>\n

Com os melhores cumprimentos,<\/p>\n

A confus\u00e3o de cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido que criaste.<\/p>\n

\"Querida<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Despite my devastation and heartbreak, I want to thank you. I want to sincerely thank you from the bottom of my soul. You have now set me free from all the subsequent lies and restless nights I had to endure. No more am I having to subject myself to those endless nights of emotional torture…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":120765,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29626],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19393","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-affair"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29626,"label":"affair"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Dear-Other-Woman-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29626,"name":"affair","slug":"affair","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29626,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","parent":29620,"count":132,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29626,"category_count":132,"category_description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","cat_name":"affair","category_nicename":"affair","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19393","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19393"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19393\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/120765"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19393"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19393"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19393"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}