{"id":19467,"date":"2018-06-05T09:16:02","date_gmt":"2018-06-05T09:16:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19467"},"modified":"2022-03-30T08:58:24","modified_gmt":"2022-03-30T08:58:24","slug":"nao-queres-o-que-o-resto-do-mundo-quer-nao-faz-mal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-queres-o-que-o-resto-do-mundo-quer-nao-faz-mal\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o queres o que o resto do mundo quer? N\u00e3o faz mal!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Independentemente do que a sociedade lhe diga e de qu\u00e3o exigente possa ser, acredite ou n\u00e3o, \u00e9-lhe permitido ter<strong> a sua pr\u00f3pria opini\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>People haven\u2019t evolved yet to the point where they realize that we are not all the same and that it\u2019s okay. Living your life the way your grandma lived it, just because she did, is EXTREMELY IRRATIONAL. You are not your grandma, this is not 50 years ago. You see, it\u2019s actually strange that it\u2019s not 50 years ago but people are still the same.<\/p>\n<p>What\u2019s really funny to me is that everyone\u2019s scared of the future because they think that artificial intelligence will take over the world but they don\u2019t realize that they are <strong>nada melhor do que os robots.<\/strong> I\u2019ve met a lot of people in my life and noticed how they act very similar even though they\u2019ve never seen each other before. Then I realized that they have something in common\u2014parents. No, I\u2019m not talking about long-lost twin brothers. I\u2019m saying how our parents have all been raised the same way. They do things just because they think they have to. That\u2019s how their parents raised them and that\u2019s how they\u2019re raising us.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou should get married before 30.\u201d That is the MOST ANNOYING rule to live by. I\u2019ve heard this so many times in my life and each and every time it sounds even more stupid. When I ask why, no one dares to answer because they don\u2019t have any logical answer. <strong>Mas ser\u00e1 que v\u00e3o sequer pensar nisso? N\u00e3o.<\/strong> They learned that that\u2019s how it\u2019s supposed to be and simply went with the flow. WELCOME TO THE 21st CENTURY, IN WHICH HUMANOID ROBOTS JUDGE REGULAR PEOPLE.<\/p>\n<p>I like to think of myself as a regular human being. Why, you ask? Well, first of all: I THINK. I use this sweet, little brain of mine to realize why I feel the way I feel, why I do the things I do, what I really want and why I want it. Sorry world but I\u2019m not programmed to think I should marry before 30 just because.<\/p>\n<p>It makes me really sad how people choose not to use the superpower they have\u2014their minds. <strong>A nossa mente \u00e9 m\u00e1gica!<\/strong> They can take us places we\u2019ve never been to or even places that don\u2019t exist. They can memorize more information than any computer in the world. They can create world-changing ideas. But that\u2019s all really tiring, isn\u2019t it? How dare I tell you to think?!<\/p>\n<p>Fine, don\u2019t think, I don\u2019t care. But please, if you\u2019re promoting that outdated philosophy our great-grandparents created, do it in the privacy of your own home.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t judge me if I don\u2019t want to be a stay-at-home mom. Even if I don\u2019t want to be a mom at all! It\u2019s fine. I\u2019m not sick, I\u2019m not crazy, I just have a different opinion from yours. Wow, I\u2019ve just realized, as I\u2019m writing this, what the reality of the situation is: if something is different, then it\u2019s crazy. I don\u2019t think a zebra thinks lions are crazy. Or does it? Now I don\u2019t know anymore.<\/p>\n<p>A quest\u00e3o \u00e9: o diferente n\u00e3o \u00e9 doentio e perverso. <strong>A diferen\u00e7a \u00e9 o que faz o mundo girar<\/strong> (sim, eu disse diferen\u00e7a, n\u00e3o dinheiro). Tudo no mundo tem os seus amantes e os seus odiadores e o mesmo acontece convosco e com as vossas opini\u00f5es.<\/p>\n<p>The only way to survive is to focus on the lovers (and objective critics, of course). Don\u2019t even think of focusing on hatred.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ama e ser\u00e1s amado.<\/strong> O \u00f3dio n\u00e3o passa de uma perda de tempo. Por isso, ignora o que te incomoda, ignora esses rob\u00f4s humanos que escolhem passar pela vida de olhos vendados. Concentra-te no amor que tens por ti e pelos outros <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/quem-o-inspira\/\">que vos inspiram<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Num mundo cheio de fluxos, seja o seu pr\u00f3prio mar calmo e est\u00e1vel.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>No matter what society tells you and how demanding it can be, believe it or not, you are allowed to have your own opinion. People haven\u2019t evolved yet to the point where they realize that we are not all the same and that it\u2019s okay. Living your life the way your grandma lived it, just&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":19487,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29637],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19467","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-hacks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29637,"label":"life hacks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/matt.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29637,"name":"life hacks","slug":"life-hacks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29637,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","parent":22911,"count":281,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29637,"category_count":281,"category_description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","cat_name":"life hacks","category_nicename":"life-hacks","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19467","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19467"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19467\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19487"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19467"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19467"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19467"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}